I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

[ReZiaK]

There is this girl that i love... but she has a boy friend. The thing is she loves me back...and me and her been like this for 4 months now, and i cant take it anymore. I have to be with her. The thing is she doesnt want to leave him, but she doesnt want me to leave her....i told her she had to pick and she wants me to wait four years for her to make a choice between us.

I dont know if I should wait though....

Not only that, there are things thats kinda just tell me that she'd pick him if i wait... like talk to him on the phone every night...and always talk about him...like it isnt gonna piss me off. Then she always stop talkin to me on the phone to talk to him. Then if i try to leave her, she'll beg for my not to leave, cryin and all. i really dont know what i should do...not to mention thats it turns out that the her boy friend is one of my friends from alone time i go...She said to me "If you EVER tell him that im doin this, me and you will never be together!" and im think to my self, she'd pick him anyway, so is there any reason not to tell him...

Geez... I really and confused about all this..and is it even possible to love two guys at the same time!? Cause i figure, if you love 2 ppl at the same time, then you shouldnt love either...but i guess thats just me... i dunno...

any advise on what to do? i need it...

[ReZiaK]

RE: I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

lol yea i know that but you know i was playin FFR and just decided to post somethin.

[ReZiaK]

RE: I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

hmm. i see

[jewpinthethird]

RE: I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

Buddy.

She doesnt love you. She doesnt love the other guy either.

My advice: get over her. The sooner, the better. Try setting your sights on someone a little less controlling. Easier said than done, I know.

Chances are the relationship wouldn't work out anyways and you'd just end up hating each other in the end because the both of you are too immature.

[ReZiaK]

RE: I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

yea, you prolly right.

[white_boy]

just tell her its over and dont talk to her. she will probably come running back.

lolz

[Verruckter]

Why would she be with that other guy if she loves you?

Your story made no sens...

[ReZiaK]

i dont know man, im just tellin it how it is

[emccky]

Tell her to her face that you aren't bothering with her anymore, this will show her that you don't need her.. but if she needs you she'll leave the guy she's with. If she stays with him, try to get a different girl, and if you ever talk to her ONLY talk about that girl.

[veranica]

Forget about her man, shes not worth your time. find someone else or just take a break and just play video games for a few months. Actually, enjoy the summer go swimming and play some sports!

[vashthestampede0987]

Call her a whore, buy her birth control pills, and direct her to the nearest man whore where they can have kinky, dirty, unloving sex and she can have a miscarriage. Meh, that's just my thoughts after waking up in the morning.

[nestlekwik]

Yeah, she doesn't love you if she's not willing to go to you. I remember a situation like this happened to me (minus the love stuff). It wasn't even a week when I told her to piss off and moved on with my life. Love isn't waiting four years while she's screwing around behind your back. Trust us - we're Flash Flash Revolution; we know everything about love.

The sooner you move on, the happier you'll be. That's the grim truth I'm afraid.

[QreepyBORIS]

Suicide is the only answer.

[Mindfields]

Call her a whore, buy her birth control pills, and direct her to the nearest man whore where they can have kinky, dirty, unloving sex and she can have a miscarriage. Meh, that's just my thoughts after waking up in the morning.

I'd hit it.

[Tps222]

Bada ba ba ba, I'm lovin it.