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  • Shadow_God_10
    Somewhere, but not here
    FFR Simfile Author
    • Mar 2006
    • 2218

    #136
    Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

    Maybe a jTWG Turbo could be a thing

    Originally posted by Svaz
    more like Shad-hoe God am I right haha
    Originally posted by mellon_collie
    TIL women have breasts because of horniness
    Originally posted by bugkid666
    sunfan I fucked up
    Originally posted by MixMasterLar
    Xel claiming that I am incapable of making mistakes and using that logic to paint me as scum does things to my body that I thought only Lewdy's stash could do

    Originally posted by Funnygurl555
    your hentai collection is commendable. i am both in awe and afraid of you
    Originally posted by DaBackpack
    might quit having sex every day and focus more on shooting myself in the testicles with an elephant gun

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    • XelNya
      [Kaho]
      FFR Simfile Author
      • Sep 2012
      • 3368

      #137
      Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

      I think if I keep coming in here, I'm going to get to a point where I just lose my shit like I always do. I actually can't take it.

      I'm just gonna bow out.

      Was fun I guess.
      Last edited by XelNya; 10-20-2020, 10:54 PM.

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      • Shadow_God_10
        Somewhere, but not here
        FFR Simfile Author
        • Mar 2006
        • 2218

        #138
        Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

        Originally posted by XelNya
        I think if I keep coming in here, I'm going to get to a point where I just lose my shit like I always do. I actually can't take it.

        I'm just gonna bow out.

        Was fun I guess.
        Dawg you better fucking sign up for the next game. We have memeing to do.

        Originally posted by Svaz
        more like Shad-hoe God am I right haha
        Originally posted by mellon_collie
        TIL women have breasts because of horniness
        Originally posted by bugkid666
        sunfan I fucked up
        Originally posted by MixMasterLar
        Xel claiming that I am incapable of making mistakes and using that logic to paint me as scum does things to my body that I thought only Lewdy's stash could do

        Originally posted by Funnygurl555
        your hentai collection is commendable. i am both in awe and afraid of you
        Originally posted by DaBackpack
        might quit having sex every day and focus more on shooting myself in the testicles with an elephant gun

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        • mellonxcollie
          Sectional Moderator
          Sectional Moderator
          • Dec 2006
          • 1298

          #139
          Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

          what ground has been made in this thread realistically?

          I still don't get what the actual problem is, or the solution being proposed

          this honestly just seems like drama at this point ngl
          Follow my dog on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Riles_puppy

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          • Shadow_God_10
            Somewhere, but not here
            FFR Simfile Author
            • Mar 2006
            • 2218

            #140
            Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

            Originally posted by mellonxcollie
            what ground has been made in this thread realistically?

            I still don't get what the actual problem is, or the solution being proposed

            this honestly just seems like drama at this point ngl
            This

            Originally posted by Svaz
            more like Shad-hoe God am I right haha
            Originally posted by mellon_collie
            TIL women have breasts because of horniness
            Originally posted by bugkid666
            sunfan I fucked up
            Originally posted by MixMasterLar
            Xel claiming that I am incapable of making mistakes and using that logic to paint me as scum does things to my body that I thought only Lewdy's stash could do

            Originally posted by Funnygurl555
            your hentai collection is commendable. i am both in awe and afraid of you
            Originally posted by DaBackpack
            might quit having sex every day and focus more on shooting myself in the testicles with an elephant gun

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            • T-Force
              Your world ends with you
              FFR Simfile Author
              • Jan 2007
              • 4753

              #141
              Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

              Re: Among Us, I know that's actually encouraged a friend to play (again. They played one game several years ago. I wonder if anyone can figure out who).
              With that said, a jTWG-esque Turbo, or just a basic Turbo would be cool to roll, imo. I know I'd sign up for it.
              Life is simply unfair... Don't you think?

