Rebirth of the other topic...

[masterhickle]

Well, I thought all was going well...but what I've been hearing may be making more and more sense

Was talking to her on AOL tonight...me going on my usual ramble trying to get her to say something, her just saying oOo or lol, or something of the sort.

So I ask her: (her messages marked with a - in front of them)
Anything happen recently that you can tell me about (dun matter how short)?
-Um...
(later on)
Why is it you can carry on a conversation with anyone but me?
*silence ensues*
Um...alo?
-I'm here
Is there an answer to my question (non sarcastic, intended as serious)?
-I don't really have an answer
*sometime later, it comes up about the kind of things we are doing on our computer at the same time as we're talking to each other*
-Why do we have to talk constantly?
I don't mean constantly...I just mean an improvement of the general quiet for the 4-5 of 6hrs we can talk to each other.
-Well, I talk to other people too
So do I...at least 2 people at all times, then 3 or more people on FFXI, then I'm looking up stuff online
*later*
-I'm going to bed
-night

I dunno what to think....and one small demand...DON'T POST ANYTHING UNLESS YOU HAVE SOME ACTUALLY SENSIBLE THOUGHT BEHIND IT

Edit...I did once ask her why she basically ignores me in school...she says "that's school." so I said "yeah, it was also school when I didn't say anything to you on the first day, but I caught hell for that." meh...most everyone around me has twisted morals

so wtf do I do eh? >.>

[JurseyRider734]

RE: Rebirth of the other topic...

what?

[chickendude]

RE: Rebirth of the other topic...

Anything happen recently that you can tell me about.

please be more blunt

[masterhickle]

Howso more blunt?
(Granted right now I am heading to bed...but just leave any responses, I'll do what I can after I get my morning shower)

[zajac]

Leave. Her. Alone.

Not to be mean... But maybe she doesn't talk to you, or tries to avoid you, because she doesn't like you.

I mean that in the nicest way possible... :S

[dontcareaboutmyid]

link to other topic? I don't get what this is about.

[Grandiagod]

It seems like your kind of a stalker.

WHY DON'T WE EVER TALK ANYMORE?

AAAHG LEAVE ME ALONE!

[NaOTa4231]

It seems like you're getting too stressed over this relationship.

You should move on : )

[Varia]

Yeah, for reals.

This girl is lame.

[masterhickle]

Yeah...I may be stressing out over this...but when she said that she "wants a steady relationship" and "wants to be loud" but doesn't do a thing about it...meh, it just bugs me

Edit: Here's the link to the older topic - http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...007393fc71cb71

[zachisevil]

hey man, your going about it all wrong. Never show your weakness in front of a girl, in that chat you expressed insecurity A LOT. You didnt know what to do, girls hate that shit. This sounds a lot like my gf, and i was freaking like you. but you just gotta be in control, i dont even talk to her online anymore unless i have to tell her something. Its hard to be in control online, do it in person... i dont know how to tell it to you maybe there are some PUAs in here that can. Just dont sound like a pussy (im sorry dont talk that like im being mean)
ps. i didnt mean to be so redundant.

[FishFishRevolution]

Break up with her now so that down the road this was your doing and not her's, believe me when you come to regret this you will be proud to say you were the one that severed the connection.

I know it seems hard now, but just tell her you guys never talk and you don't want to be in a silent relationship. It's for the best, get out of there now.

[masterhickle]

Zachisevil...do you use AOL? If so, we could possibly talk about this online...might be easier to tell me what ya want to

And Im not really looking to breakup with her...I dun think she is with me either...because when I recently told her I needed a break from things and she started talking to me again, she (as was I) a little shaky when the topic of if we wanted to keep this relationship going or just end it came up

[NaOTa4231]

It seems like she is in the relationship simply to be in one. If you have to tell her that you want a break to get her to start a conversation with you, then you should just break up. It might be hard, but you'll get over it in no time.

[jamuko]

Maybe she's just shy and nervous around you. Does that seem plausible?

I don't know, it's hard to get a feel for the situation without knowing you two personally. :/