I have issues

[Jam930]

-Yay for the forum nice guy finally finding the thread.

-(Something tells me you're not out of high school yet.)

-If you want someone to talk to a little more personally about all this, I'm always open. Send a PM, bug me on AIM or Yahoo, etc. I'd love to give any advice I could.

Your options
1. Stay with your cheater
2. Mall guy
3. Laharl (NEW!)

naw im just joking

[altairian]

yeah you want laharl for yourself don't you

[dontcareaboutmyid]

Dear, you're asking this in a forum where pretty much either no one has dated, has dated once and is accually still with the person, are married, or are gay/lesbian

majority are freaking 10 year olds that smuggle themselves off as teens, but we the old people are not fooled

by old I mean legit ages

Granted i have little experience, because I've still have the same girlfriend, but I'd say give him one more chance. He came directly out with him cheating on you.

Now if he does it again, take a boot to his crotch a few times then go McNasty with mall guy

dontcareaboutmyid, grow up and get an education. I am Jursey...idiot. So what if i don't have a huge postcount...it means i have better things to do, kthxbai

1. I know you are Jursey,

2. Its the fact that you don't paruse the message boards which means i was including you in the minority that have an acual life. you're not one of the majority posters that fall into the catagories.

3. I currently hold down a part time job, school, a very nice girlfriend, minor parusing here and a modship on another site. Along with extracurricular school activities, i'd say i'm pretty good at having things to do.

Besides, who's the one that spends a good deal of her time in the chat?

[VxDx]

2. Its the fact that you don't paruse the message boards which means i was including you in the minority that have an acual life.

That's quite an assumption you're making.

[_Blaze]

That's quite an assumption you're making.

No kidding. There are tons of losers who are just as bad as the people on this site and never post on message boards. Hey, at least we talk to other people.

[jewpinthethird]

I have two responses depending on your age:

1) If you are not out of high school yet: Dump the guy, there will plenty more men in your life. High school love doesnt last. Unless you are that special .5% of the population who meets their future spouse in high school. Which I highly doubt.

2) If you are out of high school: You are pathetic. Asking a bunch of 13 year olds for their opinion on relationships. Cancel your internet service, get out, and go meet people.

You should have named this thread "I have tissues"...because it is funnier.

[dontcareaboutmyid]

Too bad its knowledge that jursey doesn't paruse the boards as frequent as the majority of people

or are you saying I'm assuming you people don't have a life.

Because many people have said many times over they don't

[Jam930]

yeah you want laharl for yourself don't you

... -.-

you're pretty clever you know that?

[altairian]

haha, yeah, I am teh clever

[VxDx]

or are you saying I'm assuming you people don't have a life.

that's a pretty bold statement considering most people have less posts than you, and your categorization of "you people" is people who post frequently.

[dontcareaboutmyid]

its bold cause you bolded it


sarcasim aside, Yes I catagorized the majority of the majority posters as people without lives.

I'm a minority

[87x]

wouldn't you like to think so...

My opinion (expanded) being that this guy is a loser... he doesn't really care for you.. and if he does, he obviously cares for another girl just as well.. or maybe your not giving him what he wants.. maybe your not the "mcnasty" person that he wants.. which basically means he doesn't like all of your qualities.. basically, you have two choices, just like in every situation.... stay with him until he does it again... or dump him and not look back...

My outcome for this situation is simple.. i figure you will dump him.. listen to him begging for you back.. you will go back with him seeing as he's "different now" and now he's a "changed" man.. he will do it again.. you will get hurt even worse.. and you will go to whatever guy is next on the list and give him all your trust.. and either A) he will take advantage of you, or B) not think of it as a serious relationship.. you will get hurt again some way or another..

Moral of this story is that jewpins estimate of .5% percent is too high.. its probably around .3% or .2% that actually make it.. don't waiste your life on someone that isn't going to respect you for you, get over the fucker and go find someone else more deserving of your "love" ( i say that in quation marks, because its probably not real love, seeing as your in high school.. if your even in high school yet..)

And just so this is clear.. im not some 13 yr prepubescent kid with no actual understanding of the situation.. I'm 18, and have had relationships in the past.. I can fully understand your situation because it has happened to me.. and i have been involved in one of these un-needed situations..

Take my advice for what you will..

[Jam930]

Re: I have issues

ignore them all. They think they're smart, but they're not.


dont have some random kid across the planet over some keyboard dancing game forum make some life-changing decision for you. Just do it yourself or ask a close friend...why are you asking us?

No offense to you guys, but the people on this forum are probably the worst audience for this kind of question.




sorry for all the bolding, just no other way to show emphasis.

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[qualy]

Those are some pretty bold statements.

[Jam930]

ha.....ha..........ha..............*sigh*

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