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  • OC_lover_09
    FFR Player
    • Nov 2006
    • 31

    #1

    what do i do?

    i like this guy..................
    lets just say hes a friend of mine but i want him as more....
    hes on my school bus... the bus of legends =]
    & that means he lives by me..
    he recently had a break up with this other girl whos a year older than us
    and shes being a real B!+cH and he gets like really depressed and i feel bad for him...... so yeah i dont know exactly what to do... should i let him get over this....or should i try to go out with him...or something else...

    *clueless*
    Peace Out
    Love, Me <3
  • OnlyTheClouds
    FFR Player
    • Dec 2006
    • 108

    #2
    Re: what do i do?

    I'm gonna field this before anyone rips it up,
    Just get real close to him, don't come within contact of his ex.

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    • Risking
      FFR Player
      • Sep 2006
      • 681

      #3
      Re: what do i do?

      Well, you should mull things over. Like, be the shoulder for him to cry on for awhile. Then when things improve, ask him out.

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      • OC_lover_09
        FFR Player
        • Nov 2006
        • 31

        #4
        Re: what do i do?

        thanks...and dont worry i hate his ex...shes a bitch...
        he wont tell me anything...idk i just know it has something to do with her

        & idk if i can ask him out.... cuz i see him everyday... cuz we like live rite by each other....and if he says no....it might ruin stuff & idk...its weird
        Peace Out
        Love, Me <3

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        • Risking
          FFR Player
          • Sep 2006
          • 681

          #5
          Re: what do i do?

          Originally posted by OC_lover_09
          thanks...and dont worry i hate his ex...shes a bitch...
          he wont tell me anything...idk i just know it has something to do with her

          & idk if i can ask him out.... cuz i see him everyday... cuz we like live rite by each other....and if he says no....it might ruin stuff & idk...its weird
          Like I said, be there for him, become closer friends. After awhile, he may ask you out instead of you asking him out.

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          • OnlyTheClouds
            FFR Player
            • Dec 2006
            • 108

            #6
            Re: what do i do?

            If you're really good friends with him then just ask him to go to a movie or something, be sure to throw in alot of "not as a date, you know, just as friends..." when you really mean date. If he invites you the next time, you're in.

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            • Risking
              FFR Player
              • Sep 2006
              • 681

              #7
              Re: what do i do?

              Originally posted by OnlyTheClouds
              If you're really good friends with him then just ask him to go to a movie or something, be sure to throw in alot of "not as a date, you know, just as friends..." when you really mean date. If he invites you the next time, you're in.
              I am pretty sure that is jumping the gun on things, especially after a breakup.

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              • OnlyTheClouds
                FFR Player
                • Dec 2006
                • 108

                #8
                Re: what do i do?

                Well I mean that's after she plays shoulder to cry on.

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                • Risking
                  FFR Player
                  • Sep 2006
                  • 681

                  #9
                  Re: what do i do?

                  Originally posted by OnlyTheClouds
                  Well I mean that's after she plays shoulder to cry on.
                  Ah. That could work in theory.

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                  • OC_lover_09
                    FFR Player
                    • Nov 2006
                    • 31

                    #10
                    Re: what do i do?

                    lol thanks peeps but yeah...idk he doesnt really "cry" per say.. he like doesnt want to talk about it alot and stuff idk but yeah... hes happy most of the time but i feel bad when hes not......

                    yeah but thanks anyway =] ur a big help
                    Peace Out
                    Love, Me <3

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