ok so i grew up this girl, when i was 12 my family moved away so we just moved back, we are both 17 and we started dating,
now like a week after we started dating she left voicemail on my cell saying she was breaking up with me cause she couldint take it anymore, for a bet with her friend to see who would take it harder if they both broke she broke up with me and if he broke up with his girlfriend, i thought that was pretty stupid but i let it slide
now she starts sending me messages last night saying sh might be pregnant, but i asked her if she was a virgin before we started going out and she said yea, so when she told me she thinks she was pregnant i said "lol im not even gonna reply to that" thinking she was joking, then she said she was dead serious and didn't know what to do and she was scared, i then asked "i thought you said you was a virgin?" she said "maybe i told you a little white lie so you would like me"
so now im freaking out, i seriously love her and the thought of her cheating on me like that and might be pregnant scared me, cause i still love her but i can't raise someone else's kid right now, and then i start thinking if that was a little white lie what else has she been lying about?
like 1:30 later she told me to calm down cause it was a joke
so she calls me up and i start fighting with her over the phone, cause what kind of stupid joke is that? i mean c'mon if i told her i screwed a girl she would probably break up with me instantly,
i feel like i was to harsh.... (i didn't curse her or anything, i said she was a dumb buttocks and that what she did was completely idiotic) I don't think i should apologize cause imo, that was the most stupid joke she could have pulled... i took it very seriously, but i feel bad. should i? or will that make her think she can keep doing this to me?
(we've been dating since a month now)
now like a week after we started dating she left voicemail on my cell saying she was breaking up with me cause she couldint take it anymore, for a bet with her friend to see who would take it harder if they both broke she broke up with me and if he broke up with his girlfriend, i thought that was pretty stupid but i let it slide
now she starts sending me messages last night saying sh might be pregnant, but i asked her if she was a virgin before we started going out and she said yea, so when she told me she thinks she was pregnant i said "lol im not even gonna reply to that" thinking she was joking, then she said she was dead serious and didn't know what to do and she was scared, i then asked "i thought you said you was a virgin?" she said "maybe i told you a little white lie so you would like me"
so now im freaking out, i seriously love her and the thought of her cheating on me like that and might be pregnant scared me, cause i still love her but i can't raise someone else's kid right now, and then i start thinking if that was a little white lie what else has she been lying about?
like 1:30 later she told me to calm down cause it was a joke
so she calls me up and i start fighting with her over the phone, cause what kind of stupid joke is that? i mean c'mon if i told her i screwed a girl she would probably break up with me instantly,
i feel like i was to harsh.... (i didn't curse her or anything, i said she was a dumb buttocks and that what she did was completely idiotic) I don't think i should apologize cause imo, that was the most stupid joke she could have pulled... i took it very seriously, but i feel bad. should i? or will that make her think she can keep doing this to me?
(we've been dating since a month now)
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