Need some help here guys

[Xx{Midday}xX]

Re: Need some help here guys

kinda like the "marriage blues" except this isn't marriage. she'll be fine. your job is to worry.

ps: VC=Vertex Cephalon

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

well thank you so much everyone for understanding i really appreciate all of your help. i especially appreciate everyone being mature and not posting something stupid.

so once again thank you all.

[TheRapingDragon]

Re: Need some help here guys

You've been with this girl for 18 months and yet when she cries you come to an internet online rhythm website to ask for advice. No offense but shouldn't you know your girlfriend better than the rest of us? Logically how can we tell what is going through her mind when we don't know the girl, whereas on the other hand you do know her and may have knowledge of reasons why she may be upset.

I mean from what you've given me all I can presume is that:

1) She has done something and is upset about it and it suddenly took over her after you did that.
2) She has just got emotional and had to let it out. It happens.
3) You have done something wrong but she doesn't want to tell you and that brought it out.

But that's all they are, presumptions. I (and nobody else here) knows your girlfriend. You do. Your problems are between yourselves and honestly you should respect her when she tells you that she doesn't want to talk about it. Only press the issue if it honestly seems important.

But ya. See if something like this happens and she says the equivalent of "just drop it" I would advise you to just drop it and let her tell you when she wants to. I wouldn't come to the internet and tell a few hundred people about it, that's not really respecting her privacy. I doubt she would be happy you told the internet that she cried after sex.

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

You've been with this girl for 18 months and yet when she cries you come to an internet online rhythm website to ask for advice. No offense but shouldn't you know your girlfriend better than the rest of us? Logically how can we tell what is going through her mind when we don't know the girl, whereas on the other hand you do know her and may have knowledge of reasons why she may be upset.

I mean from what you've given me all I can presume is that:

1) She has done something and is upset about it and it suddenly took over her after you did that.
2) She has just got emotional and had to let it out. It happens.
3) You have done something wrong but she doesn't want to tell you and that brought it out.

But that's all they are, presumptions. I (and nobody else here) knows your girlfriend. You do. Your problems are between yourselves and honestly you should respect her when she tells you that she doesn't want to talk about it. Only press the issue if it honestly seems important.

But ya. See if something like this happens and she says the equivalent of "just drop it" I would advise you to just drop it and let her tell you when she wants to. I wouldn't come to the internet and tell a few hundred people about it, that's not really respecting her privacy. I doubt she would be happy you told the internet that she cried after sex.

I wasn't asking for a psychic to come onto FFR and tell me exactly whats going one; there were many possibilities of what could have happened. I do know my girlfriend extremely well but sometimes there are things that happen that people can't understand even when they try really hard. So yes I came to the FFR community because generally everyone is nice and very helpful. So obviously you didn't read the previous replies and figure out what kind of advice I was looking for. So next time you are going to jump to conclusions try educating yourself.

[TheRapingDragon]

Re: Need some help here guys

I wasn't asking for a psychic to come onto FFR and tell me exactly whats going one; there were many possibilities of what could have happened. I do know my girlfriend extremely well but sometimes there are things that happen that people can't understand even when they try really hard. So yes I came to the FFR community because generally everyone is nice and very helpful. So obviously you didn't read the previous replies and figure out what kind of advice I was looking for. So next time you are going to jump to conclusions try educating yourself.

I continue to fail to be surprised by my precognitive abilities. When I hit the post reply button I said to myself "wonder if his post will be all defensive with attacks thrown at me for my post being incorrect in some way".

Anyway, I'll start by asking two simple questions:

1) How am I uneducated?
2) How have I jumped to conclusions?

Let me actually just say those are rhetorical so don't bother answering just yet. You see I'm not uneducated, I just choose to state the truth as I see it. None of what I wrote was wrote in malice or without thought, it was based on logical conclusions and also included actual thoughts of what the problem could have been. If you ask me I answered your queries. Just because I'm not doing it in a "oh god poor you please let me help you come to my bosom child" way does not mean I am uneducated. You yourself would learn not to jump to such conclusions.

Secondly, I didn't even offer a conclusion let alone jump to one. I gave you ideas of what I thought it could be and also said that overall you should know your girlfriend better than us. I also merely stated that I don't think your girlfriend would appreciate you telling the world she cried after having sex. By all means if you want to say "I asked her could I tell the internet about this and she was ok with it" then that would be a viable response, but to just attack me proves nothing.

Finally, to go further:

I wasn't asking for a psychic to come onto FFR and tell me exactly whats going one; there were many possibilities of what could have happened.

Ya, and we are guessing just as much as you then. Pretty sure I said that in my original post.

I do know my girlfriend extremely well but sometimes there are things that happen that people can't understand even when they try really hard.

Ya, so how do you expect a screen to understand written words any better than physical expressions that you yourself can interpret better than we can.

So yes I came to the FFR community because generally everyone is nice and very helpful.

Oh I see, you were just looking for sympathy and "poor you" sentiments. Here I was thinking you wanted an answer, which again I'm pretty sure I gave (examples of) in my original post.

So obviously you didn't read the previous replies and figure out what kind of advice I was looking for.

Again, this statement is more of a "jump to conclusion" than anything I wrote. Hey, let me show you:

I have no idea what to think about this...is it bad, is it good. Is there something she isn't telling me. I really need some help

I mean from what you've given me all I can presume is that:

1) She has done something and is upset about it and it suddenly took over her after you did that.
2) She has just got emotional and had to let it out. It happens.
3) You have done something wrong but she doesn't want to tell you and that brought it out.

Pretty sure I answered the main crux of your post.

Really, next time you're about to needlessly attack me try to get your points correct.

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

im not even going to take the time to read your post fyi. but to everyone else who was helpful,

thank you =]

[Grandiagod]

Re: Need some help here guys

sonic, i think you should stick it in her pooper, then kill yourself

[TheRapingDragon]

Re: Need some help here guys

im not even going to take the time to read your post fyi. but to everyone else who was helpful,

thank you =]

Translation: I read what you wrote but didn't have a clue how to respond because it hurt my feelings, even though i attacked you first and instigated the response because I couldn't take a simple post that wasn't pandering to my whims. Don't be a meanie. Meanie poo.

So ya, cheers.

[KotHN]

Re: Need some help here guys

Man, you must have been terrible if she cried

blahblahblah long post blahblahblah

Looks like someone belongs on the critical thinking board

[Beethovens mask]

Re: Need some help here guys

I'm sure posting that you and her had sex on an internet forum makes her feel even better about the situation.

[kmay]

Re: Need some help here guys

yea and i like how the raping dragon is giving u advice and good answers and ur sayign bs to him or her. fyi she prolly cried becasue:
1. it was her first time
2. u reminded her of her fisrt time
3. she faked it but felt bad for doing it.

[mnoed]

Re: Need some help here guys

Its nice how i just come to ffr to talk with meh friends an stuff, take these kinds of threads elsewhere thank u