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              • Shadow_God_10
                Somewhere, but not here
                FFR Simfile Author
                • Mar 2006
                • 2218

                #142
                Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                Originally posted by T-Force
                Re: Among Us, I know that's actually encouraged a friend to play (again. They played one game several years ago. I wonder if anyone can figure out who).
                With that said, a jTWG-esque Turbo, or just a basic Turbo would be cool to roll, imo. I know I'd sign up for it.
                What I was thinking was a jTWG turbo with all the fresh recruits we have

                We watch and cackle in delight as they argue with each other and vote town off one by one until the wolf gets tired of pulling the charade and gives up
                Last edited by Shadow_God_10; 10-20-2020, 11:07 PM. Reason: Forgot the good part

                Originally posted by Svaz
                more like Shad-hoe God am I right haha
                Originally posted by mellon_collie
                TIL women have breasts because of horniness
                Originally posted by bugkid666
                sunfan I fucked up
                Originally posted by MixMasterLar
                Xel claiming that I am incapable of making mistakes and using that logic to paint me as scum does things to my body that I thought only Lewdy's stash could do

                Originally posted by Funnygurl555
                your hentai collection is commendable. i am both in awe and afraid of you
                Originally posted by DaBackpack
                might quit having sex every day and focus more on shooting myself in the testicles with an elephant gun

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                • T-Force
                  Your world ends with you
                  FFR Simfile Author
                  • Jan 2007
                  • 4753

                  #143
                  Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                  Funny thing is that's happened.. a wolf actually committed seppuku in F3 because of the stress. Either that or it was a town.

                  Either way, watching the all Team Quebec F3 end that way was shocking, to say the least.
                  Life is simply unfair... Don't you think?

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                  • the sun fan
                    FFR Player
                    • Mar 2017
                    • 643

                    #144
                    Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                    Originally posted by XelNya
                    You're fucking kidding right?

                    Is everyone here five? Two? How old is everyone? Maybe fresh out?

                    That's what it feels like.

                    How can no one read those posts and understand the amount of intentionally blowing it out of proportion for effect those posts are? It's not toxic, it's hyperbole.

                    I thought reading between the lines was a game mechanic, apparently everyone here is shockingly shit at it.

                    An actual pity imho.
                    I'm not kidding
                    lambast me all you want, its not good for the environment of the games
                    TWG Stats: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets...it?usp=sharing

                    FFR is a pretty good place somehow.

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                    • the sun fan
                      FFR Player
                      • Mar 2017
                      • 643

                      #145
                      Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                      Originally posted by roundbox
                      Fair enough. Wasn't meaning to misrepresent anything in my post.
                      He was still agreed upon as being too much by the community.



                      Can you tell us what you mean by "move forward with"? It's still a bit vague.
                      I mean like
                      its a hard question to answer, and it'll still always be vague

                      but I do want a general shift towards just being decent people inside the game, that's the simplest way I can put it
                      TWG Stats: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets...it?usp=sharing

                      FFR is a pretty good place somehow.

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                      • Shadow_God_10
                        Somewhere, but not here
                        FFR Simfile Author
                        • Mar 2006
                        • 2218

                        #146
                        Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                        Originally posted by the sun fan
                        I mean like
                        its a hard question to answer, and it'll still always be vague

                        but I do want a general shift towards just being decent people inside the game, that's the simplest way I can put it
                        Does this involve more memeing or less memeing?

                        I am serious about my Rias Gremory post.

                        Originally posted by Svaz
                        more like Shad-hoe God am I right haha
                        Originally posted by mellon_collie
                        TIL women have breasts because of horniness
                        Originally posted by bugkid666
                        sunfan I fucked up
                        Originally posted by MixMasterLar
                        Xel claiming that I am incapable of making mistakes and using that logic to paint me as scum does things to my body that I thought only Lewdy's stash could do

                        Originally posted by Funnygurl555
                        your hentai collection is commendable. i am both in awe and afraid of you
                        Originally posted by DaBackpack
                        might quit having sex every day and focus more on shooting myself in the testicles with an elephant gun

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                        • Bolth mannn
                          FFR Veteran
                          • Aug 2008
                          • 2228

                          #147
                          Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                          Originally posted by mellonxcollie
                          what ground has been made in this thread realistically?

                          I still don't get what the actual problem is, or the solution being proposed

                          this honestly just seems like drama at this point ngl
                          No ground is being made because the people who the thread is targeting are refusing to find fault in their ways and the people who recognise the problem aren’t able to identify a realistic solution.

                          I really echo what Makilaz has been suggesting, and agree a lot with what Roundbox posted as well.

                          Could it be as simple as disallowing personal insults? I’m sure there’s negatives to this too, but for sake of coming up with a tangible solution, I’ll start here I guess.

