Break up.

[87x]

A lot of people on here, mostly good friends, know about me and -Skooter- being a couple. Well, her name is Mindy and yesterday we finally broke up. We had been going out for 2 1/2 years and we actually lived together for a good 9 months. I broke up with her and although I knew it was the right thing to do it still hurts real bad inside. Im kind of like an emotionless person when it comes to sadness. I have survived funerals, weddings, accidents, and other tragic/joyes events without shedding any tears, But for the first time in a long while I cried. It might not of been for very long but that doesn't matter. Im completely shaken up about this, so if I don't post anything interesting or intelligent don't be discouraged. It's only because I can't sit and think on anything without it drifting over to her. Then I lose all clearity. I really don't think it was either of our faults but more based on the fact that we were different people. She is very verbal and open and Im more quiet and closed. If anyone is too blame for this it would probably be me. So if you see her still around on here try and be nice.

Sorry the above looks like one great big pile of text, but im not really in the mood right now to go through and seperate by ideas or segments. Sorry. Im going to try and do something else. Night.

[Sol_Solis]

RE: Break up.

I'm an idiot and will no longer post in serious threads.

Because my name is Lightdarkness and I like editing peoples posts.

[QreepyBORIS]

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Geez, very sorry about the hard breakup. It must feel terrible after two and a half years to just end it like that. I sympathize for both of you. Best of wishes.

[lightdarkness]

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Dang. :'(

[msbrunnettemickey]

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Wow. I don't know what to say.
I am very surprised this happened, i didn't think it would.
Well.. i hope everything would turn out for the good, and stay strong.

[banditcom]

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Lets all share our personal life on forums!

gtfo reggin


Best of luck to both you and her. Still remaining friends or not?

[ckj846]

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2 1/2 years!!!! Wow.. that is deep. I feel for you, and hope that you realize that what you did was the right thing to do. Sorry about it man... =(
O_o

[JurseyRider734]

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Aw =( I'm sorry. Feel better.

[87x]

RE: Break up.

Still remaining friends or not?

Maybe not initially, but I really hope it turns out like that. I want too, but she's saying its going to be too hard at first.

[ckj846]

RE: Break up.

Whoa, I just re read my post and it came out totally wrong. My bad. I meant to say that if you think that it was the right thing to do, don't feel guilty over your decision. I have no idea what it is like being in that long of a relationship, but I can only guess at the pain you are going through. Stay strong, and just stay friends. Just because you break up doesn't mean that you guys can't be friends too.
O_o

[87x]

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I understood you ckj, but thanks for clearing it up. I know what I did was right so I don't feel guilty about the decision I made. I feel bad because now Im in my room alone, with no Mindy to rest my head on, or no Mindy to lay down beside. Im going to miss her alot and this is going to suck for some time.

[Tokzic]

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I know how horrible it'll feel for a while, but seeing that you were the one that ended it, I know it must have been the right thing to do. Just remember that and you'll be able to move on.

[Arthur122368]

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that sucks

[FishFishRevolution]

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I know the feeling. It's really tough getting used to being alone again in all the time that you used to have with her. The best thing to do in my experience is to keep yourself positive; do constuctive things. After a bit, it won't be so hard and you'll start talking with her again, and before you know it you'll be friends again.

It'll all work out, just keep the positive outlook.

[Neonatrias]

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I'm sure there are more people on these forums than we'd realize that have been through something like this. I've been through stuff like this a couple times -- Not quite on such a large scale, though.

I don't know what to tell you other than just to live onward. Life goes on whether you like it or not and that's simply the way it is. And since you said you felt it was the right thing to do, hey, maybe it was. You've got plenty of decent people to turn to around here, and I'm sure in real life too.

Good luck.