I know I should probably post this due to me getting my ass flammed but I need help. My girlfreind of a year and a half dumped me just a day ago and well I really don't know what to do. She basicly said that her life was to stressful and that she doesn't need it now but later on she would probably want me back and stuff, but for some reason she keeps looking at me whenever I pass her in the halls of my school like she made the biggest mistake of her life. It makes me think that she is haveing regrets. It hurts like hell and well I just need someone to help me out. This is all serious and well... thanks if you help me. I really do apreciate it.
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Re: I need help guys....
.... If she regrets it talk to her about it?
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I would normally make a long, and meaningful post on this kind of thing, but here it just doesn't seem worth it. If you still like her, then go to her. If you don't, then don't worry about it, it's her problem (I mean, remember, she dumped you, you shouldn't be feeling guilty at all).Last edited by MCRenaissance; 09-29-2006, 09:32 PM.
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Thats what I meant by getting my ass flamed. Well I could bore you with details but it's mostly all thier. Just me being so confused about this whole situation and not really knowing what to do I just can't find the right words to explaine it all. And now her having regrets about it and me trying to find out whats what, just not what I need at this time. All I'm asking is for help and yeah I know it's probably not a good idea here. But still I'll probably talk to her at some point tomorow and find out whats really happening.And the pea mocks me.
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Well, considering you are young I will tell you that someone else will come along. If your girlfriend is going through a lot you can offer to be there for her and perhaps things will go back to the way they were, or they won't. I realize your age doesn't make it hurt less, but you'll be okay.Comment
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Stay single = more opportunities.
Speaking from well known experience of course.Comment
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The only thing there really is to do in any situation that hurts is to acknowledge that it hurts but that eventually, you'll move on. It'll hurt, and it'll hurt for however long it'll hurt, but it'll stop some time.
I would suggest not pressuring her into getting back together, even if it seems that she wants to get back together. Hell, she might, but if she was the one that said you need to take some space from each other, it's up to her to bring it back together if it's gonna get back together.
It all gets better once you get out of high school. Probably because the possibility of really, trutly being with someone is actually there.SIG PICTURES:
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Listen, I hate to sound like an older jackass here, but High School relationships tend to last a little longer than they should. This was probably your first major girlfriend, you probably have had sex. All this intimacy blinds you to the point that you two probably should have split up a year ago.He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth KennyComment
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My advice, enjoy being young. You have plenty of time to have long meaningful relationships in the future so don't get caught up in the one you have now. If you really like this girl then just hang out with her, be a friend, if she is having problems of some kind, that is what she needs.
What you have to realise is that you are only just a teenager and i am assuming she is the same, you both still have a lot of growing up and changing to do. Part of growing up is learning to deal with loss, so pick yourself up, do things you enjoy and think of what could be in the future not what has been in the past.
Finally, be wary of any girl who says she can't have a relationship now but might want to be with you later on, you can't wait for someone forever, it will only stop you from living your life without any guarentees she will ever come back.
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I've been in two long term relationships (one being three years and the other two) and I semi agree with grandiagod SEMI. Yes, you are 16 and this is probably your first real relationship. And more than likely you've developed the closest bond you've ever had with another person. But, I was in a relationship from when I was 16 until I was 19. Now that it's over, it seems silly that I was with that girl for so long in the first place. I think it was because it was our first real relationship and we didn't want to see it fail and end. Yeah at the time it sucked that we broke up and I felt like my heart was torn out of my chest. But there will be other relationships and when they come around you'll look back on this one that has just ended and realize a lot of different things about it. Like stretch said just keep your chin up and look forward to the next relationship that's going to happen even if it's with another person.Originally posted by SynthlightComment
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Regardless of how old he is or how familiar he is with love, there is a good deal of truth in his words. I'm almost 22, I like to think I know what love is, and I'd have said just about the same thing.
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Write he a letter confessing your undying love to her...in blood. You could give it to her on Halloween...use that as an excuse, later, when things are cool, you can tell her that you used real blood. But yeah, that's pretty romantic...like Shakespeare sh8t, you know?Comment
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Maybe she is having second thoughts, or... just looking at you o_o;
Either way, if you're curious, then just ask her, seriously, sit her down n'crap.
Then ask her if she really feels as if she wants this. If she does, then say no more. Maybe in due time, she'll come back.Comment
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I say leave her alone. She asked for space to deal with stressful things and stuff. It'll be hard and heart twisting but I think that's the best thing to do. I think if you try and talk to her you'll add to the "stress" and start losing the chance to be together again. That's if there ever was a chance.Originally posted by TibsComment
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