Relationships.

[falconsfan14]

RE: Relationships.

2 years and 6 days.... enough said.

[iggymatrixcounter]

RE: Relationships.

And would you say it's that way for the average person? Or do you have to be superman to get that far??

[180digi]

RE: Relationships.

Please dont kill my thread.

It never did anything to you.

Take it to PMs or the GBin

[iggymatrixcounter]

RE: Relationships.

I'm not killing I just want to know if 13-yr-old people can have serious relationships (on average) and if so how do you keep it working. I'm trying to keep it as civilized as possible but it's very hard for me because it's a concept I don't seem to grasp.

[suicidalmuskrat]

Re: RE: Relationships.

there is no such thing as a relationship at 13-14

15 is pushing it

16 is when the majority are done going through puberty and can understand what the opposite sex is. Still iffy

keep growing your balls before you think about being "in love".

Hate to break it to ya man, but you aren't close to being done with puberty at 16, let alone the phases of maturity not directly linked to puberty. I'm only 20, but compared to most people on the site I'm old...and I've noticed most people seem to think that you get things figured out and stop changing mentally and emotionally at 17-18. This simply isn't true. I've changed more as a person in the last 2 years than I ever thought. There's no real point to that, just an observation.

My advice to the topic--do whatever you feel like. It's really not that big of a deal. If you ask the girl out, you'll most likely go out for a while and break up. You'll get over it. And you might get to experience some physical gratification. If you don't ask her out, you won't start going out. You won't have to deal with the break up, but there's also slim-to-no chance at anything physical. Just do whatever you feel like, and roll with it.

[dontcareaboutmyid]

RE: Re: RE: Relationships.

oh I didn't say maturity is done, I said puberty is done.

and just because you've been together for 2 years 6 days doesn't mean diddly.

How have you handled fights, how do you date, how much time do you spend together in a day, what do you talk about, what don't you talk about, what anniversaries have you celebrated.

[xObserveRx]

RE: Re: RE: Relationships.

Puberty doesn't end till 18 or even 19 in most people... the physical parts of it i'm talking. It does slow down of course, but it's still going till that age.

[iggymatrixcounter]

RE: Re: RE: Relationships.

Yes I also like ObserveRx's point. Because we go through these changes I think your identity, morals, values, etc keep changing. So I'm just saying relationships this young in age don't last, in MY experience, not because the two hate each other, but only because they change who they are.