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[Tonberry_Kid]

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And you can check out other people without the worry of your partner noticing...Because you don't have one!!!

I didn't mean that as a slam. I'm single myself.

[Anuj]

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reach is making it sound like he's some old guy... heh

and my mommy is a special someone in my life T_T

[Layla-Day]

Dear Partyhartygurl555,

First of All, you are one of the most DRAMATIC people I have ever seen in my life. If the world isnt exactly the way you want it to be, all you do is waste your time thinking about it. When I was growing up, for a while I was just like you. You should love yourself not to care what anybody thinks, because if you look in the mirror and you see beauty then thats what there.

Second of All, You have better things to worry about than when Mr. Right is gonna come for you. He'll be there, and all you need to worry about is what you'll be doing with your life in ten years from now, and plus, you REALLY don't want a man. Love is difficult. Especially when you wanna be young and and go out and party, and all he wants to do is watch tv. Or, If you have a romantic dinner, and you're wondering if he's the one, and all he's worrying about is if he is going to get some later that night. Be young, and party. Why do you think they created the age 30? Thats when you settle down, and worry about that type of stuff.

Conclusion: While you are wasting away your life worrying about who likes you and who doesnt like you, you are missing the things that are right before your eyes. .

BOT: I do have a special person in my life, and his name is Daddy.

[Skikamukazi]

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My personal advice: Be single and enjoy it, when you think you have something you should stick with long term, you'll know it. Plus, remember never to get attached or trust too quickly.

Agreed. Stay single. Or, stay single untill you find someone who means a whole lot to you. Someone you will be with for a long time.

And NEVER and I mean NEVER go out with someone just for sexual aspects. It really isn't worth it. At all.

This, I don't agree with completely. It is possible to be with someone and not be with someone at the same time. What I mean is, you can have a "Special Friend" Who you can sleep with or just fool around with, but you won't ever have to date them. As long as both people know that it is only about sex, it's okay.

My idea is this, be with whoever you want sexually, only if you are single. If you are not, don't. Don't hurt anyone. Don't get yourself hurt.

[jewpinthethird]

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Oh, you philosophers.

My sentiments exactly.

Partyhartygurlrandomnumbers, I don't know your age, so I am guessing you are in High School, if by chance you arent a high school student, then whenever you read "high school" just replace it with whatever you choose.

High School relationships are pretty much all about sexual attraction. Maybe the girl might be in love, but the guy sure as hell isn't. The guy's ultimate goal is to stick his penis into as many holes you have on your body as many times as he can until his is bored with you.

The male you are courting may say things like "I can't live without you" or "You are the first person I think of in the morning, and the last person I think of before I go to bed" or maybe even "I Love You" but in actuallity they are saying "Please, please, PLEASE! Spread your legs." And dont think "Oh, not my boyfriend! He loves me! He isnt like other boys!" because that's what all girls say, and they are just lying to themselves.

So, dont rush into a relationship. You may feel like you need a special someone in your life, but chances are, the feeling isn't mutual. Also, your friend's relationships probably won't last that long.

[Tonberry_Kid]

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I take offense to your statement about all high school males are trying to stick their penis in as many holes on a female body. Not all guys are horny pervs who want to fuck the brains out of the first thing that they see moving. I am, for one, not a person who wants that. I actually believe in abstinence until marriage OR at least until you can support a family if something happens. I am one of those few guys that actually does like the person. Not for the sexual aspect of the relationship, but because I want to be with that person as long as possible. So don't stereo-type people. Once you prejudge someone, someone has had a perfect opportunity to judge you.

[Skikamukazi]

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I am, for one, not a person who wants that. I actually believe in abstinence until marriage OR at least until you can support a family if something happens.

Ever heard of a condom?

[Tonberry_Kid]

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Condoms aren't fool proof dude. I have had a friend become a dad even though he was using a condom. It broke. You won't pay attention to your condom when having sex. If it breaks, you wouldn't really know about it until it's too late. Or at least that's what he said.

[GuidoHunter]

Give it a rest, tonberry. Everyone knows that that statement (about guys sticking things into holes, and whatnot) was a generalization and that there are obviously exceptions. You made your point that you were an exception, which is all well and good, so don't take offense. Ugh.

On top of that, just because you're abstinent doesn't mean you're not horny. I'm all the proof I need for that.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[-Skooter-]

Masturbation. Stop being mean Guido. As for Tonberry, he's right. ... So what if everyones values don't match?

[partyhartygurl555]

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Ok, everyone has made their point. Are all of you happy? Ok I may be dramatic but I just want someone in my life and what Layla-Day said, "I have someone special and his name is daddy " Well I dont have one Its just me, my brother, my sister, and my mom. Right now we're broke we barley have any money and we're miserable.Also if you think this is a lie it's not ok. Right now i'm sitting in front of a slow-ass computer watching people say im insecure, self-centered, and ill-tempered but im gonna let it go because of what people tell me it doesn't matter what hurtful things people say to you just let it go it'll be just fine.

[The_Q]

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Right now i'm sitting in front of a slow-ass computer watching people say im insecure, self-centered, and ill-tempered but im gonna let it go because of what people tell me it doesn't matter what hurtful things people say to you just let it go it'll be just fine.

See, you just said you'll be fine. You don't need a guy afterall. Besides, relationships are too much work. I recommend hookers.

Q

[jewpinthethird]

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I take offense to your statement about all high school males are trying to stick their penis in as many holes on a female body. Not all guys are horny pervs who want to $*%# the brains out of the first thing that they see moving. I am, for one, not a person who wants that. I actually believe in abstinence until marriage OR at least until you can support a family if something happens. I am one of those few guys that actually does like the person. Not for the sexual aspect of the relationship, but because I want to be with that person as long as possible. So don't stereo-type people. Once you prejudge someone, someone has had a perfect opportunity to judge you.

I use to think the same thing. Meh, you'll realize soon enough that it isnt "love" that you are feeling it is a strong sexual desire that clouds your mind. I used to think I was in-love with this one girl. We went out on a few dates, nothing serious. It didnt work out. Afterwards, I realized it wasnt love. I just wanted to have sex with her. Chances are you'll come to the same realization. And don't try to deny it when it does happen. It's not a stereotype.

High School relationships are meaningless.

Also, Partyhartygurlrandomnumbers, your home situation isnt all that great either, so I am guessing you are at a vulnerable time in your life. Do not go seeking another man to feel the void that you feel, chances are you will be taken advantage of. Seriously, be careful.

[partyhartygurl555]

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lol . That's funny thankz The Q.

[Tonberry_Kid]

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Well she is a girl. So unless she's a lesbian, I highly doubt she will get a hooker.

And the proper name for a male prostitute is a Gigaloo(sp?)but not many women pay for there services.