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  • Tonberry_Kid
    FFR Player
    • May 2005
    • 3408
    #1

    Some advice please.

    Alright.

    I'm in marching band and all, and I am dating someone. A TON of people in the band seem to have a problem with me. Mostly the leadership(section leaders, some instructors, etc.).

    Should I just take the shit they throw at me. Like trying to persuade my girlfriend into dumping me because, "I'm changing her". Or should I just screw it and just leave the band next year?

    I've run into a few skirmishes with some people in the band. Like arguments that seem to make me pissed off beyond all measures. And to top that off, my SECTION LEADER hates me. It screws over my concentration with the band and causes me to go into a pissed off stupour(sp?) which results in me blowing up into the instructors.

    I love being in the band, it's just dealing with all that shit tends to make me hate it.

    So all in all, should I quit, stick it out, what?

    Any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated.
    UNLEASH THE DRAGON
    Originally posted by mead1
    My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.
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    • Mindfields
      Banned
      • Dec 2004
      • 1566
      #2
      RE: Some advice please.

      Report the guy to your school's counselor or some one of the nature. If anyone's offsetting you doing what you want to do and going out with who you want then the Counselor should be able to do something. But remember that you're a teenager and we have this thing called Teenage Angst.
      -EDIT-
      If all else fails, take it up with the person yourself. Do NOT swing the first punch if it comes to that. If you feel insecure about it, have a friend or two come with you.

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        • emccky
          Banned
          • Apr 2004
          • 4811
          #3
          RE: Some advice please.

          whoop their asses. Seriously, put them in their place.

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            • The_Q
              FFR Player
              • May 2004
              • 4391
              #4
              RE: Some advice please.

              Why are they giving you problems? Your girlfriend? Your lack of time? I'd like more information before I start writing an advice column for the Teen With Angst.

              Q

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                • Lightknight924
                  FFR Player
                  • Jul 2005
                  • 1164
                  #5
                  RE: Some advice please.

                  Deffinitly don't break up with your girlfriend if you really like her just because the band kids say so. Like Q said we could use a little more information.

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                    • Tonberry_Kid
                      FFR Player
                      • May 2005
                      • 3408
                      #6
                      RE: Some advice please.

                      They don't like me Q.

                      It's as simple as that. I honestly don't know what I did. My section leader just seems to hate me. And this one dude, is I guess pissed off because I have her and he doesn't...(girlfriend)
                      UNLEASH THE DRAGON
                      Originally posted by mead1
                      My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.

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                        • Mindfields
                          Banned
                          • Dec 2004
                          • 1566
                          #7
                          RE: Some advice please.

                          Oh. Well fuck them. Turn into a complete ass hole. Combine all their hate for you and send ALL that hate right back at them only 10x worse. One by one please, they need to expect it beforehand.

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                            • Specforces
                              Yes
                              • Jan 2004
                              • 5028
                              #8
                              RE: Some advice please.

                              Start carrying a nine.
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                                • Moogy
                                  嗚呼
                                  FFR Simfile Author
                                  • Aug 2003
                                  • 10303
                                  #9
                                  RE: Some advice please.

                                  middleschool haha
                                  Plz visit my blog

                                  ^^^ vintage signature from like 2006 preserved

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                                    • Specforces
                                      Yes
                                      • Jan 2004
                                      • 5028
                                      #10
                                      RE: Some advice please.

                                      That Arch0wl quote gets me every single time.
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                                        • dancingmaniac3
                                          FFR Player
                                          • Nov 2003
                                          • 1873
                                          #11
                                          RE: Some advice please.

                                          band lol.

                                          fuck the band.

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                                            • JurseyRider734
                                              lil j the bad b-word
                                              • Aug 2003
                                              • 7506
                                              #12
                                              RE: Some advice please.

                                              You must have done something to them.

                                              Are you really annoying or something?


                                              If you are, just stop. They're not going to change, so you have to if you want to stay in the band. Make them like you.
                                              Originally posted by Arch0wl
                                              I'd better be considering I own roughly six textbooks on logic and have taken courses involving its extensive use

                                              Originally posted by Afrobean
                                              Originally Posted by JurseyRider734
                                              the fact that you're resorting to threatening physical violence says a lot anyway.
                                              Just that you're a piece of shit who can't see reason and instead deserves a fucking beating.

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                                                • talisman
                                                  Resident Penguin
                                                  FFR Simfile Author
                                                  • May 2003
                                                  • 4598
                                                  #13
                                                  RE: Some advice please.

                                                  what the hell marching band in december? football season is long over.

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                                                    • dancingmaniac3
                                                      FFR Player
                                                      • Nov 2003
                                                      • 1873
                                                      #14
                                                      Re: RE: Some advice please.

                                                      Originally posted by talisman
                                                      what the hell marching band in december? football season is long over.
                                                      competitions, UIL, stuff like that.

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                                                        • MalReynolds
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                                                          • Sep 2003
                                                          • 6571
                                                          #15
                                                          RE: Re: RE: Some advice please.

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