Yeah...help

[vashthestampede0987]

Stick the penis in the ear. However this works out, I'm sure it will involve her and a penis.

[Tokzic]

It sounds like you two really aren't for each other. Don't feel obligated to stay with someone, stay with someone because you want to.

If you do want to be with her, despite this entire no-conversation business, talk to her about it. Hell, if nothing else, it'll be an ice-breaker.

[FoJaR]

Stick the penis in the ear. However this works out, I'm sure it will involve her and a penis.

GTFO you worthless creep

[masterhickle]

vashthestampede0987 wrote:
Stick the penis in the ear. However this works out, I'm sure it will involve her and a penis.


GTFO you worthless creep

Yes...I agree...please GTFO if ya don't have anything actually constructive to say

For those of you actually trying...thank you...I like some of the things Im hearing

[dontcareaboutmyid]

pee on her.

While playing some romantic R&B.

in bed.

[FoJaR]

you ruin everything you touch.

[dontcareaboutmyid]

*attempts to touch FoJaR*


YOU SHALL BE RUINED HEATHEN!! I vote this thraed on this note: in a week no one will care, so dump her and go look at the swimsuit edition of Sports illustrated if you're feeling down.

[darkshark]

pshh.....men...

[evilbutterfly]

All you guys saying to break up are silly. What most of you fail to realize is that when people voice their problems, they ONLY voice their problems. I'm sure there's plenty of good stuff that happens/has happened between them that he isn't saying because he's focusing on the problem and trying to fix it.

On that note, part of the problem is that you focus on the problem. Focus less on what you're doing wrong and how it can be fixed and more on what you're doing right and how you can enhance that. It's hard to fix weaknesses but easy to exploit strengths, and since this is probably some terminal non-long-term high school relationship, it's better to go the easy route and overshadow the small errors with big awesomeness. If you're going for longterm though, flex the awesome muscle while still worrying about the problems, because they'll come up later to bite you in the ass.

But anywho, it's not a big deal if you guys don't talk, except for the reason why you don't talk. Usually not talking shows that there's nothing to say, which means you probably don't have much in common. This, however, does not mean you should end it immediately, since it's probably just a high school have-fun relationship that isn't too serious, like I assumed before. What you need to do is find out what she likes. Hang out with her where her friends might randomly show up and LISTEN to what THEY talk about. Find something in what they like that you have some sort of interest in and work off of that. She's obviously not with you just for talking, whereas with friends it's different and she'd HAVE to talk to keep that up.

And even if there isn't really anything you have in common with her, suck it up and do things she likes and hope she returns the favor. If she's one of those girly girls who loves to go shopping and you're a typical guy that hates that, get the hell over it and go to the mall with her. Girls like it when guys do things we all know they hate to do JUST for the girl. It shows that you care at least that much.

PS:

pshh.....men...

I may be wrong, but I'm fairly sure those are boys, not men. Neither are perfect, but the latter aren't so bad after the learn a thing or two.

[masterhickle]

Yeah...

Id go along with her and her friends, if I was ever invited to...

But, on a lighter note...our last night out consisted of going to the movies (her choice), then going to eat afterward (mostly my choice since she couldn't reach a decision...she wanted to go to one area, but was thinking not to because it's where I work and she thought I was sick of it =P it's where we ended up going anyway XP), then I went over her house for about 45mins just to watch some TV w/ her...turned out to be a really good night

[Lightknight924]

For the both of you? Or did she seem bored most of the time?

[Mindfields]

If you really are 13, and she's 13 also, just dump her. Girls that age are extremely fickle and all they want is Johnny Depp and Leonardo DiCaprio.
Wait until you're 15 or 16 or something like that when girls settle down and start thinking twice as realistically.

[NaOTa4231]

Im currently 17 (just recently, about a week ago)...she's 16 (end of last june)

[Mindfields]

Im currently 17 (just recently, about a week ago)...she's 16 (end of last june)

Alright, so how about this, dump her by telling her to grow the fuck up.

[Lightknight924]

Yeah wow, I thought he was 13 like me. Then I was going to suggest for him to dump her. Now I think he better dump her so he doesn't have to waste his childhood life with someone like her.

Mindfields you answered my question as to why girls in my grade are so imature.