Long distant relationships

[RevenG-]

sorry, i have problems saying oftenly instead of often. soRRy

[QreepyBORIS]

Or perhaps "frequently".

[angel-d]

A little more from me. Its a topic i think about a lot for obviouse reasons. The wierd thing is i think i agree with all of you. It depends on the situation and people involved.

We were good friends before we went out so we have always been really close. However I still don't think i could be in my relationship if i didn't know that the distance was only for 3 years (while i am in Uni). Without knowing that there is a set amount of time we will have apart i think it would be really hard to carry on with the distance and long hours of travelling. I would do anything for him but it gets very tiring travelling (sometimes for up to 24 hours) on your own, with no one but a crazy drunk irish man who is annoying the flight attendants to talk to.

Trust is also a big issue. I do trust my fiance 100%, no matter what happens. He cheated on me at one point last year. It was partly my fault because i told him we should have an open relationship (god knows why, just didn't want to be holding him back as he is pretty young to be giving such a commitment) however it tore me apart and i was so close to breaking up with him when he came to visit last summer. But then i realised that we could work through the problem and become so much stronger than we ever could otherwise. The experience made us both realise that we could not even think about being with anyone else. Now we never fight, hardly ever have a disagreement and i only get slightly aggrovated when he burps and farts inpublic .

Anyway, just to say for anyone in the beginning stages of a long distance relationship, or maybe are with someone now and will have to be seperated at some point for uni or college whatever, it can work, don't give up hope, if you really believe you want to stay together and they feel the same, it can work. My relationship is 4 years old and 2 of those years have been long distance (11,900 miles or something stupid like that, only know that as there is a sign board going to KL airport saying London-11,something thousand miles) but we are still going strong with no signs of stopping.

Good luck all you fellow long distance relationshipers, when tears of distance are falling, picture the good times for the futur that are waiting for you.

[RevenG-]

Or perhaps "frequently".

Yeah, maybe I should say frequently.