MapleStory

[banditcom]

Re: MapleStory

NO FLAMING IN THE GUILD

That's a rule.

Anyways, the flaming has to stop on in the game, on all sides. I was just flamed by Tee for coming on and saying "so it looks like I have to lay some rules down for you kids". When people flame over this kind of stuff, yes, it has got to stop. Derek called Tee a dumb bitch, which is wrong. Chris (Hevi) calls people an asshole or to shut the **** up a lot. Stop. Everyone flames each other. We're all at fault, including me.

If we give each other a hard time, like I did with the "kids", make sure they know it's only giving them a hard time. I was at fault for that tonight for not making it very clear that I was only giving a hard time, which is the reason why I said sorry. I realized "okay maybe I was wrong and didn't make it clear, so I'll apologize for it". I listened to your side, explained that I only meant it in jest, and apologized for not being clear that I was. I didn't apologize for the comment because it wasn't meant as bad, only that I didn't make it clear that it was a joke. See, I admit when I'm wrong or when I could be wrong in a different viewpoint. That's a good thing. It's better than flaming back and it shows I understand and am listening to your side.

*sighs* No matter what I do, I'm always wrong to some people...

I think I may disband the guild if the flaming doesn't stop soon.

[IAAW]

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Jason, the flaming won't stop. Yes, it could stop sooner or later, but then, once it stops, some friggin idiot will come and say "dud sum gai di-famd meh, di-fam/repot ploxzor's, or i well hax yur acont lololroflzors"., or something like that, and flaming will start up again.

I'm not taking sides or anything, but it's pretty much a thought compared to the fact that there's alot of flaming going on. That's yet another reason why I left the Xqsite guild; I was ****ing tired of "some dud di-famd me", or "guid meber di-famd meh, kik plox". It was too annoying.

But you DO have a point, Jason. The flaming has to stop. It's getting out of control. I'm surprised Synth/LD/Tass/random mod/random admin hasn't banned anyone yet. Seriously. T_T

[TheAznLarry]

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Are you kidding me? When we flame, most of the time we're completely joking, and both sides understand o.O

Might as well change it to "NO MORE MAKE TEH FUNNEH"

PS: IAAW, that has never happened before.

Most of the time when people flame you over you build, their probably sick of people not listening to advice and then quitting their characters. Probably sucks the most right now, cause half of the people are temp-banned, and the guild is boring.

PPS: Since i have kikz0r powerz, I demand to be called "Skeeto the Enforcer" or i automatic ban j00.

[banditcom]

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I'm not talking about here. I'm just talking about in game.

Example with your situation: we helped you out a lot when you asked questions or for help, though sometimes you were flamed. But you kept doing the things that people discussed with you (discussed not flamed). That was your fault for not listening to what everyone was discussing with you about. Eventually the discussions with you stopped and the flaming was in full force. You probably should have been kicked long before you left because you wouldn't listen to the guild's issues with you. Lots of wrongs on both your end and the rest of our end. Though, I have no problems with you and if you ever wanted back in, you're welcome back. Just as long as you listen to people when they discuss their problems with you.

Are you kidding me? When we flame, most of the time we're completely joking, and both sides understand o.O

Might as well change it to "NO MORE MAKE TEH FUNNEH"

Some people actually really flame and fall back on "teh funneh". Some people are only joking. Some people aren't at all.

Real flaming has got to stop.
Joke flaming has to be more clear.

Both are issues as seen by today. Derek called Tiana a bitch. Real flaming. I came on and called the guild kids. Joke flaming that wasn't clear that it was (in Tiana's eyes). It doesn't matter that I meant it as a joke flame. She saw it as a real one. So I apologized.


I'm only trying to fix the guild and make it a better place to be. Ugh... I get bitched at for a ****ty guild. Then I get bitched at for trying to fix it.

[Farka]

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I'm so glad I stuck with my JesusFreaks guild. We're always on the uprise and everyone's always kind to one another. We don't flame....we joke...and I'm the only one who uses sarcasm in my jokes like FFR does. You're all too dramatic over these things that hardly effect you. They effect someone else...but hardly you....and yet you still get your nose in it...but hey whatever I'm not in the guild so I don't really know. It just seems that these arguments come far too frequently.

Peace out, Thanatos.

[IAAW]

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Well, I kinda felt like I was being "ordered", not "discussed". Of course, I have the retarded problems of NOT SAYING ANYTHING, so it's pretty much lots of wrongs on my side. But I left Xqsite because I felt I had a valid reason to. I would rather have people buddied then ending up dealing with some talk I don't like, like "lol ur buld sux" and stuff.

I like trying stuff out. But I'm not gonna crawl back to Xqsite. I felt like I had a valid reason to leave, and I left.

[ddr_dude]

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I'm not talking about here. I'm just talking about in game.

Example with your situation: we helped you out a lot when you asked questions or for help, though sometimes you were flamed. But you kept doing the things that people discussed with you (discussed not flamed). That was your fault for not listening to what everyone was discussing with you about. Eventually the discussions with you stopped and the flaming was in full force. You probably should have been kicked long before you left because you wouldn't listen to the guild's issues with you. Lots of wrongs on both your end and the rest of our end. Though, I have no problems with you and if you ever wanted back in, you're welcome back. Just as long as you listen to people when they discuss their problems with you.



Some people actually really flame and fall back on "teh funneh". Some people are only joking. Some people aren't at all.

Real flaming has got to stop.
Joke flaming has to be more clear.

Both are issues as seen by today. Derek called Tiana a bitch. Real flaming. I came on and called the guild kids. Joke flaming that wasn't clear that it was (in Tiana's eyes). It doesn't matter that I meant it as a joke flame. She saw it as a real one. So I apologized.


