Long distance relationships?

[Spenner]

Re: Long distance relationships?

I've been in one of these for more than 3 years now because of the FFR shutdown/me moving to some other places temporarily lol. It's working out good. I think we have what it takes.

[Cavernio]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Yeah...long distance relationships are shit. That's why I'm moving ASAP, preferably by the end of next week.

[Trogdor!!!!]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Long distance is pretty much the worst

[mellonxcollie]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Long distance is terrible, cross-border is a fucking nightmare

[One Winged Angel]

Re: Long distance relationships?

idk guys, it's not that bad (but we've been able to afford seeing each other every 2-3 months or so for 1-2 weeks at a time so eh, maybe this isn't characteristic of the average LDR)

[DarknessXoXLight]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Long distance is terrible, cross-border is a fucking nightmare

not rly lol.

me and rob's relationship has been pretty easy. i have to cross the border every time i see him and it goes smoothly and yeah. lol this kind of relationship just takes a bit of extra effort which i have no problem giving. ezpz k bye.

[mellonxcollie]

Re: Long distance relationships?

me and rob's relationship has been pretty easy. i have to cross the border every time i see him and it goes smoothly and yeah. lol this kind of relationship just takes a bit of extra effort which i have no problem giving. ezpz k bye.

I'm not going to go into details of my personal life too much but basically if the border decides they want to fuck you, they get to fuck you and you can't do anything about it. My life was hell for ages because of the goddamn border.

Be thankful that you are both white people!!!!!~~~~~

[devonin]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Yeah...long distance relationships are shit. That's why I'm moving ASAP, preferably by the end of next week.

[DarknessXoXLight]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Be thankful that you are both white people!!!!!~~~~~

lol..

[SK8R43]

Re: Long distance relationships?

nothing wrong with them at all.

[25thhour]

Re: Long distance relationships?

2 years and counting... Had lots of ups and downs/cheating etc. But overall it has been great. I love him unconditionally, and we do meet up every few weeks which makes it easier.

[Cavernio]

Re: Long distance relationships?

If I were going to be long distance for a really long time I would probably want some sort of 'this isn't cheating even though otherwise it would be clause'. Of course that runs risks of permanent breakup though, so maybe not.
Also, a foreseeable not long distance future would be mandatory for me, even if it's years in the future. I guess something like 'I work way over here almost half the year' could work for me too.

Don't forget about being white and female. Attire and such matters too. Unfortunately.

[Poison-]

Re: Long distance relationships?

I wouldn't be able to do it.

[lumphoboextreme]

Re: Long distance relationships?

Its really hard. Will avoid getting into one again.

[Gundam-Dude]

Re: Long distance relationships?

it boils down to: commitment, communication, patience, planning (short-term & long-term, finances, etc.), and trust.

it works out if both parties make it work, given that there will always be obstacles to overcome like in any relationship—it's definitely not for everyone, especially when physical presence is an immediate and frequent necessity. But for absolute certain, these kinds of relationships should aim for the long-term goal of one day moving in together to live each others' lives as both parties can't stay separated forever.

I'm just regurgitating what's already been said in this thread pretty much.

idk guys, it's not that bad

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