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[Tarrik]

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That's rough man. I know where you're coming from, except without the Daughter part..Must be real hard.

I hope things improve man, just do anything to take your mind off of it all. Keeping yourself busy is better than leaving yourself alone with your thoughts.

[Izzy]

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I still often have bad dreams about the girl I was with for 3+ years that went left a couple years ago.

The stupid part about your situation is that she will just take your kid. I can't think of how that can work out ever. But her getting to "choose" is total bullshit, that is not ok. If such a thing is even in question then it isn't worth it for you.

[xThai]

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lol wtf, that's so messed.

you guys were engaged and had a daughter and she doesnt know who she'd rather be with? if she can't really decide, then clearly she isn't fit to be a mom.

hope everything goes well for you though.

[Mollocephalus]

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Yet you haven't specified how this happened. How are we going to give proper advice this way?

[Snowcrafta]

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It's just a breakup, be glad she did it before you were married and not afterwards

[Razor]

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just play some league brah

[popsicle_3000]

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wow this is the worst

[A2P]

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Damn dude, that fucking blows. Don't let it bug ya for too long man, bitches will be bitches. Be successful one day and rub that shit in her face if you have to, saying "ahhhhhhhhhhhh you dumbass bitch" and what not and fuckin WRECK her, make her feel the same hurt you have now.

[iironiic]

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I'm really sorry to hear this, and I hope things will be better for you. This is horrible.

[Aldentron]

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if there is a lesson to be learned from this, it's be careful of who you date/fornicate with in the first place, because this is what happens when mommy leaves the picture and daddy still has a boner for women who aren't willing to put up the responsibility required of a relationship with runescapedude and his daughter.

and i'm not casting judgment on you as a father, because the mom could have kicked the bucket or something and you thought you were finally ready to ~love again.~ but if the mother left you and the daughter behind, and this is what happens with a girl you got engaged with, maybe you should reassess your tastes in women.

[Cavernio]

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Can't help who you love. Goes both ways. Don't take her back unless you're willing to go through something like this again in the future.

[UserNameGoesHere]

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She says she wont know if she wants me or the other man until she spends time with him..

This makes no sense why your ex-fiancee and her new hubby would even have the option of possibly getting your daughter, assuming this is a daughter you already had from a previous (i.e. not with your ex-fiancee) relationship.

You're definitely going to have to talk with your daughter, but unless a court disagrees or rules differently or something, how would your ex-fiancee even have any possible entitlement to this whatsoever?

Now if this is the biological daughter of you and your ex-fiancee (and not a previous daughter you had with someone else), then is the only time she should even have the option of this.

[User1176756]

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Now you know why I don't believe in love anymore. Women in general just don't want to commit 100% to anything. All I can tell you do to is live your life and do things that you wouldn't have been able to do (that you like to do) while you were with her.

I know you have a daughter to attend to, but when possible, hang out with good friends for a good while. Don't worry about her, nor should you even try to get back with her. Being in a different setting usually helps you get over things faster.

[runescapedude1126]

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For those wondering the situation. Here is the whole story. I got with her after me and my ex broke up (my daughters bio mother). Me and my ex (her real mom) are so civil that we have joint custody, no child support, and all that jazz. I got with my recent ex 2 years ago and it was great. We were always so happy. The past 3 months she has been acting a bit different. I got her drunk the other night and she spilled it. She said she has been texting another guy for months and sending him pics and such back and forth. She claims I tried to change her and I became more of a dick (I actually did. But she did not try to help either.) So she broke it off and says she needs to decide if she wants another chance with us, or if she wants to test the waters elsewhere. I gave her a new ultimatum. I told her this. My daughter will not go through this right now. If you want me, her, or anyone of us in your life, you need to choose. If you choose him, you lose us. If you choose us, you lose him. It may be hard for you to do, but you cannot play these high school games anymore. I do not have the time nor the patience to sit around and wait. It got bad 2 nights ago. Real bad. When I posted this I had just gotten out of the hospital. They committed me for 24 hours into the psych ward because my recent ex found me with a belt around my neck completely unresponsive. It is a whole bag of bull.

[User1176756]

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Congratulations. You've just lost my respect for trying to take the easy way out.