coming out

[moches]

Re: coming out

I am super late to this, but the support from everybody here has been overwhelming. I read through every post on a subway trip yesterday, and by the time I got off I was grinning ear to ear. Thank you for the advice, the stories, and the encouragement.

To answer the questions some people raised: 1) I have never had any sexual experience, but I do know what stimulates me, and 2) I'm not sure where the division between bisexuality and homosexuality is, but if it helps, I do prefer the male form. That said, it's not like I find girls unappealing or anything. I'm still unsure about a lot of this, but hopefully talking about it will open it up. Or maybe I'll have to search for the rest of my life. Either way's fine by me.

In any case, you guys are all amazing and I feel proud to be part of such a caring community. <3

[d4u7211]

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the average 14 year old high school kid probably gets more action than 20 year old me.

Yeah, I'm 19 and I feel the exact same way.

Like kommi said, misconception...all gays don't just sleep around with each other. Just like all straight people don't just sleep around all the time. simple as that.

Although I wonder if just letting loose every once in a while instead of being in a relationship to experience things wouldn't be all that bad...

Either way, moches, I really hope everything goes well for you. PLEASE keep us updated on this, I don't like cliffhangers :P


Also, PrawnSkunk, I completely understand how you feel, since I've also said I've never had to be in the circumstances my buddy is in, even if i am gay, I got lucky. I really hope he does get her to see that it's him, and he can't just change it, and it's not a problem...but his sister is a young super catholic, brainwashed to think these things early.

[gnr61]

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i always just assumed moches was gay wtf

i dont envy your parental situation, that's a tough call bud. of course no one knows them/your relationship with them/how they're likely to react better than you do, so weigh all sides. best of luck, proud of u

[rushyrulz]

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gnr got da gaydar

[.Layne.]

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maybe gnr is gay too

[Hakulyte]

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moches, just wanted to mention that if you respect a woman, share similar interests, have her as friend and feel relatively close to each others. It doesn't make you bisexual. It just means you have a very good friend who's a woman. If you're both making eye contact and are willing to get more far, then that's another story. There's no particular grey area on this, but there's a chance you simply don't know about it yet.

/in b4 maybe she's just not his type but if that was the case, most of the above wouldn't apply.

[top]

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i don't get why people have such a hard time coming out about being homosexual or bisexual or whatever. I mean i do understand that it's because people chastise them for it but god damn why does that have to happen? why can't people just deal with it?

makes me angry. don't worry moches, you got sensible people in your life and here for you.

[dragonmegaXX]

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Now that you've come out,
would you say that you're more likely to go in?
Or do you want it to go in you

[gnr61]

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Dragonmega such an edgy poster h4h4 man you sure do know how to push the envelope!

[retching oesophagus]

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I don't know about going in but you certainly go out of your way to be a mega douche dragonmega.

Haven't posted here yet but I have been thinking about this thread alot. Wish you all the best moches.

[TwistedPhoenix]

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Now that you've come out,
would you say that you're more likely to go in?
Or do you want it to go in you

And to think I tried making you sound less offensive earlier.

[Charu]

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Now that you've come out,
would you say that you're more likely to go in?
Or do you want it to go in you

Whoa... I don't usually directly do this but...

If ya gonna make a joke, it's got to be somewhere where the topic of the joke isn't important to the context of the thread. If this joke was posted somewhere else where it was slightly relevant, then this would've slide. In this thread though...

Naw... not at all.

Better luck next time dude! Peace out, swagger dog 960 no scope Snivy.

[Coolboyrulez0]

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it seems like people just now are starting to realize dragondildogmAxX is a low-life shit poster who tries way to hard to be accepted by a virtual arrow-smashing community by making provocative posts and shoving the fact that he gets off to being in a fursuit in your face.

[AlexDest]

Re: coming out

it seems like people just now start to realize dragondildogmAxX is a low-life shit poster who tries way to hard to be accepted by a virtual arrow-smashing community by making provocative posts and shoving the fact that he gets off to being in a fursuit in your face.

more like stop paying attention to him

[moches]

Re: coming out

moches, just wanted to mention that if you respect a woman, share similar interests, have her as friend and feel relatively close to each others. It doesn't make you bisexual. It just means you have a very good friend who's a woman. If you're both making eye contact and are willing to get more far, then that's another story. There's no particular grey area on this, but there's a chance you simply don't know about it yet.

/in b4 maybe she's just not his type but if that was the case, most of the above wouldn't apply.

it's weird, but I actually have an easier time getting to know girls than getting to know guys. maybe it's because my interests/personality tend to skew towards more feminine characteristics.

but you're right, I'm not exactly sure. isn't the barometer basically about sexual attraction, though? I'm attracted to both girls and guys, but I'm not sure if it's in the same way or if there's different traits to each that I appreciate...yeah, this is getting rambly. I guess I just have a lot to sort out.

i always just assumed moches was gay wtf

i dont envy your parental situation, that's a tough call bud. of course no one knows them/your relationship with them/how they're likely to react better than you do, so weigh all sides. best of luck, proud of u

I guess words speak louder than actions in this case lol. why did you assume that, though? just by my tone of speech or was it somethin else?