Love- What is it?

[Jam930]

were you pissed when u made your new sig? no offense. but u went from some nice complicated one, to some soldier screwed in the desert, to some kind of bat-skull-terminator devil surounded by explosions of poison. quite different from the cute little chibi specforces in your av.

PS. Linkin park sux.

[RobbyZero]

(What is love baby don't hurt me,dont hurt me no more )

Love that song :P


Anyways... Love - What is it? I don't have the slightest clue

[User6773]

Hahahaha Robby, I was actually thinking of the Haddaway song when I read the topic name.

[RobbyZero]

Good times...

Night at the Roxbury ( one of the greatest movies )

[Tsuguri]

SNL skits fo ever baby.

[Anonymous]

Jam, I don't know about you, but i believe that loving your mother/father/brother/sister/family, is completely different from being in love with your spouse/fiance. You don't love them the same way as you love your spouse. I can't explain it exactly, but its a different kind of love.

And with what someone was saying up there, i forget who, but we do what makes us happy in life, right? Well for most people its love. Most people find happiness in love. Sure you find all kinds of little distractions and what not, but really you're still on the hunt for the "big happiness". The kind that lasts for ever. And that comes with true love. Until you find that, you're not truly happy, at least that's what i think.

[xObserveRx]

By the way, that was me who posted as the guest, i'm a dumbass. :P

[RobbyZero]

Whoever you are "Guest" you make a very logical and reasonably and true point.

[xObserveRx]

Yeah, i think i did too. Also, I just cannot comprehend how anyone could live there live's like nick and spec, and whoever else that thinks everything is just pointless. Answer that.

[RobbyZero]

Ya great response post Dan,that was good. It's true though,the love is based on completely different matters when it's your fiance wife or whatever. You don't have sex with your parents (hopefull) and get that real closeness and attraction and good feeling. When it's parents its more that family warm love you know im there for you always kind of thing.

[AstralArcanum]

Simply put, love is the greatest of gifts and the cruelest of curses, all rolled in to one nice little package. It is the beginning of too few lives and the ending of too many. Love is also, in my opinion, the single, most misinterpreted thing on earth, often having lust being mistaken for it.

if its the beginning of too few lives...then why is there the idea of intercourse? i mean its supposed to show the love between ppl... so it should start many lives and many generations... but what spec said...im not sure how to interpret it... because...to me...love is something...almost unheard of... even though im in love with my gf...when i think about it...love maybe doesnt really exist... because sometimes you get mad at loved ones and you hate them for a long or brief period of time... then you will just go back to them. its not even found as the true version of love... because you find true love that you marry and stuff... and as what spec said... it might end in divorce...so its not really a love... but what he said about dying for your loved ones... its something like saying... I care and love them so much...id rather let them be happy and knowing they are happy... i am too. thats what i think about it anyways. dying for another is something that takes a lot of courage and a lot of love too... even though the actual love thing doesnt exist (maybe...)

[Feuergeist]

Love is the dilusion that one woman is different from another.


OH SNAP RADIO JOKE.

[xObserveRx]

all women are different, there's the truly psycho ones, and the truly good ones, both are hard to find, you usually get one in the middle, or closer to the psycho side, lol.

[evilbutterfly]

i didnt read all of everything everybody said (i didnt even finish the 1st post) so i'm just gonna state my feelings on the subject:

i think alot of people see love now as some glamourous thing like the original poster said. they think it's something they can indulge in, and false love abounds. most people see this false love as real, and dont realize how stupid they are being.

true love is caring more about someone else's happiness than your own. true love is wanting to take every single bit of pain and suffering onto your shoulders so the one you love wont suffer. i believe alot of marriages fail b/cs at least one person in the relationship does this and becomes overburdened and feels overwhelmed by their lover's problems, and then they cant take it and end it.

the perfect match would be 2 people who love each other, and truely want to stop the other's suffering, but realize that neither can bear it alone, that they must share the pain and joy alike. they must work as a whole. thus phrases like "you complete me." love is finding that person who you care for more than even yourself, and then realizing that you cant do anything else alone, that you NEED them.

that's love, and it's tough to love some1 and need them that bad when they dont feel the same way. when you miss them so bad you can just sit and cry thinking about the good times u once had with them. when you can love them enuf to let them go, just so they are happy with some1 else. that's love.

(3 guesses how old i am. i bet no1 gets it)

[alainbryden]

no one cares how old you are, and if you didn't even bother to read Specs fantastic post who's gonna read your's - almost as long.

Spec, I can't beleive I only just read your post, but, despite that you were pissed when you wrote it, but I agree entirely with it. I can't really say much more. If you think of how evolution works, love is not what it is portrayed to be.