Dad's girlfriend.

[iironiic]

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Bethany that's why azn culture sucks

I can easily vouch for this. I still love my parents though haha.

[BethanyBangs]

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otays lj and rilson that's why we no marry azns!!!!!!!11

[Cold Kitten]

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Problem with my mom's boyfriend. Then again, I'm not particularly fond of my mother to begin with... (long story). But yeah. I don't like either of them, and around my mom he pretends to like me, but as soon as we're not around her, it's a completely different story and whatnot. Not a whole lot I can do about it though. x.x;

[Wize2B]

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Psychangel691
That is too bad, he does not know what he is missing, he will regret it someday!

Rushyrulz
Wow, she must have been bad, how did you know the first time you met her that you did not like her?

She must have said something pretty bad about you if you stormed out of the house.

I wish I could figure out a way to make her leave, but here is my problem. She is nice and not a b**** like your dad’s girlfriend was. The three of us do things together and she is nice to me. She tries to include me. She buys me and my dad things on holidays to show that she wants to be my friend. Her and I have even done things together. I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I just do not like anyone around except my dad and I. I am sure that sounds weird and selfish to most of you. I know I should want my dad to find someone and be happy since he and my mom divorced. I just don’t know what to do.

TCHalogen
That is too bad. I have that same thing too. My Mom says bad things about my Dad’s girlfriend and my Dad. I just don’t say much when she does.

Emo_Saur
Yeah dude, it does suck.

Subin
Hopefully she will realize that it is natural for kids to want to be with the parent/person that was there for them during their childhood years, especially if they were good to you.

Coolboyrulez0
You are so fortunate.

Icliebekase, justin_ator, BethanyBangs and Cold Kitten
I know it is hard.

[benguino]

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I lived with my mom for most of my life. Let's just say it's a long story with a lot of people I have to deal with (mom, dad, mom's current boyfriend, mom's ex-boyfriend, mom's ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriends, mom's current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, dad's wife, dad's ex-girlfriend, and the families of all those people I listed). It gets complicated really fast. I love both of my parents though. Although I wasn't too fond of my mom's boyfriend, I'm an adult now and he respects that so we are on equal terms with each other now (although I still don't like hanging out with him)

[rushyrulz]

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how did you know the first time you met her that you did not like her?

Combination of the most annoying voice and the most annoying personality I have ever heard. She treated my dogs like they were saints and would actually knock on my door when she came over and shouted in my room "How come you don't come out and run circles around me like the dogs do?" I didn't care the first time, but when it became a weekly thing I got pretty pissed off to the point where if she said anything about me especially behind my back I was ready to get up and leave the house.

It was also my 19th birthday when I stormed out and I was no longer legally bound to stay at my dad's house. If we're getting into the gritty details, I stormed out opened the garage and started my car to notice that she was parked behind me. My dad comes out into the garage and I explain to him why I stormed out and I tell him to get her to move her car. So he goes back into the house and I'm waiting in my car for her to come out and move whatever. Instead he comes back out and says, "Uh she's not taking this too well and said that if she was getting between me and my son, she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore" (which is totally bullshit by the way, she was just saying that to guilt trip him so he would come out and guilt trip me.) So I can't respond to that since I just got emotionally assfucked, but there wasn't really an awkward silence or anything because he just went back into the house.

So my natural reaction is to call my mom, right? I just got guilt tripped by my dad and I'm mad at his bitchy girlfriend for saying shit about me and I was planning on going to mom's house. Dad comes back out and I hand him the phone because mom wants to talk to him and that bitch comes out a few moments later and throws my birthday cake through my driver's side window into my car (still in the bag and case still, but cmon), storms off back into the house to collect her shit to gtfo I guess, so I'm about to get my phone back from dad (and he lectures me a few week later about why I don't need to call mom about matters happening at his house, so I don't know what happened in that conversation but I'm guessing my mom gave him a piece of her mind) Then she comes out and starts flipping the fuck out on me (and that's when my dad conveniently ended the call with my mom because he knew she could hear the screaming through the phone)