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                          • roundbox
                            fhqwhgads
                            • Feb 2005
                            • 2077

                            #148
                            Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                            I feel like very little has been done in engaging with my post. Let me roll my sleeves up a bit

                            First, for those that did respond: thanks. FG, to answer your question, pointed and cutthroat play used to be the rule, not the exception. Over time, I feel like it's become the exception, not the rule of general player behaviour.

                            Now, can we try and engage some of the points I've made? I feel like things are moving forward without nearly any consideration of my contributions.
                            -We've agreed unanimously as a community when certain people are stepping far out of line
                            -Overt rudeness and harshness, I feel, has decreased
                            -As a previous offender, I pointed to my downward trend of spiciness. Deadchats, as they stand, are breeding grounds for personal attacks.
                            -Getting heated and emotional is anticipated in a longer game. How do we draw the line to moderate this? Is it even something we can define?
                            -Implicit bias controls the hierarchy of vote/read importance. There is a clear divide in newness/experience. Perceived skill/lack of skill. Male/female or other. As someone who occupies the beneficial side of all these equations, I look back on situations where I've not believed someone's read or taken as seriously as another due to some of these.

                            I don't know. That's really how I feel at this point. This whole thing just feels like decisions are being made in the background without too much being said in this thread. My understanding is that at least one person in the game had a bad time. Maybe this is wrong, but work with me here as I'm in the dark. There are absolutely, unequivocally, zero problems with someone having a problem with another user's behaviour. I've had chats with TWG mods about individual players, so I've been there. However, this was dealt with in private. Why this thread? It just feels like we're putting Lewdy, Lar, and Xel on display. Why not talk to them in private? Why does this have to be aired out here with people taking potshots and low blows?

                            The thread started off by proposing adding another mod. Now we're up to adding two more? Where did this come from? It seems like conversations going on outside of this thread are influencing decisions and not what's being discussed here. I feel like what I'm saying is falling on deaf ears.

                            -What is the idea moving forward? This is still not clear. I've only heard "more mods," but what specific aspects of behaviour or code of conduct content is being pondered?
                            -To achieve meaningful change, first, you must have acknowledgement. After that, you can discuss solutions. I don't feel like we've hit either of these stages.

                            I don't want FFR to die. Hell, I submitted a 13 player game to Freezin earlier. Please, someone, elucidate me.
                            Originally posted by the sun fan
                            I'd be too tiny to be a bouncer



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                            • Shadow_God_10
                              Somewhere, but not here
                              FFR Simfile Author
                              • Mar 2006
                              • 2218

                              #149
                              Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                              Originally posted by Bolth mannn
                              No ground is being made because the people who the thread is targeting are refusing to find fault in their ways and the people who recognise the problem aren’t able to identify a realistic solution.

                              I really echo what Makilaz has been suggesting, and agree a lot with what Roundbox posted as well.

                              Could it be as simple as disallowing personal insults? I’m sure there’s negatives to this too, but for sake of coming up with a tangible solution, I’ll start here I guess.
                              This begs the question of "what's a personal insult?" which is a can of worms that I'm sure no one really cares to open.

                              Like generally saying "You're an idiot, lmao" is not an insult

                              Telling someone "Your IQ is so fucking low, I'd have to give you a shovel and three weeks in order for you to find a single point" is an insult.

                              Originally posted by Svaz
                              more like Shad-hoe God am I right haha
                              Originally posted by mellon_collie
                              TIL women have breasts because of horniness
                              Originally posted by bugkid666
                              sunfan I fucked up
                              Originally posted by MixMasterLar
                              Xel claiming that I am incapable of making mistakes and using that logic to paint me as scum does things to my body that I thought only Lewdy's stash could do

                              Originally posted by Funnygurl555
                              your hentai collection is commendable. i am both in awe and afraid of you
                              Originally posted by DaBackpack
                              might quit having sex every day and focus more on shooting myself in the testicles with an elephant gun

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                              • mellonxcollie
                                Sectional Moderator
                                Sectional Moderator
                                • Dec 2006
                                • 1298

                                #150
                                Re: On the subject of Toxicity/Community Check-in (TWG)

                                Originally posted by Bolth mannn
                                the people who the thread is targeting
                                yet twg posts are toxic
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