Long distance relationships?

[jaz_pup]

Re: Long distance relationships?

my point is just that relationship strength depends only on the two people involved.

do you honestly think he would be more likely to cheat on you if you hadnt had a long distance relationship? you might feel comfortable with your relationship now, but after you get used to being together and some time passes, you'll be left with the relationship that you would have had anyways.

all time apart does is extend the honeymoon.

I don't think the relationships would end up the same. I believe that the time spent at distance kinda forces the couple to get to know each other more than if they lived close. So I think they end up knowing each other better by starting the relationship that way.

[FoJaR]

Re: Long distance relationships?

maybe in the first few months, but after a few years it's all gonna even out.

[mellonxcollie]

Re: Long distance relationships?

all time apart does is extend the honeymoon.

This is a very common opinion but in my experience it just isn't true at all. It may be true for some people who try to intentionally hide some aspects of their personality online, with negative aspects coming out later IRL. But if both people try to honestly communicate and be as open as possible it's very possible to get to know someone well online, or learn to hate them online ~ It will only extend the honeymoon in the physical sense

[FoJaR]

Re: Long distance relationships?

no i am saying that neither way makes for a stronger relationship, it all depends on the individuals involved.

[Cavernio]

Re: Long distance relationships?

long distance is shit but not having any relationship with the person you desire is far, far shittier