I'm only trying to fix the guild and make it a better place to be. Ugh... I get bitched at for a ****ty guild. Then I get bitched at for trying to fix it.

I know you proabably won't listen to me but w/e. I say just lay clear rules in BBS stateing the consequences for breaking the rules. Also you guys need to bond more. Everyone is walking on eggshells in that guild. Everyone flames when they get a chance, go "bond". Wether it be GPQ, just screwing around somewhere, whatever it may be. I know your only one person Jason so I know it's hard but that's what I suggest.

[Farka]

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Wow...this is getting annoying...can you guys just discuss this in a chat room on aim or something? Some of us don't want to keep reading about this drama...........

So anyways....level 40 get on my Spearman. =D

[ToshX]

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It'd make a hell of a lot more sense to just divide the guilds up in two. Flamefests are generally two-sided, and they always seem to consist of the same people.

[ckj846]

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Well when I was in the guild for that very very short amount of time, it was rather confusing... When the guild was active, guild chat was spammed like crazy and I had a hard time keeping up (this was when I was on my fire mage, and then that spearman that emccky and I were training up). You guys said it was dead now though? I honestly think that in this case, it's a form of miscommunication... If nothing works, just kick the kids that are flaming the most. Give them warnings and kick them. Be fair about it, there is no choosing favorites. I know Jason is a fair guy so I think that whatever he says should go... Just my few cents.
O_o

[B0NK]

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Hey Travis, why don't you go use your hacked mesos on your 'legit' account. Kthxbai.

And Jason, I thought you were right tonight, except for the beginning when you didn't know that Derek called Tee a dumb bitch.

I mean, yeah I flame people, but I'm generally saying what is on everyones mind.
For example, ThRedemption is seriously the most annoying person ever, even more so than IAAW.

In doing so I get labeled as the asshole.

[OniSplitter]

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Hey Travis, why don't you go use your hacked mesos on your 'legit' account. Kthxbai.

And Jason, I thought you were right tonight, except for the beginning when you didn't know that Derek called Tee a dumb bitch.

I mean, yeah I flame people, but I'm generally saying what is on everyones mind.
For example, ThRedemption is seriously the most annoying person ever, even more so than IAAW.

In doing so I get labeled as the asshole.

From my experiences it seems like you say what YOU THINK is on everyone elses mind. Even if you ARE correct (which I don't believe you are) it doesn't mean you have to be so brutally honest with anyone. If everyone was like you we would have even more people walking up to each other and insulting each other, fighting, getting killed, etc. Fortunately that's not the case and MOST people have the common decency to either keep to themselves or be honest, but to a degree... There's an extent that is being honest, and an extent that is being a asshole. Guess which one you fall into? "kthxbai"

I realize I probably just contridicted my reasoning and flamed him unecessarily but his omnipotent atitude was getting to me~the fact that he makes eveything sound like he is right. -_-

[B0NK]

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You're gonna sit there and tell me that they're not annoying?

Whatever, may as well just leave the guild because apparently, no one
in the guild likes me anyway. O.o

[banditcom]

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Travis: Yes, that is a good suggestion. It's one of the first things I wanted to do. But I'm handicapped at the moment in that regard.

Cam: I'm huge on trying to make it clear at communicating. Though I have the problem of communicating too much instead of just letting something go or giving it space. Or a person space...

Chris: I know. Which is why I apologized. I was trying to make light of it by the first comment, but still went after you. Blah. Again, I make mistakes too. I owned up to it. You accepted it; Tee didn't. There is nothing more I can do. And yes, I know all about him. He can be very annoying. He just turned 13 though. He's got a lot to learn. Tyler can be a good guy sometimes. Just needs reminders about what and what not to do. About your "yeah I flame people": It's good to light flame in order to make light of a situation, but try not to full out flame. It causes problems. I know some people can test your patience, that's when you use the blacklist if they still aren't listening to your concerns.

EDIT: Chris: Oni is only expressing a viewpoint of his. He isn't flaming you or trying to push your buttons. What he is saying is how I feel too. Often times, your "honesty" is too much. Cut some slack. Be the mature one. I know it's fun to be ****y and **** around with people, but do that with the ones you are actually friends with. Who won't take it as too far and will take it as your way of expressing honesty.


All I'm asking are for open discussions and expressing concerns, instead of fighting and flaming. And to make the joke flaming clear that you're joking, especially to the less mature ones. If someone takes it the wrong way, explain that it wasn't meant that way and maybe apologize for it. This is all I ask. That will be a huge step in the right direction. I love the guild. I love the people in it. I'm so jealous of Chris, Larry, and Tee all partying together. I want to party with the guild too. Yeah sure it's just a game, but the guild is a big part of the game for us. Let's make it work. We work on the getting along together and working with the less mature on being tolerable. Remember if someone doesn't shape up, we can kick them and get someone who is more mature.

[irteee]

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Must you post everything up here Jason, I'll leave "YOUR" guild, with your rules, if that makes it better for you and everyone else. No offense, but I do see why some have said, you are too controlling, since they thought the guilds were theres too. (those who were there since guild was made)

God, so damn serious about 'the guild'.
It was much better in the begining, where people loved to joke.
That' doesn't make sense coming from me, but I only think that what's my business and between another, is ours. Not yours, or his or hers.
I understand why you're making rules, but shesh, since when is maple story suppose to be someone you know that controls it. Aren't games suppose to be funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn ~__^.
And yes, it is fun for me to make people online mad(that I don't know at all), but you said the most retarded things tonight, coming from you only made me mad.

oh I lvled after..4months? =D yay.