Need some help here guys

[sonic-fast-fingers]

So after having some unspeakable actions with my girlfriend she started to cry. I was worried and asked what the problem could be. She insisted on telling me that there was nothing wrong and she doesn't know why she was crying. I have no idea what to think about this...is it bad, is it good. Is there something she isn't telling me. I really need some help and please no stupid posts.

Thanks in advance.

[AOD_ELEMENT]

Re: Need some help here guys

dude tell her you love her over and over no joke

[fido123]

Re: Need some help here guys

dude tell her you love her over and over no joke

I have to agree. She could be pregnant or maybe it's just an emotional issue. Tell her you love her and you want to know why she's upset and it won't change anything between you assuming you won't break up with her over a pregnancy.

[infinity.]

Re: Need some help here guys

was this the first time?

if so, she might have just been ashamed of what she did.

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

was this the first time?

if so, she might have just been ashamed of what she did.

no no, i have been dating her for over a year...actually a year and 6 months and I am in love with her, so this incident really scared me.

[AOD_ELEMENT]

Re: Need some help here guys

ask her if you did something that upset her

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

ask her if you did something that upset her

I did, I asked her to just tell me because (i thought) she could tell me anything, and I, of course, could tell her anything. So I have no idea what it is.

[DawnInfinity]

Re: Need some help here guys

She obviously wants something from you either it attention or sympathy. Something along those lines.

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

people viewing but not helping >.<

you dont understand im super confused

[fido123]

Re: Need some help here guys

Tell her the truth that it bothers you that she's upset. She'll probably tell you because it shows you care about her and are concerned about her at the same time.

[DawnInfinity]

Re: Need some help here guys

Maybe try just comforting her till she spills what's wrong. You could always just leave her alone, that might screw things up though.

[Gibson63]

Re: Need some help here guys

she want secks.. lol but seriously. just tell her that you really want to know whats happening.. and that you want her to be happy :3

[arrekusuof93]

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I would say don't be so insecure. If she has personal problems and doesn't want to discuss them then you should back off.

[tupacodaman]

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"I did, I asked her to just tell me because (i thought) she could tell me anything, and I, of course, could tell her anything. So I have no idea what it is."

I was gonna suggest emphasizing that point, but you already made it. I don't think there's anything else you can really do since it sounds like it really was just some bad thought that she had, or she may just have been anxious/feeling down about something. I think you should just try doing whatever stuff would really cheer her up over the next few days and if this happens again then re-emphasize what i quoted and figure out what is bothering her.

[sonic-fast-fingers]

Re: Need some help here guys

well i searched on google and apparently women (and I was really hoping a girl could have posted a reply so i could get a girl's perspective) can just have a overflow of emotions when they reach their climax.