girl problems

[MCRenaissance]

Re: girl problems

"Stick it in her butt and pee."

This should be the secret password for FFR Meetups, to let each other know we're really members of FFR.

Back to point please...tuesday is tomorrow.

[jewpinthethird]

Re: girl problems

Here's what you should say:

<SPOILER: Season 2 Finale of The Office>

"I'm in love with you. I'm really sorry if that's weird for you to hear, but I needed you to hear it....I just needed you to know. Once. I want to be more than just friends."

If she rejects you say

"I'm sorry I misinterpreted our friendship."

And then walk off. Keep it cool. Then, when she's had time to wallow in her own guilt, swoop in and kiss her.

</SPOILER>

[TheRapingDragon]

Re: girl problems

Woah woah, jewpin why would you suggest that he says "I'm in love with you" that is far too extreme for a 14 year old girl to hear, believe me, even though I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 17 I still know what 14 year old girls are like (I used to moderate at a teenhelp site...), they don't want "love" that's for sure.

If you are going to say anything to her you simply go up and say hey how's it going, talk like you usually do with her, keep it friendly, then just say "hey I was wondering if you wanted to go out this friday/saturday/whatever day". Keep it all very casual, don't bring up what you said, if she says no then that is your answer, if she says yes then you have a chance, then go on said "date". Don't even call it a date, it's sort of an unspoken rule that it'll be a date but if you keep going "yay I can't believe we're on a date together" she'll get a bit bored of you.

Well, that's all I can say to really help.

[mead1]

Re: girl problems

Here's what you should say:

"I'm in love with you. I'm really sorry if that's weird for you to hear, but I needed you to hear it....I just needed you to know. Once. I want to be more than just friends."

If she rejects you say

"I'm sorry I misinterpreted our friendship."

And then walk off. Keep it cool. Then, when she's had time to wallow in her own guilt, swoop in and kiss her.

At least, that's how it worked on the season finale of NBC's The Office.

I missed that! God damn.

[chickendude]

Re: girl problems

oh the advantages of being the nerdiest guy in the school
and liking the nerdiest girl in the school

none of the afformentioned problems

P.S.
just talk to her about whatever you usually talk to her about. (Don't bring up anything about liking her, like what RapingDragon said)
For me its like.... crosswords and programming. I'm guessing its different for you >_>;

[FishFishRevolution]

Re: girl problems

Points have been mentioned regaruding smoothness and chivalry. These are the best points of advice you can take because if it works, you're good, and if it doersn't, you still feel super cool and all the other girls will be like "Man look at how cool that guy is, I want him to put it in."

Also, no one really knows what they're doing at 14, but that doesn't mean you're not ready for a relationship. All you guys saying this kid is not mature enough for a relationship should step off and go back to your age elitism club meetings. You have to start somewhere and you're always learning. If you botch this, at least you'll have good stories to tell desperate forum goers.

ps I agree with Vx on this matter.

[vashthestampede0987]

Re: girl problems

Scorp you poser rofl.

[jbr7]

Re: problems

I've never had a gf, and stories like this make me happy for it.

(17)

[xox_inuyasha!_xox]

Re: girl problems

take it from a girl. she will probly be freaked out by it for a while. she'll get used to it. trust me. it happened to me. i have a friend named mark, and he started following me EVERYWHERE! after i found out that he had a crush on me, i stayed away from him. after a while a got used to it though.

[vashthestampede0987]

Re: girl problems

If you're going to take someone's advice MCR, make sure it's not from the person who posted above me.

[180digi]

Re: girl problems

Oh man. this reminds me of that one girl I liked at the end of 8th grade, about a year ago. I asked her if she wanted to go to a movie with me(of course not quite like that) and she was like, "Why?" I remember I posted this emotional thread in CT about like whats the point of it all. Looking back on it, a lot of the better things that have happened to me was because of her. I realized one day, "Why the **** would she want to go out with me?? I'm a ****ing freak!" Which was nearly true. I was like this nerdy vaugely marginalized kid who didnt really try to get good grades and did absolutely nothing in terms of extra cirriculars or anything like that, where as she did plenty of things. I thought, "What have I been doing all through middle school?? And basically i reinvented myself; this year i joined the baseball team, the school symphonic and marching bands, and next year im going to be doing soccer as well. It turned out I never got the girl(because she moved halfway across the continent that summer) but i feel that i would be better prepared to handle a situation if i liked a girl again(which im working on by the way =D). As for you, I would say just relax and be cool about it. If she doesnt want a serious relationship then she just doesnt want one. Perhaps you should apologize once for freaking her out, and then dont bring it up again or talk about it unless she wants to. Unless shes a like a real bitch i dont think she'd throw a friendship away just for that..

[stlunatic0124]

Re: girl problems

Women are ridiculous. Just stop caring so much now and save yourself a bunch of trouble. You're probably thinking "how is that even possible?" Just say "f*ck it" to everything and have fun.

bumping his reply but amen. You'll find that once you say **** it and stop caring, she'll start to like you. Trust us on this one.

[Shashakiro]

Re: problems

I've never had a gf, and stories like this make me happy for it.

(17)

ditto

[MCRenaissance]

Re: girl problems

uhh, I just got back from my cousins house. It was a pretty long drive and I didn't feel very good. Not to mention that every once in a while I thought about tomorrow and gave a quick moaning sound. feel bad. Not bad enough to chicken out or anything but uhh. God this is going to be hard...

[JurseyRider734]

Re: girl problems

holy **** and i thought vash was a moron

Don't worry, he still is. He ripped off one of the most ripped-off quotes in FFR history while trying to be funny, which it truthfully wasn't, and therefore it makes him possibly even more of a moron than before.