Love

[Hackerboy603]

What are your ideas on love?

What is love to you?

Can you love two people at once?

What is "True Love"?

How can you tell if it is or if it isn't?


There's a lot on my mind...

[blahblah18]

RE: Love

What is love? Baby don't hurt me... don't hurt me, no more.

[Hackerboy603]

RE: Love

I was being serious, if you're going to post, actually mean it please.

[GuidoHunter]

http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...topic&p=241309

People in your place have failed before, Hacker.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[iamderajbackward]

i don't think a forum is the right place to try and figure out which girl you want to stay with or make any personal decisions on (if she cheated on you, dump her)

but to answer your questions:

ideas- i think love is fabricated out of weakness and dependancies, and for people who can't hold their own and need to rely on others

love to me- a waste of time, energy and money

double feature- of course you could love more than one person, parents, partner, even your cat if you so please, why you would let yourself love even one person is a mystery to me

"true" love - when you depend on a person more than others, kinda like being a true mooch

symtoms - you lose friends, talk endlessly on the phone, a weekend seems like a long time to not see someone, you spend more than 20 dollars on her/him in a course of 6 months

and as for clearing your mind, go for a walk, sit on your roof, and don't bring your problems to the public

[GuidoHunter]

but to answer your questions:

ideas- i think love is fabricated out of weakness and dependancies, and for people who can't hold their own and need to rely on others

love to me- a waste of time, energy and money

double feature- of course you could love more than one person, parents, partner, even your cat if you so please, why you would let yourself love even one person is a mystery to me

"true" love - when you depend on a person more than others, kinda like being a true mooch

symtoms - you lose friends, talk endlessly on the phone, a weekend seems like a long time to not see someone, you spend more than 20 dollars on her/him in a course of 6 months

and as for clearing your mind, go for a walk, sit on your roof, and don't bring your problems to the public

I really do hope you fall in love some day just to show you how wonderful it is and how pathetic your view on it is. Love is not the junior-high-relationship like you seem to picture it.

My thoughts: love is almost entirely incomprehensible to someone who hasn't experienced it.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[User6773]

EMO ALERT. Seriously. I think it's sad how kids age 10-15 try to emulate something they can't understand yet.

[SpookG]

EMO ALERT. Seriously. I think it's sad how kids age 10-15 try to emulate something they can't understand yet.

I don't think that is a very fair assessment. Sure, the feelings are starting at that age, you kind of always love things, but looking at it from a mature perspective is something that well, takes time.

Funny thing about the abstract, it being rather difficult to draw down into the concrete, but if your view of love doesn't grow with you then it is reasonable to say you haven't encountered it yet.

I had thought I knew what it was, and who it would come from, and well, I am completely surprised, to put it into words terribly. So I suppose if you are putting what you feel against what you think love is and to redefine it, I'd say that you are beginning to uh, experience love.

Looking back now, I wouldn't say most of what I thought I loved before was genuine--but that is using my new working definition, not the old one.

[jewpinthethird]

Love is putting the seat down after you are done using the toliet.

A strong attachment to a person or thing. Placing your loved one's happiness before yours.

[msbrunnettemickey]

My thoughts: love is almost entirely incomprehensible to someone who hasn't experienced it.

My thoughts exactly.


You have to have your heart broken, in order to know what love really is.

So if you are between the ages 12-15 and you start to say I AM IN LOVE
you might not know what it really is. You have to go through many tough things.

Well, thats how i learned what love truly is

[Hackerboy603]

good that SOME people are serious about this

[Meteor858]

Its strange cuz im in the middle of this... I have loved before but all that did was kill me inside and i used to openly accept love and search for it. But now... not so much and my views have kinda turned to what iamderajbackward said. Guido, Chardish, i have loved and all it brought me was pain so just SHUT UP!

[Tonberry_Kid]

Tonberry is in love(yes I do refer to myself in the third-person sometimes). And I'm only a wee age of 15. To explain it, mutual respect for another being, admiration, you keep things dear received, what goes on between you and whoever, stays between you and whoever, passion(physical attraction), willing to look at your relationship as it's gonna last forever(it's joint thing, gotta be mutual), and yes Jewpin, it is putting down the seat down when you're down using that lavatory.

Edit: I stole this info from my girlfriend, who is in psycology, and yes my friends. We feel everything in what I just stated.

[GuidoHunter]

Meteor, you're just in middle school (on the young side, too, I believe). There's a certain level of maturity necessary to even comprehend it and kids your age just don't have it. Don't get discouraged; something better can, and likely will, come along in the future.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[Hackerboy603]

There's a certain level of maturity necessary to even comprehend it and kids your age just don't have it.

That's so true, yet some people that age can understand it. Those people come along once in a blue moon.