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  • jewpinthethird
    (The Fat's Sabobah)
    FFR Music Producer
    • Nov 2002
    • 11711

    #151
    Re: pregnancy help...

    Originally posted by acknerr
    Hey Mal, it's funny, I just saw an episode of Scrubs and the character playing Jordan described what was essentially the exact same situation you described. Anyway, sorry to hear about that incedent.
    UUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugh.

    My name is acknerr and I really just like pointing out what makes things funny but in doing so I ruin the joke.

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    • jewpinthethird
      (The Fat's Sabobah)
      FFR Music Producer
      • Nov 2002
      • 11711

      #152
      Re: pregnancy help...

      Originally posted by JurseyRider734
      I think the chart is a little TOO drastic. We don't know the maturity of the girl (she could be very mature, or very immature) and we don't know the maturity of the guy (he could be either as well). I went out with a 17 year old when I was 14, and the maturity level was pretty uhh...equal.
      Yeah, it's true, girls mature faster than males do. But I don't care who you are, a 13 year old girl is not old enough to be a mother in our society. Being thirteen means you can't work, and you can't drive. The only option is for her mother and father to take care of the child, but more often than not, girls who do get pregnant at a young age don't come from the best households.

      My mom wrote a book on the subject, I did't ready it, but I'm pretty sure there is a rule that if your parents are experts in a subject, that you automatically have more say in a matter than others.

      I kind of made that up right now, but I think it's a pretty valid conclusion.

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      • Magnafiend
        FFR Player
        • Jul 2005
        • 154

        #153
        Re: pregnancy help...

        Originally posted by JurseyRider734
        It's easy for a guy, they can just walk away before the baby is even born.
        No he cant, there are laws about this that since he is over 18 he has to pay child support and all this other crap, as WELL as go to jail because of the whole statutory rape thing......
        The reaper is the happiest being of all, because death is plentiful in this realm....

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        • TK_yesillkillubitchboez
          FFR Player
          • Jun 2006
          • 240

          #154
          Re: pregnancy help...

          just saying i can relate to you. My sister just got pregnant and she is 17. the guy who did it is a dick. and i swear if he makes one more threat towards my family im going to blow him away. My sister wants to do every thing on her own and she thinks the "guy" is going to help. i dont think so.she is not even living with us anymore. but it will all work out in the end.Just keep comforting her and telling her things are going to be allright whether you think that is the truth or not. Help her out whenever you can.

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          • Tokzic
            FFR Player
            • May 2005
            • 6878

            #155
            Re: pregnancy help...

            Originally posted by Kilgamayan
            Good, now someone can abort this topic.
            SOMEBODY GET THE COAT HANGER AND WE CAN YANK THE SQUIRMY BUGGER RIGHT OUT

            Last edited by Tokzic: Today at 11:59 PM. Reason: wait what

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            • Kilgamayan
              Super Scooter Happy
              FFR Simfile Author
              • Feb 2003
              • 6583

              #156
              Re: pregnancy help...

              Originally posted by DarkProdigy
              Or allow CT to adopt it.
              CT wouldn't want it. Abortion discussions amongst a bunch of clueless and/or angsty and/or righteously indignant teenagers are stupid.

              Just look at this topic, for example.
              I watched clouds awobbly from the floor o' that kayak. Souls cross ages like clouds cross skies, an' tho' a cloud's shape nor hue nor size don't stay the same, it's still a cloud an' so is a soul. Who can say where the cloud's blowed from or who the soul'll be 'morrow? Only Sonmi the east an' the west an' the compass an' the atlas, yay, only the atlas o' clouds.

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              • kentbball
                FFR Player
                • Sep 2006
                • 675

                #157
                Re: pregnancy help...

                Originally posted by Magnafiend
                No he cant, there are laws about this that since he is over 18 he has to pay child support and all this other crap, as WELL as go to jail because of the whole statutory rape thing......
                Just to let you know the guy is 17 and the girl is 13...

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                • Grandiagod
                  FFR Player
                  • Jul 2004
                  • 6122

                  #158
                  Re: pregnancy help...

                  Hey you guys.

                  Giving birth means placenta stew.

                  Placenta stew is the bomb.
                  He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth Kenny

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                  • OC_lover_09
                    FFR Player
                    • Nov 2006
                    • 31

                    #159
                    Re: pregnancy help...

                    im pretty sure that its not safe to have a child that young..... her small body will not be able to support it.....
                    im sorrry to say this girl might need an abortion


                    good luck
                    <3
                    Peace Out
                    Love, Me <3

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                    • Magnafiend
                      FFR Player
                      • Jul 2005
                      • 154

                      #160
                      Re: pregnancy help...

                      Originally posted by kentbball
                      Just to let you know the guy is 17 and the girl is 13...
                      age of consent rly depends on the state, goin by NY standards there so it could be as young as like 14, so the guy could still get hit with jailtime and child support issues and stuff.
                      The reaper is the happiest being of all, because death is plentiful in this realm....

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                      • Grandiagod
                        FFR Player
                        • Jul 2004
                        • 6122

                        #161
                        Re: pregnancy help...

                        NY is 16 years old.
                        He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth Kenny

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                        • acknerr
                          FFR Player
                          • Nov 2006
                          • 551

                          #162
                          Re: pregnancy help...

                          Originally posted by kentbball
                          Might as well move this to ct or something and make it a thread about abortion... cause i basically got the response i wanted.

                          Thanks for all of the help guys it really, really got me thinking and I'm glad that you guys actually gave your honest opinion instead of saying what I wanted to hear. I used some of your ideas and things seem to be turning out ok. She is starting to think about what she's going to do more and I'm sure most of the reason was from me talking with her and your guys' ideas. Everybody reasured me and I'm grateful for that. Thank you.
                          Glad to hear things are starting to get a little better. In the end, I'm sure things will work out for the best.

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                          • OC_lover_09
                            FFR Player
                            • Nov 2006
                            • 31

                            #163
                            Re: pregnancy help...

                            these people are from NY...i thought i lived in a nice state...oh god

                            *runs*

                            =P
                            Peace Out
                            Love, Me <3

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                            • Grandiagod
                              FFR Player
                              • Jul 2004
                              • 6122

                              #164
                              Re: pregnancy help...

                              You can't run away from the internets.
                              He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth Kenny

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                              • kentbball
                                FFR Player
                                • Sep 2006
                                • 675

                                #165
                                Re: pregnancy help...

                                I'm from Canada, not NY...

                                btw anybody that knows about this: It won't let me change my profile to put location, my age, birthday, hobbies, MSN, or any of all that stuff... It says because I am under 13 or something that I need parent permission but I'm not and it says contact an administrator or something and I did twice or three times but they haven't responded or changed it or anything. It's weird though because I have never specified if I'm over or under1 3 years of age before.

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