Its soo not fair. I have a lot of friends that r guys and girls, but I dont have a boyfriend yet. And every1 tells me Im not ugly. So why dont I have a boyfriend???
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Yeah Im a loser, but the coolest loser you'll ever meet
Umm... Can't really answer that without knowing you. I'm guessing you are young, and it's VERY normal to not be in a relationship at a young age (15 and under). There is nothing wrong with it. Most people aren't in one at that age.
Flirt and ask a guy out. If they are friends, a guy may not want to because of that (though not likely). Just be yourself and show interest and don't be afraid of rejection.
Do you act tom-boyish? If you act like one of the guys then they might think that you are a lesbian. I am not saying you are, but it is true. Another reason why is that if your friends are shy or they are ugly, they might not have enough confidence to ask you out. Now-a-days, pretty girls aren't enough for some guys, unlike me, who like the pretty, non-slutty, clean girls. Most guys like girls who are hot sluts who will drink and give it out. And, if you have friends that are guys, they may just want to be friends. Well anyways, I am sorry to hear about your boyfriend troubles and hope this helps you.
I wouldn't be too worried. I can kind of understand where you're coming from though. I used to be so much like the guys that that's all they saw me as, just another one of them. Now, I dress and act much more like a girl would and still enjoy the video games and football that I did before, but am respected for being a girl.
Just keep being yourself and every once in awhile put yourself out there, get to know new people. And, like bandit said, don't be afraid of rejection. If someone doesn't like you it's not the end of the world.
Stop caring if you have a boyfriend or not. Sure, go ahead and get one when you get the chance if you want to face teenage drama and things you're probably not ready to handle, but does it really matter?
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