Yep...my problems in RL and I are back! And with a new problem! Same topic to boot!
So yeah...I ask her why we have so much trouble stringing together a conversation. And it turns into the typical argument.
J Von Schwartz: one final question
J Von Schwartz: which was the original question, slightly rephrased
J Von Schwartz: I've noticed....
J Von Schwartz: I am seriously the only guy you seem to have a problem talking to
J Von Schwartz: why?
J Von Schwartz: just answer it please
- returned at 10:42:10 PM.
-: i don't...really...i don't think i do
-: why do you say that?
J Von Schwartz: you do it
-: like with what other guys?
J Von Schwartz: you can talk to anyone BUT ME
J Von Schwartz: Im not even going on
J Von Schwartz: you're denying facts
J Von Schwartz: you know you do it
J Von Schwartz: why not just admit it?
-: because i talk to you
J Von Schwartz: hardly
-: that makes no sense
J Von Schwartz: ever
J Von Schwartz: except in arguments
-: i do
J Von Schwartz: which do not count for convos
J Von Schwartz: a string of 5-10IMs every hour is not legitimate enough to even be considered idle chit-chat
J Von Schwartz: and you know that's true
-: i have a question also...what do you talk about with matt?
J Von Schwartz: I talk about what I can do to try and better things
J Von Schwartz: since he can offer some helpful input and not spread the word to anyone
Later....
J Von Schwartz: can I please just get an answer
J Von Schwartz: I dont want an argument
-: to what
J Von Schwartz: I dont want a lecture
-: gosh
-: to what!
J Von Schwartz: J Von Schwartz: I've noticed....
J Von Schwartz: I am seriously the only guy you seem to have a problem talking to
J Von Schwartz: why?
J Von Schwartz: that
J Von Schwartz: you dodged it when you brought up matt
-: because i don't have an answer because i don't think i do that
-: i talk to you
-: theres nothing else to say
-: i don't know what to tell you...i think i talk to you
J Von Schwartz: you dont talk to me
J Von Schwartz: aside from the idle chit chat you try to start at the movies, nothing
-: at least i try to start up a conversation instead of just nothing
J Von Schwartz: only at the movies or elsewhere
-: anywhere
-: you're not a big talker either
-: and you know it
J Von Schwartz: I've admitted it
J Von Schwartz: I don't see why that is being brought up now
-: then why are you telling me about it when you do the same thing...only worse?!
-: my gosh
J Von Schwartz: because another thing I am wondering is why I, 9 times out of 10, can't get a reasonable answer from you without it being blown out of proportion?
J Von Schwartz: you know that is true
-: because you expect this all out of me...when you do the exact same thing
-: thats not fair
-: at all
J Von Schwartz: then why don't you present a reasonable and CALM argument?
J Von Schwartz: instead? you snap at me for every single thing I say
-: i do not
J Von Schwartz: what have you been doing all night tonight?
Even later....
J Von Schwartz: Im not pushing myself to start a conversation when I know I wont get anything
J Von Schwartz: because I can't talk about things with you that I would with anyone else
-: like what?
J Von Schwartz: anything
J Von Schwartz: school, sports, life, stuff around the house
J Von Schwartz: I get 2-3 word responses
J Von Schwartz: nothing that's able to be responded to
Later more...
J Von Schwartz: do you even want this relationship? I mean seriously...with the kind of IMs I've been getting from you
J Von Schwartz: it really makes me question everything
-: i asked you the same thing
-: don't even
-: i said that first
J Von Schwartz: Im asking reasonable questions
-: nathan...you've been starting all this lately
J Von Schwartz: Im getting ludicrous IMs
-: and i don't know why
-: but i am done
J Von Schwartz: with what?
-: i dunno yet
-: just...please
J Von Schwartz: no
-: i can't do this
J Von Schwartz: answer now
J Von Schwartz: so I can sleep without having to think of what the answer is
-: i'm done with all the arguing and stuff
-: and can't do this
-: you're killing me here with all this
J Von Schwartz: then start giving calm and reasonable answers
-: quit picking on me for every stupid little thing
-: everything
J Von Schwartz: asking for "calm and reasonable answers" isn't "stupid" or "little"
My favorite part...
J Von Schwartz: why not just answer why I can't get calm and reasonable answers?
-: because what you're asking of me is nuts
-: i mean...i did the idle message thing
-: but nooo
J Von Schwartz: what's so nuts about it
-: its stupid stuff
J Von Schwartz: so asking why we can't get a conversation going is "stupid stuff?"
J Von Schwartz: you do know that conversation is key in relationships?
-: i'm leaving now
-: please
-: i'm going to bed
I know it's a bit much to read...but those are the biggest parts of the whole thing...
