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  • sexaypickle
    FFR Player
    • Oct 2006
    • 45
    #1

    Help!!

    Okay, I am completely stressed out and manage to take it out on my boyfriend, but when we talk about it, and I think we compromise, he goes and does the thing we compromised about again, and I just don't know what to do. It hurts me and Idk what to do, am I just being stupid??
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    • Neonatrias
      MAЯISA
      FFR Simfile Author
      • Jan 2004
      • 919
      #2
      Re: Help!!

      Have you tried pointing this out to him? One of the biggest problems in any relationship is a failure to point out something that's going wrong. While it seems you've got a sense of open communication with him, something isn't being said.

      Then again, you're being pretty vague here and I'm not sure if I'm getting this right.

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        • sexaypickle
          FFR Player
          • Oct 2006
          • 45
          #3
          Re: Help!!

          i have pointed them out to him, and he just says he doesn't understand why it bugs me, and then i explain to him why it does, and it turns into a fight.

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            • DrugstoreCowboy
              Is Famouz
              FFR Simfile Author
              • Sep 2006
              • 3409
              #4
              Re: Help!!

              Well, considering im an expert in the relationship field </sarcasm>, ill give this one a shot.


              It depends on whats being done. If its something small like "i hate when you take a jog" then it will turn into an arguement. But if its serious, then theres no reason he should get mad.

              Whatever you do, dont just sit there and point out everything bad he does. That is the worst. Just tell him you would appreciate if he wouldnt do the certain thing hes doing. If he keeps doing it, point it out and say, "once again, id appreciate it if you wouldnt do that again". He'll get it eventually.

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                • sexaypickle
                  FFR Player
                  • Oct 2006
                  • 45
                  #5
                  Re: Help!!

                  I hope so, because it's making me feel like I'm a horrible girlfriend, but he said we compromised about it, and then he makes me feel horrible about it when it happens again, like it's just something he has to do.

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                    • nforcer06164
                      FFR Player
                      • Mar 2003
                      • 4772
                      #6
                      Re: Help!!

                      If it's something minor, I wouldn't make a big deal about it. We all have our quirks, and there will always be something about anybody, including a "significant other," that will annoy us to some extent.

                      Again, as it's been said, I can't be too sure how serious it is, so I can't really give accurate advice, but if you feel it's something you can ignore without any repercussions, try that.

                      I'm not saying that it's okay for him to ignore your wishes; sometimes it's just better to look the other way.

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                        • sexaypickle
                          FFR Player
                          • Oct 2006
                          • 45
                          #7
                          Re: Help!!

                          thanks! i think i'll have to try doing that more.

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