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  • The_Q
    FFR Player
    • May 2004
    • 4391

    #1

    A Marriage Proposal

    Marriage has become "corrupt." Many people enter into holy sacrimony wanting only money from the divorce. This is wrong in many people's eyes and a very annoying risk for men to take when they go into marriage (it is more often the lower income person who files divorce which is commonly the woman. When it isn't, a pre-nup is often signed. Example: Theresa Heinz-Kerry).

    Here's my proposal, which is rather modest. Our current marriage contract expires at death or divorce. I say we get rid of this and have the system be temporary. The marriage contract goes into effect when signed and after the first year of marriage, the couple must renew the contract. After the first renewal, renewals occur after every 5 years (5 years is the default. If someone wishes a shorter contract they can both agree and write it in. No longer contracts are permitted). When the contract expires the benefits married couples gain are nulled. Divorce cannot be filed and the expiration of the contract will be the only termination unless one of the spouses dies. When one spouse leaves another, no property changes hands unless it is willingly given as a gift or in a trade. Spouses don't benefit from another's death unless the deceased spouses gives the living their property in their Last Will and Testament.

    This plan should significantly decrease the incentive for leaving a spouse for money reasons if not eliminate it completely.

    Ok, boys, have at it!

    Q
  • Austaph
    FFR Player
    • Jul 2005
    • 75

    #2
    RE: A Marriage Proposal

    Originally posted by Q
    When the contract expires the benefits married couples gain are nulled. Divorce cannot be filed and the expiration of the contract will be the only termination unless one of the spouses dies. When one spouse leaves another, no property changes hands unless it is willingly given as a gift or in a trade. Spouses don't benefit from another's death unless the deceased spouses gives the living their property in their Last Will and Testament.
    Isn't that what a Prenuptial agreement is for?
    Believe nothing, question everything.

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    • MalReynolds
      CHOCK FULL O' NUTRIENTS
      • Sep 2003
      • 6571

      #3
      RE: A Marriage Proposal

      The only reason I would truly object to that is the fact that morals which have been established for years would be violated. But, they already are anyway. I wouldn't be comfortable with it simply because it is such a drastic change from the norm... Although, I don't see myself getting divorced.

      Mal
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      • msbrunnettemickey
        FFR Player
        • Sep 2004
        • 1780

        #4
        RE: A Marriage Proposal

        God wants the person to be happy with his/her partner. This is how divorce was created.

        Someday everyone will understand. It is God's plan. People might not see it... But love... Is something to be happy about.

        בקצה השמיים, ובסוף המדבר, יש מקום רחוק מלא פרחי בר
        מקום קטן, עלוב ומשוגע, מקום רחוק מקום לדאגה
        יש אומרים שם שמשיקרה וחושבים אל כל מה שקרה
        אלוהים שם יושב ורואה ושומר אל כל משברא
        אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן
        אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן
        ודואג ודואג נורא

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        • Austaph
          FFR Player
          • Jul 2005
          • 75

          #5
          RE: A Marriage Proposal

          Easy money is something to be happy about, too.
          Believe nothing, question everything.

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          • Tps222
            FFR Player
            • Nov 2004
            • 6168

            #6
            RE: A Marriage Proposal

            Don't you think that would raise the percentage of broken homes? More people would be getting married as a trial, and then can leave after a year morally intact. People would be getting married for the hell of it. At least divorce scares some people.

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            • MalReynolds
              CHOCK FULL O' NUTRIENTS
              • Sep 2003
              • 6571

              #7
              RE: A Marriage Proposal

              Oh, now I remember why divorce is such a no-no... Children. I knew I was forgetting something.

              Won't someone PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN?!

              Mal
              "A new take on the epic fantasy genre... Darkly comic, relatable characters... twisted storyline."

              "Readers who prefer tension and romance, Maledictions: The Offering, delivers... As serious YA fiction, I’ll give it five stars out of five. As a novel? Four and a half." - Liz Ellor


              My new novel:

              Maledictions: The Offering.

              Now in Paperback!

