My Love

[TheRapingDragon]

Re: My Love

Because if this is the first time you've ever fallen in love, marriage would be a very bad idea.

Why is that? How many times should a person fall in love before they should get married, 5 times, perhaps 6?

I mean I'm still with the first person I ever went out with, fell in love with, etc. and we plan on getting married and there are no problems.

Also, I only really have one word for the topic creator:

Infatuation.

Learn it.

I mean I may be wrong, but it has all the classic signs of that.

[CartoonHero94]

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Why is that? How many times should a person fall in love before they should get married, 5 times, perhaps 6?

I mean I'm still with the first person I ever went out with, fell in love with, etc. and we plan on getting married and there are no problems.

Also, I only really have one word for the topic creator:

Infatuation.

Learn it.

I mean I may be wrong, but it has all the classic signs of that.

Well I know what it is and I know those are the signs but I know this will be true.

[Megmo]

Re: My Love

It's very cute and all, but try living together first when you're older. That REALLY changes things.

[CartoonHero94]

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It's very cute and all, but try living together first when you're older. That REALLY changes things.

LMFAO That sounds like something my dad would say
But we're smart for our age I think we could deal with the sacrafices in a relationship.

[Babyvpr]

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It's very cute and all, but try living together first when you're older. That REALLY changes things.

Oh jesus christ, yes it does >_>
Listen to this man, he is wise.

[CartoonHero94]

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Oh jesus christ, yes it does >_>
Listen to this man, he is wise.

I'm guessing you both had some experience huh?

[Babyvpr]

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My boyfriend is sorta living with me at the moment, well not really, but he stays over here a lot. It gets kinda...UGH. I do enjoy having him here since I didn't see him for almost 3 months, but living with your boy/girlfriend really changes things.

[CartoonHero94]

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My boyfriend is sorta living with me at the moment, well not really, but he stays over here a lot. It gets kinda...UGH. I do enjoy having him here since I didn't see him for almost 3 months, but living with your boy/girlfriend really changes things.

Fill me in on the stuff that he does to make you "UGH"

[Megmo]

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Oh jesus christ, yes it does >_>
Listen to this man, he is wise.

She. And not to mention you haven't even been changed by college yet! It is possible, though. My cousin is still happily married to her high school sweetheart and they have two daughters...but even then they waited for several years.

[CartoonHero94]

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She. And not to mention you haven't even been changed by college yet! It is possible, though. My cousin is still happily married to her high school sweetheart and they have two daughters...but even then they waited for several years.

We're gonna wait til a couple of years to be married trust me.

[TheRapingDragon]

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Living with someone does change things but I still feel that it does help a relationship progress even further.

I loved living with my partner, can't wait to do it again.


At least you're being smart enough to wait a few years until you get married. Good idea.

Anyway, no matter what I say, I still wish you the best of luck.

[travman301]

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Why is that? How many times should a person fall in love before they should get married, 5 times, perhaps 6?

I mean I'm still with the first person I ever went out with, fell in love with, etc. and we plan on getting married and there are no problems.

What you have is rare, and congrats on achieving that. I hope it works out.

I was simply responding to the tone in the OP about impending marriage, and how you should probably wait it out when you fall in "love" when you are 14 years old.

I have some friends who fell in love at 15, got married at 18, and divorced by 20.

It left both of them very upset and in debt. I wouldn't want another person going down that path.

[TheRapingDragon]

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Ah, I completely understand where you're coming from. I tend to just call "love" at 14 "infatuation". I know it isn't always the case but 9 times out of 10 it turns out that they weren't in love, and it's not until they actually fall in love that they understand what they had before was different.

I agree with your point so far as "take it easy". Marriage shouldn't really be on the mind of a 14 year old. The biggest problem is the fact that you're still going through puberty and you'll find that your hormones go crazy for a few years. What you may think of as love could actually just be your hormones.

I guess what I have is different yeah.

[Babyvpr]

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She. And not to mention you haven't even been changed by college yet! It is possible, though. My cousin is still happily married to her high school sweetheart and they have two daughters...but even then they waited for several years.

Sorry :3

Also, all the stuff that makes me go "UGH" is just personal but I learn to deal with it. Just don't rush things, take it slow.

[CartoonHero94]

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Living with someone does change things but I still feel that it does help a relationship progress even further.

I loved living with my partner, can't wait to do it again.


At least you're being smart enough to wait a few years until you get married. Good idea.

Anyway, no matter what I say, I still wish you the best of luck.

Thanks dude I really appriciate it and I hope everything goes well for you also!!