Sex

[chunky_cheese]

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I think that sex IS a need, where do babies come from? But then again, where do stem cell clones/the result of artificial pregnancies come from?
In my own humble opinion, having sex is not always just for pleasure, speaking in terms of love I think that sex is a way of expressing to your partner that you love them. With that being said im not saying it is the highest form or the only way, there are many ways to express ones love to one another.
Some say that spooning (lying down on your sides and one partner is behind the other holding them, much like when spoons are stacked, not "butseks") is the highest form of affection for one another.
But there is always the "lets get drunk and doet for fun" sex, that is good too, but I doubt it is as emotionally or sexually fulfilling as sex with a loved one.
It can also be a form of control, such as in the mind of a person who forces sex onto another. A "rapist" would force sex onto someone as to show to them that they have absolute control, that they have "pwnt" the other person to the maxorz.
Sex can also be a form of art, a way of selling products, a way of attracting attention and a way of expressing yourself. It comes in all shapes and forms and everyone has their own opinions on sex.

Does anyone have an opinion, speaking in moral and cultural standards, of when people should have sex? I mean, I know there are maturity things to take into account, and cultural/religious beliefs, personal beliefs, situation, etc.

But what does everyone think?

P.S <-- Virgin :P

[AriesMalvis]

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i always wanted to wait until marriage, even tho when i was really young i told my mum i'd never get married. :] but yea, that didn't work out too well. so now i don't care as much. tho i think that the b-day present i give myself in a couple days will be abstinence...but my bf would hate me for that :[

[chunky_cheese]

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Another question, what is the difference between abstinence and celibacy? :P

EDIT: Abstinence reffers to not giving into a desire for food or alcohol mostly, but is more general, celibacy is stricly refraining from giving into sexual desires. Although im sure anyone in the catfish pact already knows that...

[AriesMalvis]

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just abstaining from it in general...
cuz for me sex sux

[xFlamenx]

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id have to agree with woodsicle, sex should be for someone who you plan on being with your whole life. Alot of people say 'man its too hard to wait!' but i think they are just weak and dont know anything about love.

[AriesMalvis]

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i don't group sex with love
and as for me i didn't choose to lose my virginity

[GuidoHunter]

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id have to agree with woodsicle, sex should be for someone who you plan on being with your whole life. Alot of people say 'man its too hard to wait!' but i think they are just weak and dont know anything about love.

I wouldn't say that they don't know anything about love, but rather that they're less mature about how to express it.

And that really just applies to young people.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[AriesMalvis]

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well i don't think maturity is specifically for certain age groups, but it's true that 'most' ppl mature over the years

[nforcer06164]

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well i don't think maturity is specifically for certain age groups, but it's true that 'most' ppl mature over the years

I think he means "maturity" as in a level that realizes sex is not necessary to express your love for someone.

[GuidoHunter]

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EDIT: Dammit, nForcer, you ninja'd me and now I have to go and quote her...

well i don't think maturity is specifically for certain age groups, but it's true that 'most' ppl mature over the years

It's not, but I'm not saying that perfectly rational adults who have sex are making immature decisions.

I'm saying that kids are and just ignoring the other group since I have other things to tend to at the moment. =)

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[AriesMalvis]

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okie dokie :]

yea i was just saying that ppl, even when they're older...still don't understand that :/

[GuidoHunter]

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Back on topic, kids.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[Adude6464]

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isn't it a bit late to go back on topic, since it's been going off topic for a while?

[Adude6464]

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well, is this over now?

[darkdragoness]

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Does anyone have an opinion, speaking in moral and cultural standards, of when people should have sex? I mean, I know there are maturity things to take into account, and cultural/religious beliefs, personal beliefs, situation, etc.

But what does everyone think?

P.S <-- Virgin :P

I don't think a person should have sex until they're ready for children. Why run the risk? And besides, personally I've got more important things to worry about (like a good education) than a boyfriend.

Sorry if I sound cliche. I don't mean to. :/