A bit of a dilema

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  • Tonberry_Kid
    FFR Player
    • May 2005
    • 3408
    #1

    A bit of a dilema

    Ok...I need some advice or some viewpoints on this situation. It's like a "If I were in you shoes, I would...." type thing.

    I have a crush on a friend of mine. She supposedly likes me too.

    Should I chance ruining our friendship and date her, or should I just stay friends with her?
    UNLEASH THE DRAGON
    Originally posted by mead1
    My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.
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    • StarmanSuper568
      FFR Player
      • Jun 2005
      • 820
      #2
      RE: A bit of a dilema

      Well, if I were you, I'd give it time. Like a month, just to make sure you want to date her.

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        • Tonberry_Kid
          FFR Player
          • May 2005
          • 3408
          #3
          RE: A bit of a dilema

          I have. I have waited like over the summer. And I don't know what to do seriously. =/
          UNLEASH THE DRAGON
          Originally posted by mead1
          My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.

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            • Afrobean
              Admiral in the Red Army
              • Dec 2003
              • 13262
              #4
              RE: A bit of a dilema

              I would say play it cool and wait for her to make a move.

              However this plan hasn't worked for me yet in the past 4 years, so come school's beginning I'll be making a move. If you really want to be with her I suggest you do the same.

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                • Skikamukazi
                  FFR Player
                  • Feb 2005
                  • 1394
                  #5
                  RE: A bit of a dilema

                  I'm assuming you are still in High School, right? If so, you have a lot of years ahead of you. Don't wait. Go for it. If something bad happens, which it probably won't, oh well. You will have your whole life ahead of you. After High School you probably will not see this person again. But if you go for it now, who knows? Something good might happen and you could be with this person for a long time.

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                    • -Skooter-
                      FFR Player
                      • Apr 2005
                      • 316
                      #6
                      RE: A bit of a dilema

                      I've tried dating a friend, and I'm going to give you the best advice I can on it.

                      My friend and I didn't work out. However, we're still friends. I felt weird about it, and too bad to tell him so, it became obvious that he however, was weird about it also.

                      See that's why you guys are friends, because you feel the same about a lot of things. I know he's my true friend because he stuck around even after we went through all of that. So if she's your real friend, try it out. You'll be alright.
                      .so what. -Skooter- .drama makes life boring.

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                        • Tps222
                          FFR Player
                          • Nov 2004
                          • 6168
                          #7
                          RE: A bit of a dilema

                          If you want to be friends, don't go out with her, if it doesn't work, I can almost 100% gurantee you won't be friends anymore. Though, if I was in your situation, I would go for it.

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                            • The_Q
                              FFR Player
                              • May 2004
                              • 4391
                              #8
                              RE: A bit of a dilema

                              Once you two break up, more than likely your friendship will end up in disaster.
                              Ok, so I went out with a girl for four months. She recently dumped me (recent being a month ago). She said we'd always be friends. I haven't heard from her in a month.

                              Stay friends.

                              Q

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                                • GuidoHunter
                                  is against custom titles
                                  • Oct 2003
                                  • 7371
                                  #9
                                  RE: A bit of a dilema

                                  I went out with a good friend of mine for four months, we broke up (it didn't even go well), and are still good friends. It's not uncommon that this happens.

                                  In fact, I would only date my own friends. This way, I know them well already.

                                  --Guido

                                  http://andy.mikee385.com

                                  Originally posted by Grandiagod
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                                  She has an asshole, in other pics you can see a diaper taped to her dead twin's back.
                                  Sentences I thought I never would have to type.

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                                    • jewpinthethird
                                      (The Fat's Sabobah)
                                      FFR Music Producer
                                      • Nov 2002
                                      • 11711
                                      #10
                                      RE: A bit of a dilema

                                      Let her know you like her. Just dont spill your guts to her, girls dont really appreciate that and it makes you sound pathetic.

                                      At least, that's how it has been with me.

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                                        • Tonberry_Kid
                                          FFR Player
                                          • May 2005
                                          • 3408
                                          #11
                                          RE: A bit of a dilema

                                          Well, I did say she likes me and she kind of knows I like her, so no one has made a move yet. I am more than likely going to do it tomorrow. I was going to do it after band practice but she ran off with her friend so I didn't get a chance -.-' And I was having massive breathing problems so I could barely talk(I don't have asthma)
                                          UNLEASH THE DRAGON
                                          Originally posted by mead1
                                          My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.

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                                            • Skikamukazi
                                              FFR Player
                                              • Feb 2005
                                              • 1394
                                              #12
                                              Re: RE: A bit of a dilema

                                              Originally posted by djshox
                                              Stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends.

                                              Once you two break up, more than likely your friendship will end up in disaster.
                                              And? How old is he? I don't think he is any older than 18... He has tons of time ahead of him. When me moves away of whatever, the hard fact is this; He will most likely lose contact of her.

                                              That's why I don't take High School relationships seriously... That and I haven't found anyone who I might seriously be interested in.

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                                                • -Mr_1up-
                                                  FFR Player
                                                  • May 2005
                                                  • 6
                                                  #13
                                                  RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema

                                                  Based on what I did, I wouldn't. Through the experience, I lost 2 friends.

                                                  -Mr. 1up-

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                                                    • Tonberry_Kid
                                                      FFR Player
                                                      • May 2005
                                                      • 3408
                                                      #14
                                                      RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema

                                                      As of yesterday, we have been going out lol. Thanks for the advice guys ^.^
                                                      UNLEASH THE DRAGON
                                                      Originally posted by mead1
                                                      My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.

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                                                        • Tokzic
                                                          FFR Player
                                                          • May 2005
                                                          • 6878
                                                          #15
                                                          RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema

                                                          Hmm. I was going to advise the opposite, but if that's the case, best of luck with the whole thing.

                                                          Last edited by Tokzic: Today at 11:59 PM. Reason: wait what

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