i hate my situation...

[windsurfer-sp]

Re: i hate my situation...

If you cant have both girl and friend, choose one. Both have pro's and con's but it should come down to who you value more. If you want a long term RELATIONSHIP with her then you have to live with her brother anyhow. If you guys get married, the brothers going to show up to the wedding?

How about you doing some logical thinking, work out what you want and work out how to get there.

[IaMtHeEaStErBuNnY]

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hmmm... i guess your right... well, i guess ill call him and tell him i gotta see him... maybe is both bianca and i tell him at the same time, it will become apparent to him that this is the best thing for us...

[AriesMalvis]

Re: i hate my situation...

well definitely tell him, no it's not his right...but it kind of is your job as a friend. if he really can't accept the face that you two like each other...then he's not a very good friend. i mean it could be hard for him at first...but if he's a good friend like you say he is, he'll understand and be happy for you two. but i do understand...totally...ive had weird problems too. my worst was when i was going out with a guy and then after many months i found out i liked his sister lol

[windsurfer-sp]

Re: i hate my situation...

hmmm... i guess your right... well, i guess ill call him and tell him i gotta see him... maybe is both bianca and i tell him at the same time, it will become apparent to him that this is the best thing for us...

Well whatever I have no idea what you should do. Hopefully you will learn to do some self-problem solving. Good luck working it out

[IaMtHeEaStErBuNnY]

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hmmm... i guess hes gonna have to accept it at this point... but if he doesnt, then ive lost a friend, but from what i understand, his parents have already allowed her to start dating... the main problem will be explainig why i lied to him for all this time... i was posing a fake relationship with some other girl just so i could sway his attention from his sister

[AriesMalvis]

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o well that's bad :/ but understandable as to why you did that...just when you tell him, if you decide to...be totally straight forward and take his feelings into consideration

[FRANKKK]

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wow rough situation man, same thing happened to me before...you just gotta tell him how it is, and if he really respects you he will let it be. but you should always be honest with your friends, so dont be supirsed if he gets mad.

[Tibs]

Re: i hate my situation...

Date her openly, but put on a burger king mask whenever you're at his house.

edit: and if he's onto you, give him a burger.

edit2: i just really like editing posts

[IaMtHeEaStErBuNnY]

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hmmm... good points... and thanks... this is the kind of response i was looking for, instead of the criticism of why im asking for the advice, but these answers that im actually considering... thank you!!!

[IaMtHeEaStErBuNnY]

Re: i hate my situation...

Date her openly, but put on a burger king mask whenever you're at his house.

edit: and if he's onto you, give him a burger.

edit2: i just really like editing posts

i hate burger king

edit: and i think your kinda wierd

edit2: and yes, editing posts is very satisfying

edit3: can we be just a little more mature about this???

[FRANKKK]

Re: i hate my situation...

seriously though, you gotta be honest with him.
the longer you wait the more serious/mad he will become when he finds out.
so you should probly tell him asap

[IaMtHeEaStErBuNnY]

Re: i hate my situation...

seriously though, you gotta be honest with him.
the longer you wait the more serious/mad he will become when he finds out.
so you should probly tell him asap

just got off the phone with him... im gonna see him tomorrow... and im gonna let him know... thanks to everyone who gave advice about how to approach him... any other ideas are welcome too...

[FRANKKK]

Re: i hate my situation...

good luck man, post in here tomorrow about what happens
i hope everything goes good for you.
p.s. make sure you dont look away from him when your telling him, seriously

[IaMtHeEaStErBuNnY]

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im gonna look him in the eye like young leonidas to the wolf in 300

[lolTorrent]

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oh god... the grammar... is horrible lol i cant... form... complete... sentences holy crap oh wait lol1