Wow

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Re: Wow

my dad's been dead for 15 years

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Re: Wow

A serious thread like this shouldn't be de-railed, please.

Seriously, zero, I don't know you, never even replied a post of yours afaik, but it's sad to know about it, I'm really sorry about the death of your father, and I hope you get better quickly.

Just like Marcus said, keep your mind busy, busy enough to keep you away from bad feelings. Play FFR or stuff, take a walk, stay here in the foruns, chatting with people, they can be better than your IRL friends sometimes... You know, do whatever you wish to keep you in a good mood, that's the first thing to do.

Next, sorry to say that, it can seems kinda "cold", but accept the fact. Keep in your mind that your father would be terribly sad to see you like that. So put a smile in your face, even it's fake, and keep it up. Show to your father's memory that you can be a good man, no sadness, no craziness, no ****.

Also, about the sense of loss and past, I learned one thing: Past is past, they have to stay buried no matter what. They can kinda destroy your life in a few seconds, I know what I am talking about. Don't have any dead parents, but my father just disapearred when I was 8, calling to me like I am a friend of him, not his son, so he's kinda dead for me.

Well, just try to keep your good mood and don't let yourself down, I know it's hard in a situation like this, but try. And I hope you get better, man. Cheers.