I acknowledge death, it's inevitable, I couldn't be bothered. If someone "close" passes away, I don't feel sad or discomfort like most people, I'm pretty unphased. Also "close" being the key word there, I don't have close relatives really, my family in particular is full of idiots and I was raised pretty distant from most family because everyone can't be mature and get along.
I acknowledge death, it's inevitable, I couldn't be bothered. If someone "close" passes away, I don't feel sad or discomfort like most people, I'm pretty unphased. Also "close" being the key word there, I don't have close relatives really, my family in particular is full of idiots and I was raised pretty distant from most family because everyone can't be mature and get along.
Well who says you have to be related you have to have friends. You can't just go around alone forever. I know that when a famous person dies it doesn't make me sad. like if this had really happened. I never said that i was sad about it. But i know if one of my friends died i would be sad. even if they weren't a very close friend. An acquaintance or an old friend of mine passed away a couple of years back named Nick and even though we used to hang out for a while and drifted away to a point where i wouldn't have considered myself close to him. When he died it still got at me and i was sad about it. So there has to be somebody close enough to you that his or her death would make you sad..
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"In the cradle we are helpless, but on our feet we are fatal" - The Dear Hunter
I have hunch that if I lose my parents, I'll be pretty bummed out, especially my mom because she was diagnosed with Lupus nearly 15 years ago. Since then she's had open heart surgery, a kidney transplant and has been revived on two separate occasions, once before my eyes while I was 11-12ish and another time while in the hospital while my dad visited after his shift from work. I've seen it all, seizures, coughing up blood, a plastic shopping bag full of pills she has to go through daily to survive, etc etc. The day [i]she[i] dies will be pretty devastating for my father especially and maybe my sister, although I can't quite speak on her behalf, I don't know how she feels about stuff like that, but I am certain I'll be quite alright.
I have hunch that if I lose my parents, I'll be pretty bummed out, especially my mom because she was diagnosed with Lupus nearly 15 years ago. Since then she's had open heart surgery, a kidney transplant and has been revived on two separate occasions, once before my eyes while I was 11-12ish and another time while in the hospital while my dad visited after his shift from work. I've seen it all, seizures, coughing up blood, a plastic shopping bag full of pills she has to go through daily to survive, etc etc. The day [i]she[i] dies will be pretty devastating for my father especially and maybe my sister, although I can't quite speak on her behalf, I don't know how she feels about stuff like that, but I am certain I'll be quite alright.
That's a pretty sad story to hear..
I will use musical lyrics for my siggy.
"In the cradle we are helpless, but on our feet we are fatal" - The Dear Hunter
Look at it this way, if it wasn't for my mom having Lupus or my sister being Diabetic, someone else would be in my place telling their story about two other people might have been diagnosed with it. That's the way I look at it, which is why I'm not bothered by it. I don't understand people who cry all the time "Why me. why me!", I've never once in my life cried or wondered "Why my mom, why?". She has it, she's pretty healthy, she's going to keep living strong as long as she can and that's that.
Look at it this way, if it wasn't for my mom having Lupus or my sister being Diabetic, someone else would be in my place telling their story about two other people might have been diagnosed with it. That's the way I look at it, which is why I'm not bothered by it. I don't understand people who cry all the time "Why me. why me!", I've never once in my life cried or wondered "Why my mom, why?". She has it, she's pretty healthy, she's going to keep living strong as long as she can and that's that.
I understand your position, but i don't believe there is anything wrong with crying over it at some point. Maybe one day when the realization that everything you have could be over with the next day really hits you, you'll have one of those days. Then again maybe you won't. your probably right other people have the same problems and thats life but there is no reason not to mourn those you have lost or may be losing.
I will use musical lyrics for my siggy.
"In the cradle we are helpless, but on our feet we are fatal" - The Dear Hunter
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