Public Speaking DD=

[XUioX]

So next week on monday, my history class will be presenting our powerpoint projects on Africa. Really is this a big deal? Maybe it isnt... But for me? Its a HUGE DEAL!

Public speaking is one of the things i cannot do at all. Its practically one of my biggest weaknesses of all. When i get called up to present something infront of my class, i swear, i practically lose it. Basically what will happen to me is, when i walk up to the front, i first refuse to look at anyone in the class, next when im about to speak, my throat ties up in knots so its difficult to talk without choking, then i start to shake.

Today, i had to go up front and present a spanish dialog assignment with my partner... we were making a conversation in spanish, and we had to read what we wrote. After he talked, i almost lost it.. my whole head just went insane, then i started to speak, and i had to use everything i could to keep it together.. and luckily i just made it out of that. BUT, on monday, i have to do a 5 minute presentation, all by myself, no partners, in front of my class, and i dont know what im going to do. I need advice.

First, have you had any past experiences with public speaking that your not happy about?

Next, Have you overcome your fear in public speaking?

and lastly, got any advice for me?

[knuckles2224]

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Either embarrass yourself from going mentally crazy from public speaking
Or
You can just do it and get it over with.

[Kekeb]

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Do you have low self esteem?
That's a serious question, I don't see why you would have troubles in front of classmates you have probably known for awhile (grade 9/10??)

[XUioX]

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Do you have low self esteem?

Hmm... i guess i do have a low self esteem. The thing is, most of the time, i try not to talk when i dont need to talk, and i try not to draw attention. So basically its all a big shock when i have to speak.

[knuckles2224]

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Just imagine that all the other students are like monkeys, maybe that'll be easier to talk then?

[foilman8805]

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Protip: Before you go up to speak and you're still sitting down, you should loosen and tighten your leg muscles to expend some of the nervous energy you have. Don't do it so hard that you hurt yourself though.

Also, I know it's cliche, but even out your breating. Slow down your heart rate by being calm and not taking quick, panicked breaths.

[NFD]

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Practice talking in front of a mirror. Or get your family and friends together and read the speech to them first. That's what my Speech teacher said last year.

[infinity.]

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i actually talk all the time during class, and don't have a problem with public speaking.
do you get nervous about being in front of your classmates? or making mistakes? or both?

Rehearse your performance in front of your parent(s). it builds confidence, but the one thing i always try and do is:

Don't think of your classmates as judgmental, look around at them during the performance and just focus on them being the same as your parents.

either way we all make mistakes
have fun with it

[fido123]

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I have a speech impediment, I stutter a lot but have found ways to fix this. I remember in grade 8 almost in tears at the science fair because I couldn't talk at all because it was too nerve racking for me just knowing I was going to stutter and joke up and there was nothing I could do about it. Over the past two years I have recently came out of my shell a little and I found the best way to overcome my speech impediment and nervousness of public speaking is to really, be comfortable with how others view you as it is always better than you think it with a low self-esteem and for projects like these, understand nobody cares and nobody but the teacher is actually listening to you.

[Kekeb]

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I used to have this problem, until I realized the people watching my presentation don't even pay attention to it. I recommend going first if you have the choice, if you can't help but feel nervous get it over with.

[Zageron]

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I have a few tips which worked for me when I was nervous in front of people.

1. Pretend no one matters, and no matter what happens you're always better than they are.
2. If you mess up, laugh and say 'dang' quietly outloud.
3. Expend energy before that class, run like a km or mile, whatever, as fast as you can.
4. Ask your teacher to randomly select you, so you don't know when your turn is. Request that you go first so you don't have anything to beat.
5. Make yourself all happy and pretend that your having a discussion with yourself.

[OrganisM]

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Practice in front of the mirror while fapping. It will make things so much easier when you don't have to get up in front of the class and masturbate while speaking.

[s0ulst0n3]

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Past experiences: As many people know, I am the lead singer and guitarist for a band, so nerves come pretty common for me. I have to go up on stage in front of a bunch of strangers and play music they may not even enjoy. It's usually either lose or win, but in one case someone requested we play Call Me by Blondie. Okay..I told him we didn't know the song, but he said he didn't care how horrible we played as long as it was decent. I mostly hummed it, since we all do listen to the song. Dylan and Nathan both listen to it frequently and play it so it wasn't a problem for them.

Afterwards, he started laughing, talking **** and just being unreasonable. He made everyone laugh at us and made a complete fool of us. I took it unprofessionally, and just left all mad.

Have I overcome fear of public speaking: Not completely, but I am way more confident than I used to be. Singing is worse than speaking in my opinion as people are looking for quality in your voice. Just for flat out speaking, I have overcome this in class presentations. I mean, it's not like they will care, right? It's for marks, not for impressing people (except for the teacher).

Advice/Tips: I recommend doing the best you possibly can. Look at the class and don't hide behind your paper. Being afraid can only get you less marks and embarrass you more. Why lose marks just because people are immature and rude? That is, if they are.

Another tip I recommend is to try to smile and look confident. Looking at everyone with your eyes closed is still alright at times, but it isn't something you should do frequently. Smiling, popping jokes, and arm gestures are the most important parts.

NOW! How to help you with your fear. Disregard all these things that will help your mark. Just think how they are thinking. When they look at you and see you standing up there, what is running through their head? Is it, "Haha, this guy is nervous as heck and can't talk worth ****". Or is it, "Wow, this guy can stand up there and do a great presentation without being scared! I wish I could be like that!". It's good to think in their position as it sometimes helps me. It makes me think..heck, I'm doing pretty decent, aren't I?

Some people find this works, but I personally don't. Look at the class, but don't look at them. Kind of cross your eyes and look at no one in particular. It may reduce your embarrassment if you aren't talking to anyone indirectly. This has never worked for me, but my friend Dylan it works for. I guess I recommend this, it may just be the fact I am weird! Heehee. x3

Lastly, practice! You will be way more confident when you believe in yourself! The only way to do that is to study the presentation. You should only be scared if you KNOW you don't have correct information. Stuff that will make people say, "What the hell is this? That's not right at all". That kind of stuff is something you should avoid. If you have all correct information, then read over your speech over and over. Do you know what you're going to say? Are you confident you won't forget? If you aren't too confident, it's not too late to study and memorize enough information for a 5minute speech since this is next week. Bring flash cards. Ones you can look at for a split second and remember what you were going to say immediately!

Always remember, marks are more important than trying to impress your classmates. I have followed this bit of advice and never got under 96% on any presentation in my life. It may be stressful at the time, but it should end quickly.

Oh, 1 more thing. Try to go as early as you can. I feel less humiliated if I go first and I have no one to try to top. The person before you may make a humourous presentation which could be hard to top. Some teachers mark unfairly in situations like that. If it's too late to go first, then don't mind this. Just go at your best, try to poke in some appropriate jokes, and know your facts!!!

I wish you good luck on your presentation, buddy.

~Soul

[Grandiagod]

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Everyone in class is going to judge you as a person from this report.

You better do good or kiss your social life goodbye.

[MooMoo_Cowfreak]

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Jesus soulstone that was a little unnecessary.

What you need to do is realize all you're doing is giving a report, it's not like you're at the presidential debate. And besides, in the end, it's gonna happen, try not to be nervous before hand because otherwise you'll build up to bad when it actually happens.