Long fight short, she kept telling me I was acting like an 8 year old which is funny because I'm not the one throwing cake into a car, and telling me how much time and effort and shopping she's put in for me (and I never asked for any attention from her, nor did I particularly want it, she was way too confrontational and naggy for my liking anyway and I tried my best to make that known without saying it to her face), calling me a terrible immature person etc etc etc, while I'm just keeping my cool telling her to please move her car. Finally my dad pulls her away and she yells a resounding "FUCK HIM! FUCK HIM!" Then I get to wait my ass in the car for another 15-20 minutes while she packs up all her shit and finally leaves. I go to my moms house, cry for about 2 hours, have a couple sleepless nights, and stay at my mom's house for the next month or so, during which time I had no outreach from my dad and when my mom called him about 5 days after the incident he was actually siding with his now ex-girlfriend on half the shit that went down and practically ignoring that she totally flipped shit over a minor thing and ruined my birthday entirely.

They apparently got back together about a week after the incident which was the primary reason I didn't go back. Eventually, after about 25-30 days dad came over to mom's house to talk about it and he assured me she was a changed woman (which I didn't buy for 1 second), but I agreed to come back the next week. After a few weeks of staying at dad's house monday-friday (and leaving on friday afternoon because that's when she got there and stayed for the weekend) I decided to stay through the weekend once. I completely avoided her the entire time and only saw her once or twice when I came down to eat dinner. On Saturday night, he came up to my room and told me he broke up with her because she was allegedly still talking shit about me and saying she shouldn't have to apologize for shit, and other various reasons that led up to him breaking up with her (too controlling mainly). So I let out a sigh of relief and say good riddance and they haven't gotten back together since, so that's a good sign. Few weeks later before a football game, he said she e-mailed and told him she had some thyroid disease probably for sympathy or something, then he looked up the effects of the disease, one of which was bitchiness. But you can see my previous post for my reaction to that information.

So I'm living happily ever after since then. Sorry for holywallsoftext

tl;dr: bitch was talking about me behind my back, I left, she threw a cake in my car, we got in a fight (verbal), I never got an apology from her or my dad, he realized she was a bitch and they broke up.

[who_cares973]

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my mom met my step-dad when i was 10-11. we go weeks at a time without saying a single word but i neither hate nor like him. he's just there kinda like a pet turtle

[YoshL]

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my grandmother remarried after my grandfather died. He's amazing.

And parents are coming up on their 20th anniversary soon.

EDIT:
Also, i can also vouch for azn culture though.

[Vanilla Mnm]

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I killed her. I'm not joking.

[TheNoSoMan]

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Details or it didn't happen.

[irionman]

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You've just gotta keep your pimp hand strong.

[Emithith]

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Eheh..
It's not my Dad's girlfriend I have a problem with, it's my dad. lmao

Though my Dad's girlfriend is psychotic. (perfect couple, how cute. ♥)

[MarukuAntoni]

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Milf?

[Wize2B]

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Reuben_tate
That is a lot of people to keep track of.

Rushyrulz
Oh my gosh, I can’t believe all that happened on your birthday, the first time that you met her, if I am reading this right! If this was not the first time you met her, I hope that it was not that way from the very beginning and was your dad’s girlfriend ever nice to you?
You never did said what she said about you that was sooooooo bad that made you storm out, if you can put it on this forum that is! Still don’t see my dad’s girlfriend leaving, since she is so nice to me.

Who_cares973
That would be hard to be in the same house with someone that you barely talk to.

Yoshi
That is great.

Vanilla MnM
PLEASE, TELL ME YOU ARE JOKING!

[rushyrulz]

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Rushyrulz
Oh my gosh, I can’t believe all that happened on your birthday, the first time that you met her, if I am reading this right! If this was not the first time you met her, I hope that it was not that way from the very beginning and was your dad’s girlfriend ever nice to you?
You never did said what she said about you that was sooooooo bad that made you storm out, if you can put it on this forum that is! Still don’t see my dad’s girlfriend leaving, since she is so nice to me.

No that wasn't the first time I met her lol. I didn't really take too much offense at what she said that made me storm out, it's that she said something negative about me behind my back and acting like mommy knows best when she isn't my mommy. I decided I don't need to take that shit from her and left. (This was about a year into their relationship.)