Stay Positive

[Nyokou]

Maybe some of you may have noticed, or you might have not, but... I haven't been coming on FFR as often. To put it simply, I have kind of lost interest, but then again, I have to blame school for keeping me so busy. A lot has happened though, in the past weeks. Getting permabanned from TGB made me realize what an idiot I've been, so I decided to fix that up. I even met someone who helped me a lot, which made me really happy.

Now, even though I've been getting my life on track again, there have been some misfortunes. My dad lost his job last week, so, as you can imagine; how is a family of six members supposed to live off of just the mother's salary? Unemployment.. that is one of the worst things that could ever happen to us, but we've been dealing. I've been dealing. It made me realize how I took things for granted, it opened my eyes to how childish I've been acting.

Even though we know my dad won't have trouble finding work, and we're hoping he gets a job here which he already found, we have been staying positive. Even me. I've started to help around a lot, you know? Obey my parents and just go back to the way I was before someone certain pulled me aside from my happiness (that happened before I joined FFR though).

Has anyone else gone through something similar and stayed positive?

EDIT: Also, I forgot to add in.. my dad had a small surgery yesterday.. it was short. They removed something from his arm that's been bothering him for about two years. We're praying to God that it's not cancer or anything serious. Again.. we're staying positive.

[fastfingers65]

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I'm going through something like your situation only a little more complicated, at times it is hard to stay positive.

[lumphoboextreme]

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i think everyone goes through times and situations like this at some point. just try to look at the bright side of it. you still have both parents, you're not permabanned from all of FFR, your dad will probably get a job soon, theres probably other positive things to look at if i knew you better but there's almost always something positive to look at. you probably don't really care what i post though since the last time i posted in the same thread you were in we hated each other.

[Snowcrafta]

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Boycotting Tosh will keep your spirits up

[massflavour]

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e-drama

woop irl drama too

[DrugstoreCowboy]

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im just glad to see that you're being positive for once.

considering you hate me for alwasy being happy and positive.

[Nyokou]

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Boycotting Tosh will keep your spirits up

spontaneousteddy (05:50:01 AM): I don't want to make things right, I don't want things to be okay. I don't want to deal with your life anymore
spontaneousteddy (05:50:05 AM): Just get out of mine already
xTosHx1337 (05:50:14 AM): you ****ing bitch

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Haven't talked to him since.

And yeah, thanks Drugstore.. I'm glad to be positive too. xD

We just kinda have to deal with my twelve-year-old brother who's been bullying my youngest brother and just.. being a complete asshole to everyone in my family.. My parents even beat him to make him stop, or they act COMPLETELY compassionate and he just won't stop acting like an immature brat.

/sigh !

But on the good side, I've been getting good grades in school too. I was failing at the end of the year last year cause I was staying up late at night and sleeping during class.

[JurseyRider734]

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We all have problems. I find comfort in knowing that other people do and they can get through it. It gives me the idea of "if they can, I can, too". I'm not about to write about all my family and personal problems here. Some people know of them, some more than others, but I'm pretty positive through it all imo.

[Chromer]

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My Nazi heart comes to mind...

[Nyokou]

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It gives me the idea of "if they can, I can, too".

Yeah, I feel the same way. I mean.. some people out there, and I used to be this way, they just think they can't do anything to change their situation. It's not like sitting around and doing nothing will help. You have to make things better yourself and deal with the hard stuff.

I wish people didn't have such a sense of hopelessness.. but eventually they'll get that little extra "boost" to get them going like me. :]

[imadethisfromboredom]

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Well, school has been in for 2 months down here. It sucks, I havent had any time to call my friends. I have homework every day(f*cking Contemporary History sux)

And worst of all, no time for my girlfriend...=(

But i stay positive because i sit with her and huggle her every school day =3

[plasmix]

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Hey, my dad just got a job last week after 4 years of unemployment.

Coincidences are cool.

[~HentaiXXX~]

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Well, it's good to see you in a nice mood I suppose, good luck with whatever is happening.

[Nyokou]

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Yeah, plasmix. How ironic.

Heh, I understand imadethis. I rarely ever get to speak to my sweetheart, well, not rarely.. I mean, we talk every night, but it's not like we talk for hours and hours. I wonder if our relationship would get stronger from that.. or obsessive. Hm..

[hayatewillown]

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Don't even get me started, your lucky you can stay positive!

Are you able to drive yet? I've seen your age on here and it's 16, you should probably get a job if you don't already have one, then again, if your getting really low on income and can't pay for a whole lot of gas, then thats a problem too.

I've got carpal tunnel in my right arm, was diagnosed with bipolar about a year ago, and they had found cancer in my right arm, which hopefully with a couple of blasts of kemo, It will diminish. So, some of my hair will fall out, which I'm not looking forward too, and it's going to be quite painful.

Wellllll, on top of that.
Dad got sent to Iraq, which he is proud to be fighting in btw, but mom had a breakdown not too long ago.

My grades are dropping, kind of. They are borderline a-b crap.

Staying positive is hard for me, but I'm glad you guys can and you should.

[ Ironic how it was in the arm though]