Love, what is it?

[ShAiOnEi]

Re: Love, what is it?

Nyokou, you don't need to be loved to love -_____-
You could love someone and they might not love you back. It's called "not getting someone you love" lol.

Love is a the strong pleasant emotion to another person, whether it is one way or not.

At the same time, love could simply be a burning illusion, and sometimes you should turn the page in your life before it gets f*cking scortched =].

Exactly I love alot of women but sadly I don't get any love back so why give it all up for just one person that may never come along? Relationship wise love is just a chemical reaction most women I loved were because I was extremely attracted to them. Love for my family and friends is totally different because although I don't show much affection towards them I have a strong bond to them and care deeply.

[devonin]

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Let's all just close our eyes, think really hard, and pretend all those horrible off-topic, silly, trolly, flamey posts never happened.

Everyone should go review the rules for posting in this forum before posting again.

[Necros140606]

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reach's post is too long to quote but i completely agree with it

"love is a type of interpersonal relationship where mutual assumption of good faith results in a state of emergence, i.e. constituents individually perceive the group's social evolution as both beneficial and greater than what could be achieved by the sum of the relationship's parts."

a little question for everyone: if love is between more than two people, would you still consider it love? or love has to be confined in the social boundaries of the era? or its sole purpose is marriage?

[devonin]

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Let's all just close our eyes, think really hard, and pretend all those horrible off-topic, silly, trolly, flamey posts never happened.

Everyone should go review the rules for posting in this forum before posting again.

Well, I've been sharply criticized for apparantly failing to apply my moderation powers "properly" in the case of GG_Guru having posted text he took from another website into this thread.

While it certainly would have been -more correct- to properly attribute his quotation to its source; since this is just a discussion forum, and not any sort of academic circle where he is submitting these works as necessarily his own, I don't feel that there's anything actually -rulebreaking- about posting from somewhere else as long as you don't actually claim that you came up with it on your own.

In the interests of clearing up the confusion, I'm editting Guru's post to reflect that he is quoting from somewhere else.

Also, and you can thank Afrobean for showing me that I really do need to apply my moderator powers properly in all cases, I'll also be retroactively banning the users who took part in the postwhoring, the trolling, and the flaming in response to Guru's post.

Please ensure that you've both read -and- understood the rules of this forum before you post here. The onus is on you to follow the rules when you post here, and you won't be getting additional warnings since the rules are clearly located, and direct you to read them before posting.

[kirjautunut]

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Love is something what you like, just next step from it.

It's really nice feeling, which warms up your body. ^^

[j0shumz]

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I think love is an emotional reaction to people who really understand you and your situation. Those people who you feel understand you, you can ask for advice, say anything that you want to them, etc, etc. You like, you love, to be around them because of these reasons.

[BEN.(SPEIRS) 7.5]

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I am constantly trying to work this out. At school I made a huge presentation on the fact that none of us (us as in, 16 year olds) don't know what love is yet, so it's impossible to comment on.

I know I've been through two stages though - liking someone and just being completely obsessed with someone to the point of thinking about them almost all the time, but I'm absolutely sure that's not love.

[Dr Tran]

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**** love yo ;_;





i miss you baby D:

[xxx169]

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Oh baby don't hurt me.

Don't hurt me
no more.

[xealix]

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Woooooo!! Im in love
Yes i sure am. I met her on FFR haha pretty awesome.

[Frozen Beat]

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Then you won't receive the same level of love you would as if you knew them in real life.

Love has many levels
-liking someone would probably be so mild, it's in another category, which is "liking someone"
-Internet love lolololololololol
-loving someone, where you think about them often
-obsession, you can't stop thinking about them. This is bad for a number of reasons.
-loving someone while they love you back.

Love to be honest, is quite the "vague" term. There are loads of ways to describe it, and define it.

[xealix]

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Then you won't receive the same level of love you would as if you knew them in real life.

Love has many levels
-liking someone would probably be so mild, it's in another category, which is "liking someone"
-Internet love lolololololololol
-loving someone, where you think about them often
-obsession, you can't stop thinking about them. This is bad for a number of reasons.
-loving someone while they love you back.

Love to be honest, is quite the "vague" term. There are loads of ways to describe it, and define it.

I have been with her in real life, and i love her so much. I'm prepared to wait as long as i have to, because i know that this girl is the one i want to be with forever. Its actually my first relationship in my entire life, and this is the feeling i have been waiting for. Its something i can't even describe. To me if thats not love then i dont know what is. I think proving that distance isn't a problem shows that. Im just counting down the days till i see her again.

[Necros140606]

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serious post

Love: a single word expressing a wide gamma of feelings of affection.

"Love" for person a =/= "love" for person b

until you come up with a standard for love, which means quantifying every single action, thought and preposition, it's pointless find a shared answer. love differs from one to the other just like the experiences he's/she's received (therefore love is likely to be different for everyone) BUT somewhat watered down in difference by the examples the media and the outside world keeps pushing into us.

[Frozen Beat]

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I have been with her in real life, and i love her so much. I'm prepared to wait as long as i have to, because i know that this girl is the one i want to be with forever. Its actually my first relationship in my entire life, and this is the feeling i have been waiting for. Its something i can't even describe. To me if thats not love then i dont know what is. I think proving that distance isn't a problem shows that. Im just counting down the days till i see her again.

Okay. Lemme know when you guys break up. You're no different, they all say these things, then come up with something cheesy called "i can't even describe it." Everybody gets that feeling when they fall in love, and 99% of the time with their first love, people break up, and I know that feeling believe it or not.

[Apologizes to Danny for hypocrisy]

Love may as well be different for everyone, but our brains are all engineered in the same way. Who knows hehe.

[xealix]

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Okay. Lemme know when you guys break up. You're no different, they all say these things, then come up with something cheesy called "i can't even describe it." Everybody gets that feeling when they fall in love, and 99% of the time with their first love, people break up, and I know that feeling believe it or not.

[Apologizes to Danny for hypocrisy]

Love may as well be different for everyone, but our brains are all engineered in the same way. Who knows hehe.

I dont know because its not like i havent liked other people, because i have and that was after i told her that i loved her. she also said that she loved me back. However after that she found someone closer to where she lived, that was a six month relationship but i couldnt find anyone in all that time that was actually better then her. so i waited and now we are together, but i will be sure to let you know if we break up

so trying to shoot me down wont really work, but i wish you luck i actually believe in myself and this relationship. I have seen them work. my friend Zach actually moved to texas this year to go live with his girlfriend and things seem to be going great for them. I know a lot of relationships do not work out but there are those few that do and who knows ours just might be one of those so im not willing to give up just because of a few fights, and i know she isnt either.