Dad's girlfriend.

[Wize2B]

Has anyone not liked your Dad’s girlfriend and if so, what did you do?

[psychoangel691]

Re: Dad's girlfriend.

Yep, my dad's now married to her. I wont get into my story so much but it's a hard situation. Especially if you used to be close with your dad and now it feels like she's kinda in the way. You can try talking about it with him and explain what's bugging you. Try to reach some kind of compromise. Or end up like me where I never even hear from my dad. He doesn't even bother to see how his granddaughter is :/

[rushyrulz]

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I stormed out of the house when she was talking shit about me behind my back, which resulted in my not going back to my dad's house for weeks until he finally broke up with her because he realized that she was a total bitch, just like I realized the day I met her.

[TC_Halogen]

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Somewhat similar situation, but different outcome: my parents were together for almost 20 years before breaking apart -- my mom has a resentment towards my father's new girlfriend, and she also expects me to carry that resentment over because she gave birth to me. It's incredibly unfair for her to expect me to carry that kind of attitude, because she's essentially trying to dictate my morals from 700 miles away.

My father's new girlfriend doesn't start drama at all, and actually, she seems quite nice and well-mannered.

[Emo_Saur_]

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Yeah, it sucks dude. I've told my dad countless time about how much I can't stand her he just doesn't care. Best of luck though, I can't really help with this since I'm in the same exact situation as you are.

[rushyrulz]

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Then he tried to tell me she had some thyroid disease that made her a bitch..

Ok, I'm also guessing she had OCD, bi-polar disorder, and ****ed-up syndrome because she carries a giant bottle of sanitizer everywhere she goes, totally loses her temper over the most minor of things and is fine 3 minutes later, and she wants to go down to the river to see the flood damage and houses underwater. What a ****ed up bitch.

[Emo_Saur_]

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Rushy gettin' all heated. Dude, it'll be all good, move the **** out.

[Coolboyrulez0]

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Nope, glad to not have problems like these. Mom & Dad still together after 20+ years, grandparents over 50 years now :')

[rushyrulz]

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Rushy gettin' all heated. Dude, it'll be all good, move the **** out.

She's gone now so I ain't moving nowhere :P

[ichliebekase]

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Similar situation but it's my grandfather's girlfriend (now wife) that I didn't/don't like. She came around shortly after my brother was born and she's just a stuck-up, snotty goody-two-shoes. I was a trouble-maker and liked to run around and play like a normal kid, but around her, I had to be a "proper little lady". She turned my grandpop into a COMPLETE asshole and now I refuse to speak to either of them, especially since Jaselynn was born. His ex-wife (my grandmom) is amazing though and she met a guy before I was born and he's the best. Even my mom says that he's a better father than her own father was.

[justin_ator]

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Problems with my step-dad rather than step-mom, and yet to be resolved.

Which is really interesting since it was my step-mom who caused the divorce between my parents by cheating with my dad. I have less of a problem with her than I do with my step-dad.

[BethanyBangs]

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Dad's girlfriend is the lady that my dad cheated on my mom with and made them divorce when I was 11. I hated her for years and years, I just recently got over it and realized I'm happy with my life I guess, having a stepmom and a stepdad, a dad and a mom in two separate homes. Dad's married to her now, and in our culture I HAVE to call her mom or else it's disrespecting her. They also have a baby, my only brother that's a year old. Can't really do anything if your dad is in love with her~

[rushyrulz]

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in our culture I HAVE to call her mom or else it's disrespecting her.

I would find this extremely difficult if not impossible to do :F.

[BethanyBangs]

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I would find this extremely difficult if not impossible to do :F.

Ohoho it was hard. Very hard. Whenever I slipped up and caller her by her first name I was like fuc! But now it's a regular thang. I still find it odd when I leave to come back here to Mom's and she's like "Bye I love you!" I just say it back.. LOL

[LJRoX]

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Bethany that's why azn culture sucks


I hate my culture too much where I say I straight up to both of my parents: I hate filipinos