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  • masterhickle
    FFR Player
    • Apr 2005
    • 557

    #1

    The problem kid is back!!

    Yep...my problems in RL and I are back! And with a new problem! Same topic to boot!

    So yeah...I ask her why we have so much trouble stringing together a conversation. And it turns into the typical argument.

    J Von Schwartz: one final question
    J Von Schwartz: which was the original question, slightly rephrased
    J Von Schwartz: I've noticed....
    J Von Schwartz: I am seriously the only guy you seem to have a problem talking to
    J Von Schwartz: why?
    J Von Schwartz: just answer it please
    - returned at 10:42:10 PM.
    -: i don't...really...i don't think i do
    -: why do you say that?
    J Von Schwartz: you do it
    -: like with what other guys?
    J Von Schwartz: you can talk to anyone BUT ME
    J Von Schwartz: Im not even going on
    J Von Schwartz: you're denying facts
    J Von Schwartz: you know you do it
    J Von Schwartz: why not just admit it?
    -: because i talk to you
    J Von Schwartz: hardly
    -: that makes no sense
    J Von Schwartz: ever
    J Von Schwartz: except in arguments
    -: i do
    J Von Schwartz: which do not count for convos
    J Von Schwartz: a string of 5-10IMs every hour is not legitimate enough to even be considered idle chit-chat
    J Von Schwartz: and you know that's true
    -: i have a question also...what do you talk about with matt?
    J Von Schwartz: I talk about what I can do to try and better things
    J Von Schwartz: since he can offer some helpful input and not spread the word to anyone

    Later....
    J Von Schwartz: can I please just get an answer
    J Von Schwartz: I dont want an argument
    -: to what
    J Von Schwartz: I dont want a lecture
    -: gosh
    -: to what!
    J Von Schwartz: J Von Schwartz: I've noticed....
    J Von Schwartz: I am seriously the only guy you seem to have a problem talking to
    J Von Schwartz: why?
    J Von Schwartz: that
    J Von Schwartz: you dodged it when you brought up matt
    -: because i don't have an answer because i don't think i do that
    -: i talk to you
    -: theres nothing else to say
    -: i don't know what to tell you...i think i talk to you
    J Von Schwartz: you dont talk to me
    J Von Schwartz: aside from the idle chit chat you try to start at the movies, nothing
    -: at least i try to start up a conversation instead of just nothing
    J Von Schwartz: only at the movies or elsewhere
    -: anywhere
    -: you're not a big talker either
    -: and you know it
    J Von Schwartz: I've admitted it
    J Von Schwartz: I don't see why that is being brought up now
    -: then why are you telling me about it when you do the same thing...only worse?!
    -: my gosh
    J Von Schwartz: because another thing I am wondering is why I, 9 times out of 10, can't get a reasonable answer from you without it being blown out of proportion?
    J Von Schwartz: you know that is true
    -: because you expect this all out of me...when you do the exact same thing
    -: thats not fair
    -: at all
    J Von Schwartz: then why don't you present a reasonable and CALM argument?
    J Von Schwartz: instead? you snap at me for every single thing I say
    -: i do not
    J Von Schwartz: what have you been doing all night tonight?

    Even later....
    J Von Schwartz: Im not pushing myself to start a conversation when I know I wont get anything
    J Von Schwartz: because I can't talk about things with you that I would with anyone else
    -: like what?
    J Von Schwartz: anything
    J Von Schwartz: school, sports, life, stuff around the house
    J Von Schwartz: I get 2-3 word responses
    J Von Schwartz: nothing that's able to be responded to

    Later more...
    J Von Schwartz: do you even want this relationship? I mean seriously...with the kind of IMs I've been getting from you
    J Von Schwartz: it really makes me question everything
    -: i asked you the same thing
    -: don't even
    -: i said that first
    J Von Schwartz: Im asking reasonable questions
    -: nathan...you've been starting all this lately
    J Von Schwartz: Im getting ludicrous IMs
    -: and i don't know why
    -: but i am done
    J Von Schwartz: with what?
    -: i dunno yet
    -: just...please
    J Von Schwartz: no
    -: i can't do this
    J Von Schwartz: answer now
    J Von Schwartz: so I can sleep without having to think of what the answer is
    -: i'm done with all the arguing and stuff
    -: and can't do this
    -: you're killing me here with all this
    J Von Schwartz: then start giving calm and reasonable answers
    -: quit picking on me for every stupid little thing
    -: everything
    J Von Schwartz: asking for "calm and reasonable answers" isn't "stupid" or "little"

    My favorite part...
    J Von Schwartz: why not just answer why I can't get calm and reasonable answers?
    -: because what you're asking of me is nuts
    -: i mean...i did the idle message thing
    -: but nooo
    J Von Schwartz: what's so nuts about it
    -: its stupid stuff
    J Von Schwartz: so asking why we can't get a conversation going is "stupid stuff?"
    J Von Schwartz: you do know that conversation is key in relationships?
    -: i'm leaving now
    -: please
    -: i'm going to bed



    I know it's a bit much to read...but those are the biggest parts of the whole thing...

