age issues

[omegalpha789]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

Dewayne, If I were you I'd be angry too because I wouldn't want that to happen to my child if I had one. I think it depends on your beliefs/religion. Also on the daughters own choice on whether she wants to sex or not (that is to be forced).

[SuperSonicX]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

Here's my opinion you can think of the 22 year old as a future sex offender and think of the 16 year old as either a future porn star or a prostitute. Either way I don't think it matters because while we're discussing this, they have probably already did what they wanted to do.

P.s.: Don't do this in the U.S. or you'll have a nice bedroom behind bars.

[Nyokou]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

Hi, I like to determine people's future lives based only on the choices they make in their sexual lives and not even considering what kind of person they really are.

Jump off a cliff and die.

[eastsideman09]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

in this situation, i think its pretty wrong for this 22 yo to have relations with this 16 yo...... this guy posted this blog in a "pick up lines" website, and only started talking to the girl because he was looking for booty.

HE even had second thoughts about having sex with her when he found out she was 16.....

in this situation, the two hooking up would be wrong.... they dont love each other. hell, they met that day and talked for like 2 hours about why you shouldnt shop at american eagle..... they have no idea who the other person is...


now, in general, you cant really determine the morality of 16-22 yo sex.... you gotta know details, like this story for example.....

personally, i think its wrong. i really dont think a 16 yo girl knows what shes talking about when she says shes in "love" in most cases.... especially when shed be with a 22 year old.....

look at it this way.... if youre 16, you got another good 60 years left in you..... im SURE you can find someone later on in life without even having to worry about sex. if you feel strongly for someone.... wait it out.... if theyre worth it, theyll be willing to wait too..... and it will probably be worth the wait of a few years.... you can love, without legal problems....

Trust me, I know there are some pretty good guys around my age. Sorry if it seemed as if I was making ALL guys look bad, but it's not true. It's just.. I tend to go for the older ones because they've gone through more, and they can teach me more. :/

k, glad to read that you dont think ALL guys are like that... lol

but, i hope you also know that just because a guy is older, it doesnt mean hes more mature..... take the 22 year old this thread is about... hes an asshole.

and i know plenty of 18 year olds that have never had a gf/gotten kissed/ect....

age doesnt always mean more maturity and experience.....


BUT, in most cases, it does..... all i think i can say is.... be careful?

[Nyokou]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

The 16-year-old and the 22-year-old obviously aren't in it for "love" or any kind of crap like that. I'm sorry, but I ****ing hate when people automatically assume that the younger girl is in it for love when she's in it for the same exact reason that the older guy is. She's not stupid, she KNOWS what she's doing. She wants to have sex, no strings attached. Don't pull this "she's stupid for thinking he loves her" kind of crap, it didn't even SEEM like she felt that way, HOLY CRAP.
It only makes me mad because people did the same exact thing to me here on FFR when I told them about my whole situation like 2 years ago. I was NEVER in it for love or caring or any relationship bs. It was all about the sex, and then people called me stupid and I never.. not even ONCE mentioned that I was "in love" with him or wanted any of that crap from him. God, you are SO stupid.

And yeah, age DOES matter. Even if a guy hasn't been in a relationship before, if he's older, he can control himself more, and he knows what he wants usually, and he can HANDLE himself. Most guys around my age just can't. Most guys around my age are usually in it for getting laid. It's USUALLY the older guys who look past appearances and look at my personality rather than my face or my body.

I can guarantee you that maybe 90 or more percent of the 13-18 year-old guys on FFR will tell you that appearance plays a large, or even very small role when dating someone. Hell, even my last boyfriend who is MY age said that the perfect girl for him would be a GOOD LOOKING girl with a great personality. You can take that any way you want, and he can cry about it not being the way I interpret it, which obviously to me.. means that "Oh, you're not pretty enough, but you have a great personality!"

[SuperSonicX]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

Jump off a cliff and die.

sure i'd love to once you stab yourself for impersonating other people.

[Nyokou]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

I edited it on purpose. You're just assuming that the guy will become a sexual offender and the girl a porn star for wanting to have a good time? That is so closed-minded. You're also a perfect example of someone who needs to open their eyes and get a reality check. :/ Seriously. Lame, man.

[MixMasterLar]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

The 16-year-old and the 22-year-old obviously aren't in it for "love" or any kind of crap like that. I'm sorry, but I ****ing hate when people automatically assume that the younger girl is in it for love when she's in it for the same exact reason that the older guy is. She's not stupid, she KNOWS what she's doing. She wants to have sex, no strings attached. Don't pull this "she's stupid for thinking he loves her" kind of crap, it didn't even SEEM like she felt that way, HOLY CRAP.

THIS is why the Us makes laws like this. The 16 year old girls arnt mature enought. You think that cuz your do it makes it less taboo, or even right? I disagree.

Dont Like the laws? move.


and eveything Guido said makes sense

[eastsideman09]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

took my discussion to the PM's..... tooooo looong....

Dont Like the laws? move.

i lol'd... i might sig this....

[JasonKey]

Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

illegal. period. This is not exactly the kind of forum for that kind of discussion.

Try a parenting forum.