Wich gets you better?

[tonsofun777]

You know if you're physically attracted to the other person. If your emotional bond is strong, you'll figure out how to have good sex together. This is especially true for people who are more concerned about emotional and spiritual togetherness than physical pleasure.

Like I said, you're living in a fantasy world. That does not hold true most of the time.

I just wanted to say that this statement is wrong. Sperm does not die off quickly. Outside of the body sperm can live 2-3 days, inside the body up to 5 days. If a woman even sits on a spot where there is ejaculation(still wet) she can get pregnant because the sperm travels.

*sighs* You're dead wrong. Well, not quite dead wrong. But even wet, most of the sperm die when exposed to the air. They are very sensitive to temperature. All the sperm die when the seminal fluid dries, however.

This relationship without sex is seriously the best I've ever had, because I know that Guido's not just saying, "I love you," to get into my pants. He's not going to get emotionally abusive if I say I don't want to have sex. He's not going to dump me and then come crawling back every time he needs some ass, telling me he still loves me, only to break my heart again a few minutes later. He's just going to sleep beside me on the weekends we get to see each other, and he's just going to hold me and make me feel safe.

What is it with women and these "tests"? It's bullshit. You got with assholes Amanda, that's all. I'm assuming you didn't want to have sex those times because you weren't in the mood or just didn't want to, and not as a form of power over them.

However, just because a guy wants sex a lot and gets upset over it doesn't mean they're dicks. I know I would be upset if a girl whom I was intimate with refused sex. I would feel like I was unwanted. Obviously there are some variables like how often I wanted it, how often she did, how often she turned me down, reasons (or excuses) why, etc. I'm a very reasonable guy, but if a girl kept not wanting to, I'd be heartbroken, just as if she stopped showing affection. Again, I don't know the variables of your situation but I am giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming they were just dicks. The sex thing is a trust issue that should get over. You're just delaying it and want to rely on the marriage vows to show that there's trust.


My suitemate's friend from Austria visited for a week. She told me something when I brought her back to the airport. She said "It's easy to have sex with someone, but hard to have a relationship with them".