What do i do...

[AeonShadow]

Re: What do i do...

Hmm, now you're making me becoming flaming you!It's not that you're doing anything wrong. Plus im only talking this way because this is serious! You know what im sorry for all of this
but i just needed help and something that would give me pride and all you did do that. This is the place i knew would help barely, but i knew that i would get pride and confidenced builded up, i knew this wouldnt be much, but this time you helped, and I am interly happy.Too me this is the place for help but not anymore for these so thank you for everything.

Sincerely,
AeonShadow

[nforcer06164]

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I feel bad for you, so I'll give you some real advice. If you don't do anything after that, then stop whining about it. If you just keep asking "What do I do," you're going to get nowhere fast.

First, you can't ask her out without even knowing who she is. You said you don't even know her name. WHAT THE HELL. Find out what her name is, what she likes to do, etc. If you're shy about it, just try to find a time where you can put yourself in a situation to have contact with her. For instance, your friend is talking to a bunch of people, and she's in that group. Stop over and start talking with them. Show an interest. Talk to her. If she opens up to you, then maybe you've got a shot. If not, either she's not interested, or shy.

Second, don't just be like, "Hi my name is _________ will you go out with me?" Ask her what she's doing this weekend, and if she's free, ask her to just hang out, go to the mall, or the movies... something like that. Do something she would like to do. If she says she's not free, try again for the next weekend. If that happens repeatedly, she's avoiding you. Forget it and go on with your life.

Third, you're fourteen. You're too young to get involved in anything really serious, no matter how serious you think it will be. Any relationship you get involved in has almost 0% of lasting right now. Trust me, I went through this myself.

Oh, and if you have to ask any more questions, don't bother asking her out. If you can't do this by yourself at this point, you're not ready for a relationship. You just like girls. That's it.

[AeonShadow]

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I feel bad for you, so I'll give you some real advice. If you don't do anything after that, then stop whining about it. If you just keep asking "What do I do," you're going to get nowhere fast.

First, you can't ask her out without even knowing who she is. You said you don't even know her name. WHAT THE HELL. Find out what her name is, what she likes to do, etc. If you're shy about it, just try to find a time where you can put yourself in a situation to have contact with her. For instance, your friend is talking to a bunch of people, and she's in that group. Stop over and start talking with them. Show an interest. Talk to her. If she opens up to you, then maybe you've got a shot. If not, either she's not interested, or shy.

Second, don't just be like, "Hi my name is _________ will you go out with me?" Ask her what she's doing this weekend, and if she's free, ask her to just hang out, go to the mall, or the movies... something like that. Do something she would like to do. If she says she's not free, try again for the next weekend. If that happens repeatedly, she's avoiding you. Forget it and go on with your life.

Third, you're fourteen. You're too young to get involved in anything really serious, no matter how serious you think it will be. Any relationship you get involved in has almost 0% of lasting right now. Trust me, I went through this myself.

Oh, and if you have to ask any more questions, don't bother asking her out. If you can't do this by yourself at this point, you're not ready for a relationship. You just like girls. That's it.

Thx!Ill take you're advice and do it!Nothing can stop me now!lol.

[Grandiagod]

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You just like girls.

I am questioning the validity of this statement.

[AeonShadow]

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Hmmm, me just liking girls?Iv'e only got one girl along time ago who liked me and I liked here thats the only, lol. Still that does sound right though if I dont do anything and i imagine everything!

[AeonShadow]

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Uh huh i have been doing that!Im still wondereing why hasn't this been moved to garbage bin, im not saying i want it too im saying why hasnt it?

[lord_carbo]

Re: What do i do...

No matter what everyone says, you're just going to chicken out and not ever ask her anything. This is apparent because you're presenting the question to us about what you should do, anyway. So I voted no to make you feel more calm and less confused, because hey, you really don't seem mentally stable enough to ask her out or anything.

Although, I do suggest doing exactly what Grandiagod said right here:

I really care for this girl and lots more but how do i know if she likes me, and probably oh! You can ask her.

You can ask her.

So take the subtle "yeah I like you approach." Unless she's a dolt she should get the hint.

You: "Hey, uhh, what d'ya think of me?"
Her: "Uhh, you're nice and smart, I guess."
You: "Thanks."

Edit: Oh, you're 14? Wait a year.

[mead1]

Re: What do i do...

ENGLISH

DO YOU SPEAK IT?

[Tokzic]

Re: What do i do...

you know what

forget being moving this to gb

move it to legendary threads

[lord_carbo]

Re: What do i do...

OK there's no hope for this guy.

Just follow mead's advice.

[Gamerchic14]

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danny im pretty sure no one cares anymore to there just gonna keep on telling u crap or w/e so just stop leavingh posts here or close it ddue ur not getting any ware

Hes right they don't really. I can feel bad for you. Cheer up emo kid!

[Gamerchic14]

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Hes right they don't really. I can feel bad for you. Cheer up emo kid!

kinda hehe ^^

[AeonShadow]

Re: What do i do...

No matter what everyone says, you're just going to chicken out and not ever ask her anything. This is apparent because you're presenting the question to us about what you should do, anyway. So I voted no to make you feel more calm and less confused, because hey, you really don't seem mentally stable enough to ask her out or anything.

Although, I do suggest doing exactly what Grandiagod said right here:



So take the subtle "yeah I like you approach." Unless she's a dolt she should get the hint.

You: "Hey, uhh, what d'ya think of me?"
Her: "Uhh, you're nice and smart, I guess."
You: "Thanks."

Edit: Oh, you're 14? Wait a year.

You know what im asking her tommorow i had this planned while all you was giving me pride!Iv'e asked one before but something is freaking me out!lol

[Gamerchic14]

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You know what im asking her tommorow i had this planned while all you was giving me pride!Iv'e asked one before but something is freaking me out!lol

Woo yay for Aeon! Good luck with the girl :P

[AeonShadow]

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Hes right they don't really. I can feel bad for you. Cheer up emo kid!

Thx i started to feel it too a little but they did get me to some help.