a little help pleese

[DDRadicted]

Well im giving it to you straight. I have girls problems. This one girl named Haley really really likes me, but she is butt ugly. The bad thing about this is that when we went on a trip to Washington D.C. she has pictues of me sleeping, and me going to the bathroom????. Now she is threating to put the pics in the year book unless I go out with her, and by doing this I'll be a social outcast. And to make things worse my friend went out with her one time so rejecting her would be like spitting in his face.

I would really like some help....you can tell im desperate.

[tnyhwk900]

RE: a little help pleese

Ouch, that sucks. I have no real advice for you, except sarcastic advice. And I know you don't want that.

[Freak83]

RE: a little help pleese

a) Would the yearbook staff really actually ALLOW pictures of you going to the bathroom to go in the yearbook?
b) I would say looks aren't the important thing but yeah, if she's blackmailing you that tells you something about the rest of her personality.

Talk to her and let her know you're not interested. Best you can do =/

My girl problems is that she said she would call me in a few days and that was on Thursday... Now I'm just waiting and waiting... arg.

[bman_006]

phhht.... ok so she has pics of you, i dont think that the people who make the yearbook are gunna put pictures of someone going to the bathroom in it. i mean come on, they cant do that, you have rights to ur privacy, lol. also, id come back and say that YOU have pics of HER! i mean, you guys were on the same trip, who says she doesnt know that you took pics of her? if you had no clue, then she wouldnt of either. if you did it, make the story believable too :P. the best thing to do in this kind of situation is to fight BACK!!!

but you didnt hear it from mee........:P

[dinnerroll]

RE: a little help pleese

Kill her.

Actually it depends on what grade you are in and how much power she has in what gets in the yearbook. You could say that it is all fake and she photoshopped it. Are you like sleeping naked or something? If you are in boxers or something it should be no biggie. Also. What kind of pic does she have of you in the bathroom? Are you like taking a dump or something? Actually I can't help you with the bathroom thing. Kids in school can be brutal just to feel better about themselves. I hope I helped. If not it's because I've only had one girlfriend and she dumped me for a gay guy so I don't know.

[Pooping_Panda]

RE: a little help pleese

thats a little stalkery ya think? have you seen the pictures of you? maybe she is just blushing to make you go out with her. Do what freak said and have a talk with her...say something like...id rather be friends then boyfriend and girlfriend or something...and ask to see the pictures...if she shows them to you...ri[p them out of her hands and rip them to bits then throw them away.

[DDRadicted]

RE: a little help pleese

Well the bathroom picture was in my hotel room (i was pissing) so I think one of my friends took it. And I was just sleeping on the bus when she took the other picture. What scares me is that she said she has more.

But the scariest thing is that the bathroom picture shows a little of my **** and she put it as her screen saver. Only god knows what shes been doing with that

[DDRadicted]

Re: RE: a little help pleese

thats a little stalkery ya think? have you seen the pictures of you? maybe she is just blushing to make you go out with her. Do what freak said and have a talk with her...say something like...id rather be friends then boyfriend and girlfriend or something...and ask to see the pictures...if she shows them to you...ri[p them out of her hands and rip them to bits then throw them away.

I have already told her I'm not interested, but she just blanks it out and keeps saying "That doesn't change the fact that I have pics of you"

[Freak83]

RE: Re: RE: a little help pleese

Talk about obsessed... Guess you've done the nice guy approach, maybe try the not-so-nice-guy approach.

[jewpinthethird]

RE: Re: RE: a little help pleese

Say something like:

"Okay. LISTEN. A RELATIONSHIIP BASED ON BLACKMAIL IS PROBABLY NOT A RELATIONSHIP THAT WILL WORK OUT. I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU PHYSICALLY, AND NOW YOU ARE BLACKMAILING ME INTO A RELATIONSHIP. YOU HONESTLY THINK I WOULD WANT TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE WHO THINKS IT IS ALRIGHT TO PUBLISH SOMETHING THAT WOULD HURT ME?"

And if your friend is "hurt" because you rejected her, tell him to get some balls or something.

[User6773]

RE: Re: RE: a little help pleese

Simple, and to the point.

"It's clear to me that someone who feels like she has to threaten me into going out with her isn't really interested in me in the first place. Rip up those pictures and I'll reconsider."

Speak firmly and succinctly.

[Pooping_Panda]

RE: Re: RE: a little help pleese

just be all "if you give me the pics ill go out with you..." then if she gives them to you rip them up and be all...."i changed my mind" then go make out with someone in front of her

[bman_006]

yeah enuf with the nice approach, the best thing now is just to be angry. now, id do some pranks on her and ger humilited infront of the entire school (ok maybe SOME kids at school), some how though, im not giving away any of my secrets :P

[hydrojakep]

Say no. Have her put the pictures in the yearbook.
You act as if a teacher wont see it before it's released.
If she did put it there then you tell the principle/ asst. principle the truth.
She gets suspended.
She moves to another school.
You add her to your block list.

[DDRadicted]

I did the last one already, but I think the other things will work.

Does anyone else have a similer problem