    Her IMs marked with a dash....my SN left there....go ahead and IM me, I dont care

    Not only respond on like what to do....but possibly also on how I presented the argument...whatever can help me
    Last edited by masterhickle; 04-12-2006, 09:38 PM.
  • Tasselfoot
    Retired BOSS
    FFR Simfile Author
    • Jul 2003
    • 25185

    #2
    Re: The problem kid is back!!

    Why are you posting this? Frankly... you kinda seem like a clingy stalker.

    But forcing a chick to dump you over IMs? That is just sad.

    My only fear is that my comments towards you could lead you to some sort of bodily harm out of low self-esteem and need to get reassurances on an asinine subject on a web forum where you aren't a regular. So I tried to hone them down and keep them to a minimum.

    Also, I'm about 2 posts away from locking this if nothing good comes. I just don't see the need for this at all.... but as it has potential to be extremely amusing, I won't lock it. Yet.
    RIP

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    • masterhickle
      FFR Player
      • Apr 2005
      • 557

      #3
      Re: The problem kid is back!!

      Stalker? WTF are you talking about.

      Do I not have grounds to ask about why the two of us can't get a conversation started when we've been going out for about a year?

      Yeah, I have the grounds to ask that.

      Low self-esteem that may cause me to harm myself? I don't have a low self-esteem; I merely play the part, and well. I don't like playing the part of an overconfident fool, it just sets me up for a big loss.

      Go ahead and say what you want...Im just laughing at what you think right now.

      Super Mod or not....you aren't being helpful....I just want thoughts ON THE TOPIC, k?

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      • Yanah_God
        Banned
        • Oct 2003
        • 1330

        #4
        Re: The problem kid is back!!

        Well, man, that sucks. I'm not entirely sure who you are or what's going on, but the thread title says you have a problem. Now, not knowing what the problem is is somewhat of a problem for me because I don't know whether to laugh or to feel sorry, so I'm just going to feel sorry for you.

        Hope things work out.

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        • Tasselfoot
          Retired BOSS
          FFR Simfile Author
          • Jul 2003
          • 25185

          #5
          Re: The problem kid is back!!

          *shrugs* my comments were on your topic. But (and then I'm done with this), I'll give you one big piece of advice...

          If you two can't have a simple conversation.... you shouldn't be dating. Conversation seems important to you, and you seem troubled by not being able to have that with your girl. Perhaps she is not the girl for you then. Find a girl that you CAN have a conversation with. You'll have much less drama and a lot more fun.
          RIP

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          • Yanah_God
            Banned
            • Oct 2003
            • 1330

            #6
            Re: The problem kid is back!!

            Originally posted by masterhickle
            Stalker? WTF are you talking about.

            Do I not have grounds to ask about why the two of us can't get a conversation started when we've been going out for about a year?

            Yeah, I have the grounds to ask that.

            Low self-esteem that may cause me to harm myself? I don't have a low self-esteem; I merely play the part, and well. I don't like playing the part of an overconfident fool, it just sets me up for a big loss.

            Go ahead and say what you want...Im just laughing at what you think right now.

            Super Mod or not....you aren't being helpful....I just want thoughts ON THE TOPIC, k?
            Also, you're being ++defensive. Take a step back and look at it. You don't want an arguement from her, but someone says something hardly offensive and you have to respond to every part of his post.

            Now that I think for a second, I'm expecting you to respond to this. lol

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            • dontcareaboutmyid
              FFR Player
              • May 2003
              • 2103

              #7
              Re: The problem kid is back!!

              I told you. We all stated it wouldn't work in the other thread. Yet you went ahead and said you're taking her back.

              I said don't post any future problems that you have with her here. You fialed on that one too. You're now going to get each and every one of us that told you it wasn't going to work in here to say "We told you so"

              You dig your own grave, we'll start filing in to do an Irish Jig on.

              *jig's like a mofo*
              Last edited by dontcareaboutmyid; 04-12-2006, 10:10 PM.
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              • Mindfields
                Banned
                • Dec 2004
                • 1566

                #8
                Re: The problem kid is back!!

                I personally thinks she likes you.
                They don't want to talk because they think they might say something wierd or embarrassing.
                And she's also putting up a fight for you, not against you, this arguement is lopsided, you see, it's you vs. you, not her vs. you.
                Not all relationships are about talking, you know.