Her IMs marked with a dash....my SN left there....go ahead and IM me, I dont care
Not only respond on like what to do....but possibly also on how I presented the argument...whatever can help me
So yeah...I ask her why we have so much trouble stringing together a conversation. And it turns into the typical argument.
J Von Schwartz: one final question
J Von Schwartz: which was the original question, slightly rephrased
J Von Schwartz: I've noticed....
J Von Schwartz: I am seriously the only guy you seem to have a problem talking to
J Von Schwartz: why?
J Von Schwartz: just answer it please
- returned at 10:42:10 PM.
-: i don't...really...i don't think i do
-: why do you say that?
J Von Schwartz: you do it
-: like with what other guys?
J Von Schwartz: you can talk to anyone BUT ME
J Von Schwartz: Im not even going on
J Von Schwartz: you're denying facts
J Von Schwartz: you know you do it
J Von Schwartz: why not just admit it?
-: because i talk to you
J Von Schwartz: hardly
-: that makes no sense
J Von Schwartz: ever
J Von Schwartz: except in arguments
-: i do
J Von Schwartz: which do not count for convos
J Von Schwartz: a string of 5-10IMs every hour is not legitimate enough to even be considered idle chit-chat
J Von Schwartz: and you know that's true
-: i have a question also...what do you talk about with matt?
J Von Schwartz: I talk about what I can do to try and better things
J Von Schwartz: since he can offer some helpful input and not spread the word to anyone
Later....
J Von Schwartz: can I please just get an answer
J Von Schwartz: I dont want an argument
-: to what
J Von Schwartz: I dont want a lecture
-: gosh
-: to what!
J Von Schwartz: J Von Schwartz: I've noticed....
J Von Schwartz: I am seriously the only guy you seem to have a problem talking to
J Von Schwartz: why?
J Von Schwartz: that
J Von Schwartz: you dodged it when you brought up matt
-: because i don't have an answer because i don't think i do that
-: i talk to you
-: theres nothing else to say
-: i don't know what to tell you...i think i talk to you
J Von Schwartz: you dont talk to me
J Von Schwartz: aside from the idle chit chat you try to start at the movies, nothing
-: at least i try to start up a conversation instead of just nothing
J Von Schwartz: only at the movies or elsewhere
-: anywhere
-: you're not a big talker either
-: and you know it
J Von Schwartz: I've admitted it
J Von Schwartz: I don't see why that is being brought up now
-: then why are you telling me about it when you do the same thing...only worse?!
-: my gosh
J Von Schwartz: because another thing I am wondering is why I, 9 times out of 10, can't get a reasonable answer from you without it being blown out of proportion?
J Von Schwartz: you know that is true
-: because you expect this all out of me...when you do the exact same thing
-: thats not fair
-: at all
J Von Schwartz: then why don't you present a reasonable and CALM argument?
J Von Schwartz: instead? you snap at me for every single thing I say
-: i do not
J Von Schwartz: what have you been doing all night tonight?
Even later....
J Von Schwartz: Im not pushing myself to start a conversation when I know I wont get anything
J Von Schwartz: because I can't talk about things with you that I would with anyone else
-: like what?
J Von Schwartz: anything
J Von Schwartz: school, sports, life, stuff around the house
J Von Schwartz: I get 2-3 word responses
J Von Schwartz: nothing that's able to be responded to
Later more...
J Von Schwartz: do you even want this relationship? I mean seriously...with the kind of IMs I've been getting from you
J Von Schwartz: it really makes me question everything
-: i asked you the same thing
-: don't even
-: i said that first
J Von Schwartz: Im asking reasonable questions
-: nathan...you've been starting all this lately
J Von Schwartz: Im getting ludicrous IMs
-: and i don't know why
-: but i am done
J Von Schwartz: with what?
-: i dunno yet
-: just...please
J Von Schwartz: no
-: i can't do this
J Von Schwartz: answer now
J Von Schwartz: so I can sleep without having to think of what the answer is
-: i'm done with all the arguing and stuff
-: and can't do this
-: you're killing me here with all this
J Von Schwartz: then start giving calm and reasonable answers
-: quit picking on me for every stupid little thing
-: everything
J Von Schwartz: asking for "calm and reasonable answers" isn't "stupid" or "little"
My favorite part...
J Von Schwartz: why not just answer why I can't get calm and reasonable answers?
-: because what you're asking of me is nuts
-: i mean...i did the idle message thing
-: but nooo
J Von Schwartz: what's so nuts about it
-: its stupid stuff
J Von Schwartz: so asking why we can't get a conversation going is "stupid stuff?"
J Von Schwartz: you do know that conversation is key in relationships?
-: i'm leaving now
-: please
-: i'm going to bed
I know it's a bit much to read...but those are the biggest parts of the whole thing...
Her IMs marked with a dash....my SN left there....go ahead and IM me, I dont care
Not only respond on like what to do....but possibly also on how I presented the argument...whatever can help me




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