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              • Austaph
                FFR Player
                • Jul 2005
                • 75

                #8
                RE: A Marriage Proposal

                Mal: Good point. It's funny, I was just thinking about this yesterday. Child support should expire when the parent who has custody remarries.

                Think about how this could be scammed: A (infertile, or whatever) man (man-a) and a woman want some extra cash. The woman hooks up with some rich guy (man-b), gets knocked up, divorces, and collects child support while she remarries to man-a. Done. Granted the kid will turn out to be one hell of a basket case, but maybe things like this happen all the time - just on slightly different terms.
                Believe nothing, question everything.

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                • msbrunnettemickey
                  FFR Player
                  • Sep 2004
                  • 1780

                  #9
                  I have a friend, well... LOTS OF FRIENDS.. That their parents are divorsed. But one friend that was truly hurt by it. She would have to go on and off to her mother and father's house as a little kid. She became very confused, and very mean. She would be always angry, and violent towards her friends (and me).

                  I was eating luch in the cafe, and she came and sat next to me. I was eating my favorite meal, when i noticed tears coming down her eyes, and her hands under the table. I looked what she was doing down there, and she was cutting her hands apart with a knife (a plastic one, no worries).

                  It can make your mind go crazy.

                  בקצה השמיים, ובסוף המדבר, יש מקום רחוק מלא פרחי בר
                  מקום קטן, עלוב ומשוגע, מקום רחוק מקום לדאגה
                  יש אומרים שם שמשיקרה וחושבים אל כל מה שקרה
                  אלוהים שם יושב ורואה ושומר אל כל משברא
                  אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן
                  אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן
                  ודואג ודואג נורא

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                  • Tps222
                    FFR Player
                    • Nov 2004
                    • 6168

                    #10
                    Another thing, Christians would flip out at Q's idea, it would never happen as any president or legislature that suggested the idea would be ran out of office. Our country is just too religious.

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                    • The_Q
                      FFR Player
                      • May 2004
                      • 4391

                      #11
                      I'm Christian.

                      Thank you.

                      Q

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                      • msbrunnettemickey
                        FFR Player
                        • Sep 2004
                        • 1780

                        #12
                        RE: A Marriage Proposal

                        I thought you were Jewish =/

                        בקצה השמיים, ובסוף המדבר, יש מקום רחוק מלא פרחי בר
                        מקום קטן, עלוב ומשוגע, מקום רחוק מקום לדאגה
                        יש אומרים שם שמשיקרה וחושבים אל כל מה שקרה
                        אלוהים שם יושב ורואה ושומר אל כל משברא
                        אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן
                        אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן
                        ודואג ודואג נורא

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                        • Sera13
                          FFR Player
                          • May 2005
                          • 257

                          #13
                          RE: A Marriage Proposal

                          From my understanding Q is a very christian boy. anyhow. I think this idea is a decent one but Like many others have said, this would cuase several more broken homes, it would mess with the children, and its simply degrades the importance of marriage. Yes, many people take advantage of or abuse the system to bennift them in other ways but those people should have some soft of punishment instead of lessening the importance of somthing so great. Marriage is about being in love and yes so people fall out of love and there for a divorce is nessisary, in other cases however people will fall in love and take the vow of marrage that there futher bounds them together for LIFE, thats a great deal to most people but if it was simply boundnig them together for a couple years, No one would care as much and the ones who did would feel..cheated..

                          Originally posted by Tonberry_Kid
                          That was just totally pwnd by Sera. Nice.

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                          • emptiness
                            FFR Player
                            • Feb 2005
                            • 453

                            #14
                            Re: RE: A Marriage Proposal

                            Originally posted by MalReynolds
                            Oh, now I remember why divorce is such a no-no... Children. I knew I was forgetting something.

                            Won't someone PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN?!

                            Mal
                            what if they have no children?
                            Back in 5 mins

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                            • pfff
                              FFR Player
                              • Jun 2004
                              • 53

                              #15
                              Re: RE: A Marriage Proposal

                              Originally posted by Austaph
                              Easy money is something to be happy about, too.

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