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                • Yanah_God
                  Banned
                  • Oct 2003
                  • 1330

                  #9
                  Re: The problem kid is back!!

                  Honestly, if I were her, I wouldn't want to date you. I'd be far too busy playing with my breasts.

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                  • Synthlight
                    Administrator
                    FFR Simfile Author
                    FFR Administrator
                    • Nov 2002
                    • 3057

                    #10
                    Re: The problem kid is back!!

                    Masterhickle, this is both sad and scary at the same time.

                    I am usually compasionate and try to offer sound advice in these circumstances... but nevermind that for now.... If I were her, I would be scared out of my mind that I would find you outside of my window watching me at night with a flashlight and a jar of vaseline. You seem to have some issues, please take the advice of this forum. They were correct before and they are correct now.

                    omg I am locking my windows.

                    Cheers,

                    Synthlight

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                    • Tasselfoot
                      Retired BOSS
                      FFR Simfile Author
                      • Jul 2003
                      • 25185

                      #11
                      Re: The problem kid is back!!

                      Aw Synth... you always have a way to take what I'm thinking (or said, in this instance) and making it 50x more hilarious.
                      RIP

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                      • Jello
                        FFR Simfile Author
                        FFR Simfile Author
                        • Jan 2007
                        • 612

                        #12
                        Re: The problem kid is back!!

                        you know what? you are too ****ed up for me to even put what i want to say into words. ill just copy and paste what i said to synth after he showed me this thread.

                        JJ198716: wow
                        JJ198716: what the **** is with that kid
                        JJ198716: he contradicts himself about 19 000 000 000 in the ****ing convo
                        JJ198716: if i knew this kid in person
                        JJ198716: i would literally slap him in the face with my 7.5 inches of pure manhood.

                        Cut you dick off. and throw it into a blender so you cant procreate.

                        go get a shrink.

                        EDIT: Ive had a relationship where talking was very limited. nothing of substance was really talked about and it was boring. I ended up finding a new girl and made out with her for hours.
                        now im with her, its been 4 months and ive never been happier. ive found someone whos different, yet similar to me. Just enough diversity that we can have our own opinions and own lives, but enough in common that things just flow well and there are no problems. if you were mature and man enough. you'd find another girl. and leave that poor chick alone.

                        problem solved. Stop being a ****. and find someone else you insecure dickwad, because thats what this is all about. you being afraid of being alone and not finding someone else. so you try with all you pitiful might, to keep **** together... so much that its scary: borderline insane.

                        thank god for normal people who can accept a failed relationship.

                        and for the love of god dont talk to that poor girl ever again.
                        Last edited by Jello; 04-12-2006, 11:27 PM.

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                        • jewpinthethird
                          (The Fat's Sabobah)
                          FFR Music Producer
                          • Nov 2002
                          • 11711

                          #13
                          Re: The problem kid is back!!

                          Have you ever stopped to think that perhaps she isnt the one with the problem? Perhaps it's you. Maybe she is the kind of person who builds conversations off of what others say, and maybe you just dont spark that interest in her.

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                          • vashthestampede0987
                            FFR Player
                            • Jan 2004
                            • 2997

                            #14
                            Re: The problem kid is back!!

                            He's in before locking her windows...

                            Btw go shoot yourself with a staple gun.
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                            Originally posted by Synthlight
                            I hate myself.

                            Cheers,

                            Synthlight
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                            • JurseyRider734
                              lil j the bad b-word
                              • Aug 2003
                              • 7506

                              #15
                              Re: The problem kid is back!!

                              Originally posted by vashthestampede0987
                              He's in before locking her windows...

                              Btw go shoot yourself with a staple gun.

                              Way to be a ****ing tool. Terminate your life.



                              Anyway----------------------awefawgioawjf


                              She's tired of you...and bored with the relationship. Save yourself and break up with her now. It's obvious she won't tell you, and you're just provoking her to be mad at you forever. She probably won't break up with you right yet because she'll "feel bad" so just dump her. You won't feel as unhappy if you dump her instead of her dumping you. I'm not a stalker but I know I don't like to be ignored by my boyfriend.

                              Then again some people just aren't talkative online. Then again she could be putting on a facade when she sees you irl.

                              Just break it off.
                              Originally posted by Arch0wl
                              I'd better be considering I own roughly six textbooks on logic and have taken courses involving its extensive use

                              Originally posted by Afrobean
                              Originally Posted by JurseyRider734
                              the fact that you're resorting to threatening physical violence says a lot anyway.
                              Just that you're a piece of shit who can't see reason and instead deserves a fucking beating.

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