How to get over social anxiety?

[Xiz]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

I have a checklist everyday, sometimes filled with tons of things to do, yet sometimes the list is one thing, and one thing only.

1) Make someone smile

If the entire day ends up being miserable, as long as I get to somehow improve atleast one person's day just for a split second, and make them feel slight enjoyment really makes life for me worth living.

I dunno, try that. But don't worry man. Billions of people are alone together. It's that what makes us come together.

[cetaka]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

itt aspergers

Wow, so edgy. Not. Stfu noob

[A2P]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

Wow, so edgy. Not. Stfu noob

^Yea.

[moches]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

Wow, I really relate to so many of the posts here. I feel isolated a lot of times here: sometimes I just see somebody glaring (seemingly) at me and it'll ruin my whole day. Other times I hear somebody talking trash about somebody else and immediately feel like I've done something wrong.

I'm generally very comfortable around people I trust, but there's always this lingering fear of what I might be to other people. And no matter what I do, they are always there, bogging me down with their negativity and anger and pessimism.

I seriously don't know what to do. Can somebody please help me?

Also bump ^^;;

[moches]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

HALP ):

[Pseudo Enigma]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

you are as many people as you are to yourself. You shouldn't care so much about what other people think at all. Once you stop caring, then you will become one person. The person that only matters. Yourself. And trust me, being one person is better and far easier than being many people, which will happen if you try to be someone you are not.

Sorry if that's confusing, but if you understand it, I hope it helped.

edit: but yeah just stop caring what people think too, it's for the best, and if they don't like it they can suck it.

[moches]

Re: How to get over social anxiety?

I'll think about that :')
thx <3