please...

[Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare]

i just really need some advice right now. my girlfriend and i are having some problems...she did something (not cheating or anything like that) but i don't know if i can forgive her. i love her so much and i planned on spending the rest of my life with her but i think it's all just too much. please i don't want any bull**** comments. i just need your help

[GuidoHunter]

Re: please...

In all seriousness, make sure you read this first.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare]

Re: please...

In all seriousness, make sure you read this first.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

see this is what i hate. i have a serious fuking propblem so i ask for help, and what do i get? a fuking link talking about boobs. thanks for the help jackass

[mfelten86]

Re: please...

Well maybe be a little bit more specific. (not trying to be a jerk)..just might be able to help you more. also...try posting this in the critical thinking thread because you might get more serious responses.

[stretchypanda]

Re: please...

So, you post an entirely nonspecific thread asking for specific advice.

A mod comes along and directs you to a thread that, while on the outside is laced with cynicism, is actually quite useful, and you call him a jackass.

k.

[YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL]

Re: please...

Well... although I agree with everyone that asking for relationships on an internet forum isnt the best place, I'll try be mature and helpful about it.

If what she did really got under your skin and made you question her character, then you really need to consider what kind of future you really have with her. I mean if you thought you knew her so much that you were going to marry her and then she comes out of nowhere with a questionable act, then you really have to think about what your future with her will really yield.

Just talk to her about it, maybe you two can get everything out in the open so there arent any personality traits that one of you is hiding that would possibly ruin the relationship further down the road

[Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare]

Re: please...

Well... although I agree with everyone that asking for relationships on an internet forum isnt the best place, I'll try be mature and helpful about it.

If what she did really got under your skin and made you question her character, then you really need to consider what kind of future you really have with her. I mean if you thought you knew her so much that you were going to marry her and then she comes out of nowhere with a questionable act, then you really have to think about what your future with her will really yield.

Just talk to her about it, maybe you two can get everything out in the open so there arent any personality traits that one of you is hiding that would possibly ruin the relationship further down the road

thank you. you have really helped alot.

[g4z33b0]

Re: please...

Psh stick it in her butt and pee obviously.

[YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL]

Re: please...

Didnt you steal that from someone?

[redwrist]

Re: please...

Well I would need to know a few things b4 I can play Doctor Phil

1. How old are yall. <And yes that makes a huge diff>
2.What did she do?
3.Have you ever done ANYTHING wrong in the relationship?

[g4z33b0]

Re: please...

Didnt you steal that from someone?

From the thread he refuses to take advice from.

[GuidoHunter]

Re: please...

see this is what i hate. i have a serious fuking propblem so i ask for help, and what do i get? a fuking link talking about boobs. thanks for the help jackass

You know what I was trying to do? Spare you the bull**** comments about telling you to read the stickies and echoing exactly what was said in the thread, considering it would be the advice of most of the users, here.

Allow me to quote effectively the question you have, already answered in a sticky that you are expected to read:

Q. "My boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on me, but is begging I take them back."
A. "You'd have to be pretty stupid to do it."

Not only did you disregard this, but you gave us nothing to work with, as stretchy said. What did you expect?

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL]

Re: please...

thank you. you have really helped alot.

Ah hem, problem solved?

[edubardus]

Re: please...

Ah hem, problem solved?

I think it's so kawaii how fondly you think of your 'good deed.'

[YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL]

Re: please...

Good deeds!!!

All i did was respond the way he wanted