girl problems

[YungYung]

Re: girl problems

wait. I never said that I am going to spend my life with her. I haven't even thought about anything like that. I just meant that it's not like I just saw her and decided to go and talk to her.

rofl, if some guy was interested in me, and I heard him say that, I definitely would not be interested.

[MCRenaissance]

Re: girl problems

rofl, if some guy was interested in me, and I heard him say that, I definitely would not be interested.

Not to be rude but when you get a boyfriend do you immediately believe that your life is going to be spent with this one person? I'm just being honest.

[TheRaiRaiEatsBalloons]

Re: girl problems

#414593 +(9942)- [X]

DragonflyBlade21: A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

[jewpinthethird]

Re: girl problems

I missed that! God damn.

Whoops

<spoiler>

</end spoiler>

[DiscoBobbyPARANOiA]

Re: girl problems

I understand what you're going through.

I don't think these people saying 'You're too young,' 'you can't be serious at that age,' or whatever, need to stop.

You didn't spill to everyone to get flamed.

If you like her, or you think you like her, and she's a good person, persue it. You can't find the person just for you if you don't go through a few that aren't first. A few, hell, most likely a lot. I only read page 1,4, and 5, so I don't know what is going on 'tomorrow' that you meantioned (if that is, in fact, tomorrow, and I'm not horribly late) but what I would do is tell her how you feel one more time. Tell her that you think of her as more than a friend, but if she doesn't feel the same for you, then it's ok, and you still want to be friends.

Do not try to kiss her if she tells you that she doesn't want to date you. That would be bad, and she would most likely not talk to you again.

Personally, I met my wife when we were 14, and we're perfectly happy together. It can happen, so stop giving this kid ****. kthx.

[MCRenaissance]

Re: girl problems

tomorrow I see her and am planning to talk to her. You're not late. thanx for the advice. I'm working out how to talk to her. Like my opening line and that kind of thing.

EDIT:~:

Thank you to all for the advice. I'm going to school tomorrow and I'm going to sleep. I really apprecciate all of you for your responses. Ill post what happens after school ends. Once again thank you all. Wish me Luck!!

Peace,
MCRenaissance

[gerbi7]

Re: girl problems

Personally, I met my wife when we were 14, and we're perfectly happy together. It can happen, so stop giving this kid ****. kthx.

Thank god. For once someone who can actually say that he could have a perfectly fine relationship.

[JurseyRider734]

Re: girl problems

Personally, I met my wife when we were 14, and we're perfectly happy together. It can happen, so stop giving this kid ****. kthx.

I want to get married too =(

[mead1]

Re: girl problems

Personally, I met my wife when we were 14, and we're perfectly happy together. It can happen, so stop giving this kid ****. kthx.

Have a fun year-long mairrage and lifetime of paying child-support.

No offense, I hope it works out for you, but most of the time it doesn't.

[User6773]

Re: girl problems

Personally, I met my wife when we were 14, and we're perfectly happy together. It can happen, so stop giving this kid ****. kthx.

1) Do you have any kids?
2) If so, did you get her pregnant before or after the marriage?

I'm not being judgmental, I'm just curious. Don't answer if you don't want to.

[YungYung]

Re: girl problems

1) Do you have any kids?

Probably not, according to his profile he's 18. However, having a highschool relationship last 4 years, and being able to get married afterwards is definitely something to be respected. =)

[Lightknight924]

Re: girl problems

siihbap

I think you need to be supersmooth. More smooth than telling her by passing a note. but I guess you're 14. whatever.

Wtf asshole that won't help him at all. Being smooth isn't something everyone knows how to do. Expecially if you read the part that said "I couldn't even talk to her without stuttering or blushing." He is obvoiusly nervous around her and doesn't want to **** things up. Expecially if they can't go back to being friends.

I had this problem last year with a girl. I convinced myself to think that I was in love. As many times as I told her that I "loved" her, she rejected me. We weren't really "friends" though before that, but I can still see where you're frightened about losing her as a friend. What I suggest you do is tell her one more time, ask for an answer, then wait. Give her time to think about it. Don't sit there and wait for an answer right after you tell her.....she won't have enough time to think. Give her about a week. Then re-ask. You'll get an answer. If not, she is most likely not interested. D=

[TIMEDISORT]

Re: girl problems

If you like her then I say hell yeah!!!! Screw everyone else that says your to young to have a gf!

[MCRenaissance]

Re: girl problems

Went to school today. Couldn't talk to her since I didn't see her. All day it was just an assembly and receiving year books. Also signing. I'll talk to her tomorrow.

[YungYung]

Re: girl problems

Lightknight's post also reminded me of something that I could give you advice on from a girl's perspective.

Don't be repetitive

It's alright in your case since you never got a clear answer, but once you do get one, don't go on and on about it like many other guys seem to do. It doesn't make us feel bad or reconsider you, it annoys girls if anything. The last thing they want is a naggy boyfriend, correct?