There is going to be a segment on a radio show Monday morning about whether cybersex is considered cheating. I want to get some opinions from fellow FFRers on what they think of cybersex and cheating. Maybe stir up a little debate.
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Fuck yes it is
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Well yeah. You'd be mental to think it isn't.Originally posted by apersonComment
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Why is this even a thread?
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Re: Is cybersex cheating?
Some would say it isn't due to the lack of physical connection.
Ask your significant other if you're looking for a different answer.Comment
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Re: Is cybersex cheating?
I would say it depends on your definition of cheating and your beliefs.
By definition, "cheating" means "to be sexually unfaithful" so the answer would technically be "yes" but again, it depends on your beliefs.===============================
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Re: Is cybersex cheating?
Yes. Emotional cheating can be just as bad as physical (as both are technically appeals to emotion in the end anyway).
I still stand by my heuristic of what defines cheating: If you wouldn't do it in front of your SO, it's probably cheating.Comment
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This shouldn't even be a thread! It's a relationship with someone else and NOT with the person you are with. Simple as that.Last edited by ShadyJakey; 03-18-2013, 03:24 AM.
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Reincarnate has spoken.
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Nah but I could see where this is debatable, i agree with ILY in that some pairs of people don't think that it's a big deal. I would assume in a relationship without discussing that it is cheating, thoughHardpain of Hell RELEASED!!!
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The main argument I can see for not bringing this up in the first place is the follow-up from your significant other of why you're asking that question, which could skew the response towards the "yes" end of the spectrum.
That being said, there's various degrees of it. Some do cam-to-cam, others trade text messages (sexting), and others even roleplay out their stuff. Sadly, this last category is what many people think of when the term "role playing" is mentioned. Clearly, the particulars vary, but the end result is the same--you're getting your jollies from interacting with someone over the internet.
As for my personal argument, I say it's not cheating for two reasons. One is the "I'm not touching her" argument brought up earlier, and the second basically compares it to visiting a pornographic webcam site. If watching porn isn't cheating, then why does watching that girl you've been chatting with for the last 6 months pop her top for your birthday count as a breach of trust? Is it because you've been cultivating a relationship over the internet with her instead of focusing solely on your SO?Originally posted by thesunfan
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I'm going to have to vote no. Just the act of typing sexual roleplay comments back and forth over the internet doesn't inherently involve emotional commitment. I don't feel like it really means much at all. So it isn't even emotional or physical and is barely a step up from masturbating.
It's up to each individual whether or not they think they are emotionally dividing love with someone you shouldn't be.Comment
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Re: Is cybersex cheating?
gonna have to say no -- while it's awkward and is more than likely a breaking point in relationships, there isn't much that is happening that's wrong. it's pretty much shooting the shit with your friends.
think about situations where you might talk bad about a girl or a guy amongst friends but there is little intended malicesignatures are for nerds
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